Your personal view of when to get married?

[Humpy Dumpty]

A lot of senior heads around. What's your opinion on what age or stage of life to get married?

If you could do it again would you have done it earlier or later in life?

[Max77]

Love and Marriage, which is more complicated?

[Sexy Under]

Have sex first.

Good sex - room for advancement

Poor sex - sayonara!

People mature and change with time.

No ideal time to get married.

It's how you manage your marriage.

[arrdwolf_77]

I rather not. Made my worst decision in my whole life. My best buddy flew back to stop me. He told me I made the wrong decision 2 years back, I don't want you to make the same decision. Please think carefully! I really regret not listening to him.

Our income is easily 5 figure, already acquire some fixed assets before 30s. Could have an easy life but now!!!! Sex is no good, nothing is good.

[jazp]

Originally Posted by arrdwolf_77

I rather not. Made my worst decision in my whole life. My best buddy flew back to stop me. He told me I made the wrong decision 2 years back, I don't want you to make the same decision. Please think carefully! I really regret not listening to him.

Our income is easily 5 figure, already acquire some fixed assets before 30s. Could have an easy life but now!!!! Sex is no good, nothing is good.

bro, dont mind me asking.. is your wife the very very pretty type?

[Asdf12345]

To me sex is nothing looks as long as not chui, you should get a good tempered and nature girl. Trust me it's very hard to find..I'm receiving verbal abuse everyday and the only thing I look forwRd is my baby.

Trust me that I'm the best father that do what a mother can do and a housewife can(except breast feeding lol) but my OC always come find trouble. Even my in laws family feel paiseh towards me. What I feel for wife is roommate and not even family as I don't like her as a person. I do not know how we got into marriage but I was too overwhelm to divorce or end. Too much implications. I do not have affair apart from pay and go service. No string attached and 1 every 3 months.

Just be natural about it and remember don't compromise. Be your true self. Girls reveal color within 6 mths while we guys tolerate til no love then explode. It's a fault that I made.

[hornynroh]

To the many bro that responded I totally agreed if u feel that u r not comfortable please don't even think she will change for you bullshit ... Hahaha stay happy and single.. Life will be great .. U can live life to the max high life different holes... I'm making a 5 fig salary now... If I'm a single ... Fast cars... Nice apartment and hoo hoo hoo... In my dreams it won't happen in my life man...

[Serenade]

Marry the woman who is your best friend, and whom you have plenty of common interests with.

Then you will have company to do the things you both like best. Even after the babies come, and priority of sex declines, you will still have someone to talk to graciously and never be lonely.

I did not choose wisely according to this criteria, and am regretting ever getting married to woman where we have little in common.

[djuan6453]

Originally Posted by Serenade

Marry the woman who is your best friend, and whom you have plenty of common interests with.

Then you will have company to do the things you both like best. Even after the babies come, and priority of sex declines, you will still have someone to talk to graciously and never be lonely.

I did not choose wisely according to this criteria, and am regretting ever getting married to woman where we have little in common.

Wise words.

[decipher]

Originally Posted by Serenade

Marry the woman who is your best friend, and whom you have plenty of common interests with.

Then you will have company to do the things you both like best. Even after the babies come, and priority of sex declines, you will still have someone to talk to graciously and never be lonely.

I did not choose wisely according to this criteria, and am regretting ever getting married to woman where we have little in common.

good advice.

[biasaigon]

I will still marry earlier rather than later. Have more time to see the kids grow up.

[freezetheDB]

sex is not a good gauge because people change over time. If sex is good one can always opt to be FB or just gf, but a wife is someone whom you would like to share your life with.

[leekwantew]

Originally Posted by Sexy Under

Have sex first.

Good sex - room for advancement

Poor sex - sayonara!

People mature and change with time.

No ideal time to get married.

It's how you manage your marriage.

haha we're complete opposites

If i get a GF that I'm serious about; sex would be the least impt thing on my mind

Something about loving a person for who and what they are and doing all those naughty things to them in bed just seems to conflict to me

[sundial]

Originally Posted by leekwantew

haha we're complete opposites

If i get a GF that I'm serious about; sex would be the least impt thing on my mind

Something about loving a person for who and what they are and doing all those naughty things to them in bed just seems to conflict to me

True love mainly happens only in fairytales.

the only thing i am still in my marriage is my 3 year old son.
I almost divorce 2 years ago. if not because of my son i would have proceed.
Now she is only a friend at home and I love to travel for work.
I only miss my boy now.
and yes i am earning 5 figures, drive a merc, owns the bank lost of money, owns a few properties but unhappy. Missing something in life.

[xxFTOxx]

Later for me....the better it is. Having so much fun now being single. The moment u get married and have a kid...out goes that nice little Porsche u have been dreaming of. Lolz btw I not in Sg ah...cars here a lil more affordable.