when unconsummated relationship ends

[Edyta]

Have u ever let ur ex gf leaves without ever having sex with her?
Do u regret it?

[3Dragon]

Shouldn't it be consummated already then be gf?

[justdifferent]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Have u ever let ur ex gf leaves without ever having sex with her?
Do u regret it?

if you're the type of goody-too shoes and both your gf and you are virgins and you both wanna keep it for marriage, yeah then it's cool. if not, it's just someone you love but it might end up in poor sexual compatibility (which, believe it or not is actually important)

anyway, there's no point regretting something that's already happened. you invested time, emotions, money but din't get a fuck and you might feel frustrated. use this as a lesson and ask yourself, what is it you desire the most? would you rather have a sweet relationship that involves no sex, or have a sex crazed gf who has gives you lots of problems and headaches? of course you can try to get the best of both worlds but that's not always possible.

the bottom line is, you gotta know what you want. if sex is that important and bothers you, before going into a serious relationship, if you realize that she is the conservative type who will not let you touch her until marriage, then forget it, don't step in. in the end it will just be frustration as you love and care about her, and don't want to hurt her, but yet you want the sex and don't want to cheat on her.

open your eyes wide, and know what sort of girl you're going into the relationship with. if the sexual compatibility isn't there, it's going to be one hell of a big problems in the future, especially if you really do love her.

[soggypanties]

Yup, happened to me with my 1st love. She left without a word. Fast forward many years later, she was the only one I didn't get to fuck. Now I found her back and have been screwing her brains out everyday for the past few years. I now have a 100% record of consummated relationships

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by 3Dragon

Shouldn't it be consummated already then be gf?

Somehow never had the chance so it didn't happen n we had a big fight n spliy
Btw i m female

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by justdifferent

if you're the type of goody-too shoes and both your gf and you are virgins and you both wanna keep it for marriage, yeah then it's cool. if not, it's just someone you love but it might end up in poor sexual compatibility (which, believe it or not is actually important)

anyway, there's no point regretting something that's already happened. you invested time, emotions, money but din't get a fuck and you might feel frustrated. use this as a lesson and ask yourself, what is it you desire the most? would you rather have a sweet relationship that involves no sex, or have a sex crazed gf who has gives you lots of problems and headaches? of course you can try to get the best of both worlds but that's not always possible.

the bottom line is, you gotta know what you want. if sex is that important and bothers you, before going into a serious relationship, if you realize that she is the conservative type who will not let you touch her until marriage, then forget it, don't step in. in the end it will just be frustration as you love and care about her, and don't want to hurt her, but yet you want the sex and don't want to cheat on her.

open your eyes wide, and know what sort of girl you're going into the relationship with. if the sexual compatibility isn't there, it's going to be one hell of a big problems in the future, especially if you really do love her.

Oops sorry forgot to say i am female. A few guy friends pass remarks like "your ex would regret not screwing u before he lets u go" so i wonder if that what guys generally feels.

[ch33zy]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Oops sorry forgot to say i am female. A few guy friends pass remarks like "your ex would regret not screwing u before he lets u go" so i wonder if that what guys generally feels.

It really depends on each individual.. there's no way for u to generalise based on the feedback here.. but in general, sex is part and parcel for most of the relationships out there..

[nottiguys]

No need to regret. I am sure you will find someone better to have sex in future. Cheers

[lostlilvirg]

I have, twice.

First one I regret cos she wanted to have sex but I was all of "no, you made me promise not to have sex with you until after marriage, you'll regret it in the morning", and then she left me 2 weeks later.

Second one I had no regrets, cos she made my life living hell for 3 years. I was happy to finally get rid of her.

[3Dragon]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Somehow never had the chance so it didn't happen n we had a big fight n spliy
Btw i m female

Then its not much of an issue isn't it? Get a new bf n consummate with him. Or r u in a girl/girl thingy?

If u need help to consummate, I can volunteer my service also.. lol.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by lostlilvirg

I have, twice.

First one I regret cos she wanted to have sex but I was all of "no, you made me promise not to have sex with you until after marriage, you'll regret it in the morning", and then she left me 2 weeks later.

Second one I had no regrets, cos she made my life living hell for 3 years. I was happy to finally get rid of her.

Thanks for sharing. For me i said wait at the start until the time i felt ready we have gone v intimate but nvr all the way. After tht we had a big fight n split. Thats it.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by 3Dragon

Then its not much of an issue isn't it? Get a new bf n consummate with him. Or r u in a girl/girl thingy?

If u need help to consummate, I can volunteer my service also.. lol.

Lol no issue. My guy friends said "call me when u r horny i'll be there in a jiffy!".
Guess u hv the same thots as them. Thks for the offer tho.

[3Dragon]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Lol no issue. My guy friends said "call me when u r horny i'll be there in a jiffy!".
Guess u hv the same thots as them. Thks for the offer tho.

Great minds usually think alike...

[discordpiggy]

TS if you ever need help... here many many will queue up and volunteer to help you out...

So do not hesitate!!!

Start a thread in the Orgies section and begin your interview process... select a few and they will help you do what ever you want.

then NO REGRETS!

good luck!

[naan1974]

TS...it all depends on how you want yr ex BF to feel.
You want him to regret, then you go sleep with his friend
so that they can pass the msg to him. He confirm squeeze
until balls break!