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Originally Posted by littleleroy
Currently, i am caught in between my wife and my family. My wife is in a very bad and hostile relationship withmy sister. we're currently living with my parents and siblings under one roof.
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this is very common case...relationship deteriorate because of after birth...think your wife suffered from after birth depression and over protective of baby...typical of VB loving the baby...
I dun think there is an immediate solution but a patient approach...sit down and listen to both sides story...then counsel your sister...request her not to on TV and computer too loudly when baby is trying to sleep...
be more caring and considerate to your baxa...she needs your full support now...if you can afford it bring her to a psychiatrist for counseling...try to help your baxa take care of baby too...
create a routine for the baby...that is play with baby till baby tired then can sleep soundly even with all the noises...not a good time to let baby sleep from 7pm to 10pm...play with the baby and at 10pm full feed bottle and sure baby will sleep very soundly till next morning...dun even bother to feed in between till 6am another round of feed...this way both parents and family have good rest at nite...