A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...

[soblur]

Not sure if this is the correct place to ask, but I really would like some opinions on this.

Have this really good buddy that I somehow ended up fucking twice. Thing is I'm the sort that if anything happens between me and the girl, I feel an obligation to take up responsibility for it (that's how me and some of my ex-gfs started (unfortunately)). But for her case, after it happened, she treated it as though nothing had happened. Both times lor. That really gets me wondering, what is she thinking???

Any opinions?

Oh, forgot to mention, frankly I do kinda like her, but yet somehow feel apprehensive about expressing my feelings. Maybe afraid of rejection or that it'd spoil our friendship.

[asdfghjkl]

erm.. blur nick? oic.. think u should confront her?

ask her how she feel about u whether u 2 haf chance to further it on..or wait n c...drop her hintz

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by uglyger

or wait n c..

procastination is the enemy of success..

too fast alz o cannot lar...all my r/z dun work out coz too fast le

[soblur]

Well, another reason why I'm apprehensive also is cos I have qualms about having someone like her as a gf. Having been out clubbing with her so often, her getting approached (almost always), her dressing, her behavior with her friends etc. all leave me feeling that if I were her bf, I'd definitely feel really insecure.

[asdfghjkl]

yep.. ur sub conscience has spoken and told you the answer already..

well then i suggezt wait.....maybe it'z juz an infatuation

[Eternity_Gal]

if u like the gal, u should be bold to express ur feelings.. I wonder how come a guy can be so undecisive in making ur choice whether to get the gal or not..Tell u one tip: ur gd friend might be flinging, she may not like you at all... So, the next time you ask her out, try to be more daring. Look into her eyes and see her reaction lol.. U 'll know whether it's a fling or real love..

[asdfghjkl]

ET is a lao jiao when it comes to bgr.. asking her about relationships is akin to asking zhuge liang about war strategies.. lol

[Eternity_Gal]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

ET is a lao jiao when it comes to bgr.. asking her about relationships is akin to asking zhuge liang about war strategies.. lol

aiya.. I'm only just slightly above the surface.. there 're more seniors who are better in handling these.. hah.. and dont think too much.. even she turn u down, there are still others nice gals..

[pexter]

Originally Posted by soblur

Well, another reason why I'm apprehensive also is cos I have qualms about having someone like her as a gf. Having been out clubbing with her so often, her getting approached (almost always), her dressing, her behavior with her friends etc. all leave me feeling that if I were her bf, I'd definitely feel really insecure.

There there, deep down u already have ur answer... so listen to ur heart, not ur brain. Coz sometimes ur heart gives u the answer to ur problems...

[WWEF]

Originally Posted by soblur

Oh, forgot to mention, frankly I do kinda like her, but yet somehow feel apprehensive about expressing my feelings. Maybe afraid of rejection or that it'd spoil our friendship.

Even if she pretends nothing happen at all, there is still a chance she might have feelings 4 u too. Some woman can really act "not interested" very well.
Hope u find the guts to tell her soon, even if that means risking yr friendship with her. Anyway thats just my Personal Opinion only.
GOOD LUCK WITH HER!

Originally Posted by soblur

Not sure if this is the correct place to ask, but I really would like some opinions on this.

Any opinions?

Oh, forgot to mention, frankly I do kinda like her, but yet somehow feel apprehensive about expressing my feelings. Maybe afraid of rejection or that it'd spoil our friendship.

Well, don;t be surprise that she might ve the same feelings as you too, didn't wanna lose a close buddy, yet unable to resist the kinda of touchy comfort from someone so close...................., my opinion, a rather bastard one, why spoil this relationship, if she like it this way, so be it............. things might not turns up good if the two of you starts to get together....... so why not let it remain as it is.......

[soblur]

Originally Posted by Eternity_Gal

if u like the gal, u should be bold to express ur feelings.. I wonder how come a guy can be so undecisive in making ur choice whether to get the gal or not..Tell u one tip: ur gd friend might be flinging, she may not like you at all... So, the next time you ask her out, try to be more daring. Look into her eyes and see her reaction lol.. U 'll know whether it's a fling or real love..

Ah? See her reaction? How to tell the diff?