Lonely Brothers out there..

[studentlover]

For some of the old bird here, maybe you've read my stories and my life ups and downs I've posted here. If you did follow, I was dumped by my girlfriend for another guy last year. And I found another last year too..

Story is, last year, around June, had a bike accident when I was going straight then was hit by a car trying to right turn from opposite lane. Then, was sent to hospital. I was intubated and had a few surgeries down coz I was in a bad shape. So when I got up, I was in a ward already (I stayed in a A2 ward, two person one). I couldn't move my left arm and leg as they were all cast up and two tubes from my chest. During the stay there, got to know a new staff nurse over there. She cleaned my wound, tend to me and BATHE me man.. It was the first time a girl bathe me ever since my mom. Before I got discharged, I took her number. From then on, started to talk to her, and finally managed to ask her out.

After going through so many cheating and girls sticking to me because of money, I decided not to let her know about my business and my wealth. Instead, told her that the private property I stay in, is my father's. We started hanging out and I stopped riding for her over the months and eventually, we got together. Afterwhich, I promised never to ride again and sold off all my bikes (I've three bikes).

Then on the third month together, we celebrated it at some chalet at ubin as I still don't want her to know about my wealth. She gave her first to me. It was the FIRST time, when I took a virgin, the girl cried. Really hard.

So, I decided to let her know of my wealth.. I took her to one of my shop my staff, greeted me and she was stunted. I told her that I'm the boss of the shop. The next minute, she walked out of the shop, crying. She scolded me for lying to her, and not being honest..

Henceforth, she stopped talking to me for a month already.. And I haven't been trying to hook up girls ever since my ex.. And somehow, this nurse here seem to affect me the most..

Any brother out there whose life is also so miserable? Cannot find the special someone?

[n2supersymmetry]

Stick to your guns, you did nothing wrong. She is just your girlfriend and not entitled to know everything about you.
You would think she would be happy to know her bf didn't get his money in some criminal manner . Obviously she didn't like you for you ... she like because you fit some imaginary construct she built and obviously you broke that mold.
She is the one who is losing out; you got your health, a nice income and your life before you. Go live your life to the fullest rather than languish in the past. Life's too short for you to mope around as your little accident can attest

[RealEstateGuy]

She will come around. I think she was in love with a guy who she thought was desitute. But you can explain to her in the past women only loved you for your money. She will come around. Call her and ask her for a chance to explain the hurt you felt in the past and she will open up to you again. Let us know what happens next.

This is a wonderful post not about sexual conquest, weird sex, etc. This is SG society at its true meaning. Of love.

Ask not what SG society can do for you but what you can do for SG society.

[Xgenre]

Treasure her.

1. She loved you for who you are and not what you owned. This type of girl very rare these days.

2. She gave you her most precious gift, her V. It's something she can never get back.

Don't be a blind guy. You can search all over the world for love but can you recognise it when it's standing right in front of your face. You can understand why she's disappointed that you didn't tell her who you are. She gave you her most precious gift yet she doesn't know who she gave it to.

[maestro7]

ts
why dun u call her
dun be too proud if u think she's the one

[me05]

If you think it is worth it, go after her.

This is a normal gal, not the WL. It is worth the effort. Thats my 2 cent worth.

[SDX5]

I wonder why bro posted the title "lonely brothers out there!" It should be "a guy who is lost!"

Bro, your gf left you cos she was upset you lied to her. I thought you can watch such acts in HK drama shows. Bro, if you treasure her, you have to take action now to explain and apologise to her. If she luv you, she should forgive and resume the reln; unless she is one her to not want her half to come from rich family!

So instead of doing nothing and feeling lonely, talk things out with her....all the best!

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by studentlover

Any brother out there whose life is also so miserable? Cannot find the special someone?

huh? even 8 figure annual income can feel miserable? go find some other mei mei la with tat wealth of urs, keep so much $$$ for wat? got $$$ dun scare ppl cheat ma, ppl only scare no $$$ for others to cheat

[hbk88]

sound like fairy tale story . . . if its real, you are consider quite lucky already. much many more people more miserable than you.

anyway, if its yours, it will be yours. Even when you let it go, she will still come back. If it isnt meant to be yours, you lock her up also won't be yours de. let nature take it course . . . . don't be too forceful in a relationship

btw every relationship will seem to be affecting one the most . . . until one had the other =)

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

TS, not sure whether you meant it or not - there are so much people out there millions times worse off than you, yet you are complaining you are miserable at this state

Why not just concentrate on your "business",. be humble & things should eventually go better for you.

[Stud00]

BRO TS,

After reading your story.. i feel a lot for you. my ex left me for another guy with more dough.

But after reading your story about this nurse, there's something special for you two. I guess that she has every right to be upset,cheated of course, but it's not that you had any intention to cheat her. I mean any women would feel upset, after learning that you had not been truthful to her.

I just feel that you should come before her and be truthful, Remember! The truth would set you free..explain to her why you did it, and you did not do it intentionally but because of past bad experiences, kill her with your sincerity. I am sure that she would understand.

If she's a good catch, force yourself and eat the humble pie and don't lose her. I wish you all the best and hope to hear good updates from you!!

[big wood]

bro gems are hard to find after rain hope is sunshine for u dont miss it

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

2. She gave you her most precious gift, her V. It's something she can never get back.

Precious gift???? Who are you kidding.

Nobody values virginity in this day and age. You're obviously still stuck in the dark ages!

The only post pubescent virgins around nowadays are ones that look like this!

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Precious gift???? Who are you kidding.

Nobody values virginity in this day and age. You're obviously still stuck in the dark ages!

I value virginity. If receiving a girl's virginity is a sign that I'm still stuck in the dark ages, then let me be stuck here forever.. I won't mind and I think few other guys here will mind too. Every girl, pretty or otherwise, starts as a virgin. So it's not a fair example to use Susan Boyle. If this conversation took place 10 years ago, I would have included a photo of Britney Spears.

[hamsapkwai]

sorry posted wrongly