how to quit this shit??

[king91]

ever since i started visiting prostitutes 2 years ago i have been stuck at it... occasionally i force myself to go cold turkey and i abstain for 2 months... then i go again....

i studied so hard and ended up in a top uni but my results have now been affected by this addiction... (at least still 3rd class)

how? money isnt a problem to me so u can't tell me to save my money...

even in army i wasnt attracted to join my mongering mates but ironically i started it myself in uni!

i fucking hate myself.

ps: my life is ok. i just hate living this secret life.

[miumiu6464]

Let me know when you manage to quit. From the first hole I fucked in 1995, I hadn't found the way to quit this hobby. Good knows how much I've spend on this hobby.

[king91]

holy crap. i just saw another post in the "affairs of the heart" section.

ill just get some opinions from there then. moderators please close this thread thank you.

and good to know there are other youngins' like me that wanna quit.

[lars]

have u tried hanging out more often? like clubbing and getting to know girls and maybe fucking them instead of prostitutes?

[Gambol]

Originally Posted by king91

ever since i started visiting prostitutes 2 years ago i have been stuck at it... occasionally i force myself to go cold turkey and i abstain for 2 months... then i go again....

i studied so hard and ended up in a top uni but my results have now been affected by this addiction... (at least still 3rd class)

how? money isnt a problem to me so u can't tell me to save my money...

even in army i wasnt attracted to join my mongering mates but ironically i started it myself in uni!

i fucking hate myself.

ps: my life is ok. i just hate living this secret life.

There is a mistrust for women I feel, and a void that needs to be filled.
Something in the past must have trigger you to do that, maybe between your army days till your Uni days.

Two-timed by a girl? Someone you fancy rejected you? Hmm... Do share more.

[johnn]

Originally Posted by king91

ever since i started visiting prostitutes 2 years ago i have been stuck at it... occasionally i force myself to go cold turkey and i abstain for 2 months... then i go again....

i studied so hard and ended up in a top uni but my results have now been affected by this addiction... (at least still 3rd class)

how? money isnt a problem to me so u can't tell me to save my money...

even in army i wasnt attracted to join my mongering mates but ironically i started it myself in uni!

i fucking hate myself.

ps: my life is ok. i just hate living this secret life.

eat less red meat, seafood, or abstain from meat for the start.

[waaaaaa]

find a gf and you might quit.

but seriously, when money is not the issue, why do you need to quit. just take it as an enjoyment. something to look forward to as a reward.

just change your mindset a bit and things will be fine. you are not alone and I dun see a reason to quit for others out there.

[sam91]

Originally Posted by waaaaaa

find a gf and you might quit.

but seriously, when money is not the issue, why do you need to quit. just take it as an enjoyment. something to look forward to as a reward.

just change your mindset a bit and things will be fine. you are not alone and I dun see a reason to quit for others out there.

bro, ts says it is the uni result affecting him a lot by having this hobby.


Seriously how often does ts go cheong?

[gary789]

donate all your money to charity. When no money, you sure will stop.

[sam91]

Originally Posted by johnn

eat less red meat, seafood, or abstain from meat for the start.

U really believe go vegetarian / vegan is the answer ah?


Like tat lagi difficult to find gf n the same shit cycle goes again.


I know myself anyway lol

[sam91]

Originally Posted by gary789

donate all your money to charity. When no money, you sure will stop.

Ts will say he every week or two do big donations liao just like seeing some cat80 geylang prc used to work as farmer thats why her palm is rather rough. This kind of thing 1 does not help but sympathize her = rtf (maybe not e same gal) = donate $

[Johnjames]

Hi bro,

i know how it feels, i too found it hard to quit and i was doing it almost once-twice a week for a yr.

Finally found a GF and force myself to quit.. though the temptation comes back quite often.. i often try the cold turkey method and until today its a really tough inner battle that i struggle quite often not to go back to that path.

if i was single still. why not? but i found a gd gal and i tried my best not to stray still.

the key word is i am still trying hard and struggling to keep myself on the right path..

[The Old Nite]

TS, i also same like u, 1st fuck in 2007 in my NS days, haven't been able to quit till 2012, which means i have been fucking prostitutes for 5 years, finally manage to quit. Its all in my mind, i tell myself that im gonna put a stop to this. And also, fucking own gf is free, prostitutes needs $, but thats not important, the real important is the feeling is totally different. Because the person is someone u noe. Good luck TS, hope u can quit asap !

[Captainoceania77]

Very easy..go and see those STD and HIVs photo guess you will be frighten. Ever since 3 years ago I went for full blood test I had totally quit for good.

[wings4me]

The only way to quit sex is u become an eunuch. If u are normal, u will hv this desire. If u can stay put with 1 gal for ur whole life...u can be considered a holy Saint. So ts, u need to understand this need is not in ur brain only, it is also physically. No way u can stop. U will settle ur needs by going to ur gf, fb, fl. If not, u also settle for pcc.