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Old 05-09-2013, 08:49 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

Thanks for all the advice bros.
As i have said, its not about the money because it was not even a subject until i demanded to know further about her problems. And she did not showed any indication about hinting on that subject or personal matters regarding difficulties with finance and/or where it was the main reason.

To bro KangTuo: I hear you, though its abit hard as i've left already and cant physically be there.. When you're there with her its so much easier to sort out all the problems and discuss and tâm sự with each other, but when youre thousands of miles away things get complicated, and misunderstandings happens..
We've already had several big fights while talking, and 2 times almost broke up because of the things said and escalated.. I think we have a ok understanding of each others standpoints now but the issue regarding her escorting and past still remains. and its because of this that my distrust in her wont go away.. always thinking "what else"..

Today i caught her in a lie about where she was sleeping.. earlier on the day she said she would go home and sleep because once you go outside living you cant always sleep at the M place, only occasionally. Turns out she is doing it today?!? didnt call or sms me this evening. when i txted her viber she didnt answer even though it was "seen" 10min after, and finally when i called her 1h later she answered after awhile and also lied that she slept at the Mplace but it wasnt coherent... i told her to put on video but she wouldnt and got angry. She hang up and we viber.. i called her on the incoherence and then she admitted and said she was sleeping.. "dang ngu voj traj". I dont even know anymore if its out of spite because i dont trust her or if its real anymore..
How do i handle this situation Besides breaking up??