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16-11-2009, 04:42 AM
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As time goes by....
in my younger days i never tot of falling in love, getting married and be happily ever after with the ONE you love.....
i started to hv "FUN" only..."SEX" is like a game i like to play...till i met ex BLue Uncle...i STopped all the "FUN" and love him only....even tots of hving baby wif him...BUT after 3 yrs...it does turned OUT well...i left him... Now BacK to Square ONE again...i started to have "FUN" only....till a point i FInd its...kind of EMpty in the heart after each SexSsion.... MayBe I had felt the different between hving SEX and making LOVE..... i miss making LOVE...  ((guess tat is how MAN and WOman different..god i wish i was a MAN )) BitCH Blue AUntie 
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16-11-2009, 11:19 AM
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Re: As time goes by....
Just some musing of my own .... bear with me.
When I was in my 20s, I was into women and tend to be selfish. Found that in late 30s, found older women more attractive, and also have become a more considerate lover (e.g. wants to pleasure, need not climax etc). Point is that our needs and desires change with time. Life is short, try to be happy and live without regrets. Hope that you will find your happiness. 
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16-11-2009, 12:34 PM
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Re: As time goes by....
bluegal
you started wrong.. it is time to change and make sure you end it correctly. don't be just a piece meat to others for the rest of your life.. damn the fuck buddy you need a real companion..  Quote:
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16-11-2009, 12:54 PM
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O tat's explained why dont see your post for a while
BTW man will too desire for love making. It all depends on the urge level lah. Some bros will never visit FL even though they dont mind KTV gals. No matter how desperate they are, they rather HJ themselves oso dont go for FL. Statement quoted by them is "FL? No feeling at all" As for your ....., we really have to start facing the reality as age goes. Our Hierarchy of "want" increases everyday. We will no longer be sextify by one who is just caring, loving or some puppy love. Maybe you have moved to the next level when you require power as well, have sex or make love with a man that's own power. OK will the idea of making love with some real famous & rich man make you horny? 
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16-11-2009, 12:59 PM
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i wish i can apply somewhere for real companion... Well, its NOt easy...to meet someone n to convince myself there is TRUE LOVE out there....sometiMe i am so tired of feeling game...i would tots of jUSt get a FUCK BUDDY tat all..."CUM" n GO... hmmm...guys pls do not msg me and offer.. i hv no intend to get ..anyone ...tks... am just pouring out the feeling here...
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16-11-2009, 12:59 PM
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That's y u read so many stories of them kena KC and stuff like that. You just need someone to fill in the void in your heart
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16-11-2009, 02:27 PM
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hmmm.. guessed it is a case of "been there, done that".
When I was younger, all I want was to bonk my brains out.. any willing gal will do as long as there is a willing pussy. The idea was to score as many as possible. When I am older, I wanted more out of the bonk - feelings, intimacy, chemistry.. Not just scoring, but I want a score that is GOOD. When I am very much older, and the bonk opportunities dried up, I am back at square one - any willing pussy is good enough. Beggars are not choosers. Live moves on, nothing stays the same.
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#8
16-11-2009, 03:42 PM
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Re: As time goes by....
my dear
you can't have FBs all your life.. they will dump you after a while... enlarge your circle of friends.. try mixing around with people who does social work and have a decent career. Quote:
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#9
16-11-2009, 04:22 PM
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Re: As time goes by....
blue gal...
dont give up on findin true love wo..sure ah got sum1 wil love u as much as u lov him 1..dont look 4 things dat r close n near 2 u (fb's) la..try 2 luk 4 things dat r far away from ur sight..its like go 2 library eh,u tot gettin e book dats easy 2 reach 4 u (lower shelfs) den ah u found out is not wat u wan 1 eh.try 2 luk 4 e higher shelfs or hidden corner shelfs den ah u mite like e book dat u had found eh..dey r waitin 4 u quietly in a corner,hopin 2 b found by u!...heehee ..happy searchin ya!!!
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#10
16-11-2009, 04:52 PM
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Dont be too disheartened by failure, it should better prepare you for the next relationship....Never use sex to fill up the void in your inner heart, it will disorientate your ability to identify true love.
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17-11-2009, 02:20 PM
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Dear TS,
For both men and women, sometimes, people fall into ruts and vicious cycles that they cannot seem to break. Even if their tastes have changed, morals have changed, hearts have changed, their past seems to still persistantly follow them or their futures seem to be intertwined with what they are trying to forget. But always remember, your future is what you deem it to be. Most guys will have expectations of bonking a girl they like. Dat is our hard wire. So it is only natural. However, if a girl goes out thinking that the next guy who wants to chat her up actually wants to lay in bed with her, she is fulfilling a vicious cycle. Just chat back and get to know the guy without any suspicion or pre-determined concepts. You will be surprised at how many guys just wanna be frens. If someone dresses in skimpy clothing and goes out to all the night spots, then chances of hitting a player is of course higher than normal. So break out of your rut and give the world a chance.
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#12
17-11-2009, 03:10 PM
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It sounds to me that you're meeting guys in the WRONG places. Best (but not guaranteed) places to meet nice guys are: 1) Supermarket (these guys can cook!) 2) Library (these guys love to read and learn!) 3) Sporting events (these guys are outdoorsy hunks!) 4) CBD (these guys are mostly professionals!) Worst (but not guaranteed) places to meet nice guys are: 1) Pubs (these guys are looking to score!) 2) Discotheques (these guys are looking for pussy!) 3) Swimming Pools & Gyms (these guys are into more into the physical aspect of a relationship!) 4) Red light districts (what in the blue hells are you doing here?!) Other than that, you could try out LunchActually, JustMovies and some such dating agencies where the guys are more eager to find the same. Of course, it'd be to your advantage if you could keep your "wild" history a secret until you think your would-be life companion can take it or someone spilled the beans.
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#13
19-11-2009, 01:10 PM
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Yr love fate is not here yet. Just be yourself, when time comes, you will feel it. Good luck.
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20-11-2009, 12:47 AM
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someone once told me to not treat myself like a rubbish bin. it's like all the dirty stuffs are deposited into the body. and more importantly, definitely not a sperm toilet.
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20-11-2009, 08:40 AM
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Re: As time goes by....
My 2 cents on this.
In this RS thingy, how the female GIVES will determine if she already make herself meat. Many a times, when there's liking or feeling, at the very infant stage of the RS, the female already gave in sexually to the man liao. Of cos, the man dun lugi, but the gal, well, it's obvious isnt it????? How would a man view his companion whom he may wan to marry if just after, say, less than a week can fuck liao????? How would he view her if only he's allowed to penetrate after a very long & stable relationship? Well, then lets put it simpler. What do you call a man who has fucked 20 women already???? Fucker, playboy......... What do you call a woman who has been fucked by 20 men already???? Slut, whore, loose, easy??????? Actually, women choose to be treated like meat or not. So dun complain if men only treat you like meat, cos you portray that image to them in the 1st place since sex is only a game to you!
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