HELP! FB Problem

swingersx2 · #1 03-09-2013, 05:24 PM

HELP!

My Singaporean FB (Originally from PRC) wants me to get committed (marry her). She's in her early 30s and desperately wants to settle down. When I respond that I don't intend to marry her, she becomes very sad and moody.

We are both reasonably well-off so money is not a factor and she is definitely not pressuring me to marry her because of money.

I am sure she gets fucked at least once every day, and I am also sure she has gotten fucked by all types of men (Chinese, Ang Mo, Bangla, Malay, Indian etc). She loves to be dominated and I have made her seduce and fuck many men. She promised not to get fucked by other men without my permission and be absolutely obedient after marriage.

She is disease-free, fair and attractive at 1.68m with C cup breast size, has nice long legs and gets hit on without fail every time we visit clubs, partly because she dresses like a whore, and is literally a slut.

If you were in my shoes, what will you do? Will you marry her?

Big Sexy · #2 03-09-2013, 05:48 PM

isnt it easy? get rid of her and get yourself a new, younger fb

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Originally Posted by swingersx2

If you were in my shoes, what will you do? Will you marry her?

supergirl2011 · #3 03-09-2013, 06:03 PM

She maybe pretty but she is 30 plus already. If you intend to have a baby it will be a bit difficult already. Who knows? You can still find a younger, decent and prettier gal.

sammyboyfor · #4 03-09-2013, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by swingersx2

and is literally a slut.

If you were in my shoes, what will you do? Will you marry her?

If you want a slut as a wife and as a mother of your children, by all means go ahead and marry her.

alan2738510 · #5 03-09-2013, 06:34 PM

Hi Bro, you already knew her past history . Down the road will be very tough .................and past issues will Sure be Brought Up and mention. My 2 cents point of View .

swingersx2 · #6 03-09-2013, 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by supergirl2011

She maybe pretty but she is 30 plus already. If you intend to have a baby it will be a bit difficult already. Who knows? You can still find a younger, decent and prettier gal.

Trouble is that we have some feelings for each other, and finding someone better might not be that easy.

supergirl2011 · #7 03-09-2013, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by swingersx2

Trouble is that we have some feelings for each other, and finding someone better might not be that easy.

Don't you worry that she will still seduce other guys when the two of you are married already? Well, we cannot judge how deep your feelings is for each other by the limited infos you posted... but like what the song says "It's hard to belong to someone else when the right one comes along..." The fact that you asked here about her interest to marry you is you are not sure if she is the right one. Why not try to imagine getting married with her and reciting the wedding vows to see what you will feel?

ramon · #8 03-09-2013, 07:13 PM

Go get married. There are lots of swinging couples, so it doesn't mean you can't swing both ways after marriage, as long as both of you embrace this sort of lifestyle.

kittymae · #9 03-09-2013, 08:13 PM

Well, you said it, she desperately wants to settle down.
If you marry here on that basis, it may not work out
But the decision is yours, this just my two cents worth

hamsapkwai · #10 03-09-2013, 08:34 PM

sounds like a good catch , i encourage you to go marry her

at least that should keep you busy and away from message boards like these where you troll all the uncles

Ho-Lee · #11 03-09-2013, 08:38 PM

Marry her be a responsible man. You got nothing to lose.

swingersx2 · #12 03-09-2013, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Ho-Lee

Marry her be a responsible man. You got nothing to lose.

What has marrying her got to do with being a responsible man?

swingersx2 · #13 03-09-2013, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by kittymae

Well, you said it, she desperately wants to settle down.
If you marry here on that basis, it may not work out
But the decision is yours, this just my two cents worth

So don't marry her because she desperately wants to settle down?

swingersx2 · #14 03-09-2013, 08:57 PM

Pros:
Attractive
Financially well-off
Mature character

Cons:
Fuck many men
Slutty
Fond of seducing men
Exhibitionist

The last 3 cons can also be pros depending on personal preferences. I am quite sure that she will stop fucking other men after marriage as she is willing to transfer her Meyer Rd property to me as a form of her guarantee that the marriage will work out. I don't think I will go ahead with the transfer even if we do get married as I will need to pay the additional 10% buyer stamp duty. For divorce due to her adultery, she is not entitled to a her share of my assets and vice versa.

Jamesleejamesle · #15 03-09-2013, 09:08 PM

Bro, tell her to find someone for a few months, and for u also to find another for a few months.
If u guys still feel the same after the few months, then go forth n marry her. Be ready for the consequences, tho. U never know when u go for a party which one of those guys fucked her before. For tt matter, when u guys go out together, which bangra has sucked her tits and licked her cunt before.
If u still feel the same way, go bro, go and marry her.
As one of the bro said before, u shd look for a younger one. I know many guys in their 50s and 60s marrying mid 20s chicks...
Given a choice, I will take the young chicks. Of course, i m not u. so, i dont know how u feel. U ur self said, tt u are relatively well off. A number of the singapore ladies here are very practical people. If u are average looking, have a good heart n good standing (with money), then u are a good catch.
Many delicious fishes in the sea...give them a chance to taste u...