How to tell if a guy is just after sex rather than a relationship?

[benice]

in this day and age looks like almost every guy is just desperate for sex. but not all. when they go after a girl, it can be for sex only, can be rs + sex, very rarely rs without sex.

how to tell if a guy is just after a girl for sex or if he really like the girl?
if y just want to get into a girl's pants, after got rejected, will y just cut off and vanish? or y still keep in touch with the girl? if y don't cut off, is it because y r just hoping she will change her mind and spread her legs one day?

wat r common pick up lines for sex?
also what excuses one often use to cover up their real intentions after got turned down on sex?

wats your view?

cheers

[Chilloutsex]

Camping here for answers! An top burning questions for most ladies.

[eozei]

I feel that sex should be part and parcel of any relationship. Of course it should only be done after both parties are comfortable, but the lack of sex could belie something about the relationship. The lack of sex could mean that the girl is not serious about the relationship or that her morals are drastically different from mine (which could lead to other issues further down the road).

That being said, it should be fairly clear whether a guy is into a girl merely for sex. A guy that withdraws from a girl because of one rejection or that doesn't participate in any other regular relationship activity (movies, shopping, simple time spent together) is clearly into it for the sex.

Honestly, ladies, if you suspect he's into it only for the sex, its a good time for a talk.

On the other end of the spectrum, girl that cannot accept that sex is in fact part of a healthy relationship is outside my radar. At risk of offending female forummers, I would say that she is naive.

[Brainstorm]

Ask him to bring you home and introduce you to his family before you have sex with him. His family members' response to you will tell you if he is being serious with you. If his family genuinely wants to know you, then maybe he is serious about you. If his family members are rather cold to you, then maybe u are just one of the many girls he brings home. Too many for them to bother to remember your name or to know u.

[cataramp]

Sex is something that shouldnt be forced into.. If he force his luck without you giving the green light, whats the point? That shows how much he care for you ya?

And, If the guy only want sex, he will not bring you to meet his parents and relative..

Anyway sex is not a must in a r/s, however sex definitely helps to strenghten the r/s and 感情 imo

[SammyNewbie]

I cannot help but feel this is a clone of Edyta or babycath. Whoever created the nick must possibly be a troll male teenager or a female with daddy issues that likes married men.

Tainted angels of SBF, You have been warned.

[jj_jj]

Originally Posted by Brainstorm

Ask him to bring you home and introduce you to his family before you have sex with him. His family members' response to you will tell you if he is being serious with you. If his family genuinely wants to know you, then maybe he is serious about you. If his family members are rather cold to you, then maybe u are just one of the many girls he brings home. Too many for them to bother to remember your name or to know u.

This is "show hand". Good one!!

[SammyNewbie]

The guy should run fast fast if meet the parents session happens from either side XD

[Gaia81]

How to tell if a guy is just after sex rather than a relationship?

Easy. Immediately ask him out for sex and if he dumps u the next day....well u know the answer.

[sammyguy1234]

I think just like tv show lor...

guys will try to get touchy while in private then if the girl not those very open type or conversative or just not ready they will retreat from you then usually those decent but horny guy will say "I'm sorry I got carried away" but the RS still continues.

[see see only]

Relationship is a form of gamble ... give what you are willing to lose.

If you feel that this hand is worth betting wth it then go ahead. You will never know the real answer until you leave this world.

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by see see only

Relationship is a form of gamble ... give what you are willing to lose.

If you feel that this hand is worth betting wth it then go ahead. You will never know the real answer until you leave this world.

No wonder e world didn't end on21.12... Too many answers to be handed out to e entire human population o are it in time. OT also no use

But yes...it's all a gamble.. And the bigger risk u willing to take, the higher payouts u may recv..

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by kittymae

No wonder e world didn't end on21.12... Too many answers to be handed out to e entire human population o are it in time. OT also no use

Lol...that's funny!

[bonkning]

Originally Posted by see see only

Relationship is a form of gamble ... give what you are willing to lose.
If you feel that this hand is worth betting wth it then go ahead.

i like this one.

[joncheong]

Very simple, do you think any guy will go after a fat ugly betty who is loving and caring? You will then know if guys are after sex...