What do Ladies look for in a man?

[Stud00]

Hey all,

might seem like a ultra lame question, thats directed to the sisters...
But seriously, what do you look for in a man?

1) Looks?
2) Character?
3) Financial Stability?
4) Good heart?

Etc etc?

[shanewolf]

Camping here for sisters' reply .

[geckoSG]

I asked my lovers and FB before.

1. First Impression always matters. So Looks is important

2. Character. The guy's character will tell everything about what he can do
and what he will do in future. If he's the flirty type. U think he will settle
down faithfully after marriage?

3. Financial. If getting married, this is important. No money no talk.
No one wants to worry everyday on how to make more money. End
up they have to FL to pay debts off.

4. Body size, etc. That's the dating part for her to explore and see if she
minds or not...

[Darina]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

I asked my lovers and FB before.

1. First Impression always matters. So Looks is important

2. Character. The guy's character will tell everything about what he can do
and what he will do in future. If he's the flirty type. U think he will settle
down faithfully after marriage?

3. Financial. If getting married, this is important. No money no talk.
No one wants to worry everyday on how to make more money. End
up they have to FL to pay debts off.

4. Body size, etc. That's the dating part for her to explore and see if she
minds or not...

Good summary but just to cover more on looks; looks don't need to be very good looking. Just as long as presentable and can imagine being in bed with him can liao. Grooming and personal hygiene is very important. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than a bad smelling guy!

Also a lot of girls look at the 'potential to succeed' in a guy. You can be poor now but if you have the right attitude etc the girl is likely to be willing to go through the hard and rough times with you. However, if you are the type who have the loser mentality, good luck in finding a girl to tough it out with you because the current situation will never change.

[rauldon]

$$$ is always the truth cause even she loves u now if u r married n broke u

cant support the family u r in deep shit man ..hats life n that's a fact

[smartke]

Originally Posted by Darina

Also a lot of girls look at the 'potential to succeed' in a guy. You can be poor now but if you have the right attitude etc the girl is likely to be willing to go through the hard and rough times with you. However, if you are the type who have the loser mentality, good luck in finding a girl to tough it out with you because the current situation will never change.

hmmm... somethin like investin in stock market... See -> Understand -> Analyze -> Finalize -> Strike!

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by smartke

hmmm... somethin like investin in stock market... See -> Understand -> Analyze -> Finalize -> Strike!

It is more like buy 4D. Dream of 4 digits --> buy 100 Big 100 Small --> pray you tio --> Boh Tio/ Tio ---< Repeat

[callmebad]

assuming you're referring to normal ladies, I think most of them are looking for a 'shoulder to cry on' !
someone who is reliable!

[smartke]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

It is more like buy 4D. Dream of 4 digits --> buy 100 Big 100 Small --> pray you tio --> Boh Tio/ Tio ---< Repeat

lolx... not so jialat la... thou i do agree "luck" is one of the factor.

[indubitable]

'Looks' usually matters as first impression. But if the guy was seen getting off a damn sexy sports car then his lorry bashed face will appear like a prince's.

[HCKing]

also depends on which stages of life the woman is in.

if xiao mei mei stage mostly goes for looks, playability and attention

if OL stage will start to go for commitment and security aka ' what he can provide for me '

lau charbo stage - this one hard to comment. some will want to remain happily single, some turn to religion and some will settle for anyone that comes their way ( no fish prawn also ok la )

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by HCKing

also depends on which stages of life the woman is in.

if xiao mei mei stage mostly goes for looks, playability and attention

if OL stage will start to go for commitment and security aka ' what he can provide for me '

lau charbo stage - this one hard to comment. some will want to remain happily single, some turn to religion and some will settle for anyone that comes their way ( no fish prawn also ok la )

LOL... i like your reply.. its.... errmm.. very detailed.. anyhow, thanks to all for your input.. bros and sis alike.. ))

[matey]

Ladies with money will look for good looking guys. Ladies without money will look for rich guys. It's a very simple equation.

[evildolly]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Hey all,

might seem like a ultra lame question, thats directed to the sisters...
But seriously, what do you look for in a man?

1) Looks?
2) Character?
3) Financial Stability?
4) Good heart?

Etc etc?

1. Average will do. First impression counts.
2. He has to make me laugh because it will tell me that im comfortable with him.
3. Yes. Definitely but need not be rich. When i was young, i thought that love conquers all. Never believe in that bs anymore. Stuck with my ex who was 7 years older than me when he was broke n jobless. Got together with him despite knowing that he is in debt. In the end, he dumped me for a pinoy who moved in with him a month after we broke up and told his friends n colleagues that i was the one who caused him to be in debt.
4. Yes!

[SaintArc]

Different gals give u different answer
Some dnt mind their other half to fool around as long as gt money n freedom can already.
Some dnt mind they r rich or poor as long as happily together can
Some jz wan a simple life, 3 meals enough.
Some loves to compare.
Some dnt mind a wicked face as long as he reallys cares n make her smile always beside her.