Seeking older female FWB

[Lostlustyluke]

Hello. I hope I came to the right place because I'm truly abit lost in all this. I hope that I won't get judged too much.

Background about myself:

Im currently a 24 year old undergraduate. Im technically Malay though Im mixed blood and look quite Chinese (2 of my grandparents are Chinese who married Malays).

Looks wise, I think Im pretty decent looking face wise but I am quite big sized. I stand 1.8m tall and weigh 90kg. While the weight may look quite heavy, it's actually because I pack on muscles for the sport I do, though I wouldnt say Im super ripped either.


What Im looking for:

In every day life, I normally take control for alot of things. I was ex-co-captain of my team, I normally always lead project discussions and Im generally a dominant figure in the groups I am in.

But taking control over everything is very tiring. Im looking for someone, preferably OLDER (though younger is fine) who would boss me around abit and tell me what to do in bed. I think it is an absolute turn-on. However, Im not really into the BDSM thing, so I wouldn't like getting slapped or hit or get my body tied or anything. Just prefer a woman who knows what she wants and not afraid to demand it.

Not looking for girlfriend because can't really commit time into a relationship. I have school 5 days a week, gym + run 3 to 4 times a week and sports training to attend to 3 times a week. Would be unfair to the lady cause I wouldn't have time for her.

Preference
Gender : Female
Race : Chinese (not being racist to my own race, but I was raised in a Chinese environment)
Looks : Average onwards
Height : Doesnt matter (though if you are short but dominant, it will be a plus for me)
Weight : Preferably not overweight, but a little tummy is ok
Age : Preferably older than 24-40. Older than 40 still ok if you still look decent
Boobs : Doesn't matter
Body : As long as not overweight
Smoker / Drinker / Tattoos : Doesn't really matter, though I think Tattoos are hot.
Personality : I think this is most important. Would want someone who can take control and take charge. Prefer someone intelligent as well, who can hold a decent conversation.
Others : Well, I am 24 and still studying so I don't really have my own place. Would be great if you could host

I hope this isn't a strange request. It's difficult for me to find a someone older who would want a younger man. Pretty sure I wont find anyone here as well, but I guess ill just put this out there and try. Oh, and Im not looking for money on this (not sugar mommy).

PS : Well, this is slightly embarrassing but Im still a virgin. I used to avoid sex cause my religion taught me that it was wrong. But during Uni education and thinking alot about things, Ive grown out of it and would just want to be myself. Hope this isnt a deal-breaker.