Singaporean Girls / Wives - Not enough sex drive?

[jasonng]

Bros, do you guys think that our Singaporean Girls / Wives do not have enough sex drive? I get quite sick when i am in relationships that I need to ask for sex.... and we guys end up like being in the mercy of the girls...

Do you guys experience so? I have no such problems with my non-singaporean girlfriends.

Its like what some bros say, they think their CB made of gold ....

[Jkin]

Straits Times survey say 50% of local men only want local spouse. But problem is there are too few good SG gals so competition among men (local and foreign) is very keen. End up every guy spoil the market and pamper them like princesses.

Another thing is most SG gals prefer ang moh, so they will only be nice to them whereas treat local guys as servants.

[sexlord]

Originally Posted by jasonng

Its like what some bros say, they think their CB made of gold ....

Their CB not bao kim, they only act bao kim nia.

[bunny]

I share my own actual experince and journey of discovery:

I used to think and feel very upset that I had to like "beg" for sex ... and be the one to initiate it.
As a result I stressed myself silly ....thinking why like that etc. etc.

But on hindsight ... that was me thinking only about myself ... I never put myself in my wife's shoes

Actually they are very stressed ...with work ... and then come home worry about the kids ... and also worry about whether enuf food ... need to go market or super market decide what needs to be bought and what to cook etc... do the kids need new clothes etc... etc...

Very often ... I never think much about it ... and take for granted that things are in good hands .... so feel relaxed and happy and then when I need it ... she say too tired etc. etc. etc... reality is that it is probably true ... and gals are "tuned" differently from guys ... I had a hard time to learning how to accept this ... cos we expect wives to think like us and so when I am turned on ... she shoudl be similarly turned on as well. Sad fact but very true for me

But now I have learnt how to manage my expectations, needs and demand ... and better able to manage my urges now ... when I dun get it I just laugh give a few nice hugs ... kisses tc... and she appreciates it too. if really cannot tahan then can go do HJ .... hahahaha.

Just my honest sharing ... cheers

oh Wives not enuf sex drive cos of work and home stresses ... and they are tuned differently from guys.

[imaginative]

Originally Posted by jasonng

Bros, do you guys think that our Singaporean Girls / Wives do not have enough sex drive? I get quite sick when i am in relationships that I need to ask for sex.... and we guys end up like being in the mercy of the girls...

Do you guys experience so? I have no such problems with my non-singaporean girlfriends.

Its like what some bros say, they think their CB made of gold ....

Not true, it depends on how you set the fire!

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by bunny

I share my own actual experince and journey of discovery:

I used to think and feel very upset that I had to like "beg" for sex ... and be the one to initiate it.
As a result I stressed myself silly ....thinking why like that etc. etc.

But on hindsight ... that was me thinking only about myself ... I never put myself in my wife's shoes

Actually they are very stressed ...with work ... and then come home worry about the kids ... and also worry about whether enuf food ... need to go market or super market decide what needs to be bought and what to cook etc... do the kids need new clothes etc... etc...

Very often ... I never think much about it ... and take for granted that things are in good hands .... so feel relaxed and happy and then when I need it ... she say too tired etc. etc. etc... reality is that it is probably true ... and gals are "tuned" differently from guys ... I had a hard time to learning how to accept this ... cos we expect wives to think like us and so when I am turned on ... she shoudl be similarly turned on as well. Sad fact but very true for me

But now I have learnt how to manage my expectations, needs and demand ... and better able to manage my urges now ... when I dun get it I just laugh give a few nice hugs ... kisses tc... and she appreciates it too. if really cannot tahan then can go do HJ .... hahahaha.

Bunny, without a single doubt, all ur statements are valid. I dont expect wives to fulfill our/men's fantasies, let alone regular sex. And I do agree that when it comes to "turn on", women act differently from men. No doubt about it. That's why we should not solely depend on wives/gfs if our basic needs are not fulfilled.

Eg, if a person is not happy with his/her current pay with the company, he/she has three choices: (a)change a better pay job. (b)work harder and hoping for a promotion cum pay increase. (c)find a sideline job that brings in additional income.

Personally, I will choose (c) and that's why I do go "eat" outside

The choice is urs...

jimbo

[French Poilu]

Maybe because of our conservative culture that causes the girls to be more 'reserve' about sex?

Then again who am I kidding, a good majority are closet whores and wana be sluts. Very few nice local girls around these days.

[asdfghjkl]

but my wife stays at home one ler.. how cum ah?

[French Poilu]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

but my wife stays at home one ler.. how cum ah?

That means she is a good woman and you trained her well!

[curiosityz]

i feel that nowadays singapore girls have more sex drive than last time

[Rw6828]

Originally Posted by curiosityz

i feel that nowadays singapore girls have more sex drive than last time

I don't think it applies to married women who has kids

[bonkers69]

Originally Posted by jng1103

Bunny, without a single doubt, all ur statements are valid. I dont expect wives to fulfill our/men's fantasies, let alone regular sex. And I do agree that when it comes to "turn on", women act differently from men. No doubt about it. That's why we should not solely depend on wives/gfs if our basic needs are not fulfilled.

Eg, if a person is not happy with his/her current pay with the company, he/she has three choices: (a)change a better pay job. (b)work harder and hoping for a promotion cum pay increase. (c)find a sideline job that brings in additional income.

Personally, I will choose (c) and that's why I do go "eat" outside

The choice is urs...

jimbo

Most of them will choose (c) but remember to clean mouth after eaten outside..keke

[epsilon]

Originally Posted by bunny

I share my own actual experince and journey of discovery:

I used to think and feel very upset that I had to like "beg" for sex ... and be the one to initiate it.
As a result I stressed myself silly ....thinking why like that etc. etc.

But on hindsight ... that was me thinking only about myself ... I never put myself in my wife's shoes

Actually they are very stressed ...with work ... and then come home worry about the kids ... and also worry about whether enuf food ... need to go market or super market decide what needs to be bought and what to cook etc... do the kids need new clothes etc... etc...

Very often ... I never think much about it ... and take for granted that things are in good hands .... so feel relaxed and happy and then when I need it ... she say too tired etc. etc. etc... reality is that it is probably true ... and gals are "tuned" differently from guys ... I had a hard time to learning how to accept this ... cos we expect wives to think like us and so when I am turned on ... she shoudl be similarly turned on as well. Sad fact but very true for me

But now I have learnt how to manage my expectations, needs and demand ... and better able to manage my urges now ... when I dun get it I just laugh give a few nice hugs ... kisses tc... and she appreciates it too. if really cannot tahan then can go do HJ .... hahahaha.

Just my honest sharing ... cheers

oh Wives not enuf sex drive cos of work and home stresses ... and they are tuned differently from guys.

My wife also gives me the same excuse...tired or stress....but we dont cook and dont have kid yet.....for me she will ask me to go toilet and HJ..sigh...

[onion_rings]

Originally Posted by epsilon

for me she will ask me to go toilet and HJ..sigh...

Of all places why must yr wife ask u pcc in the toilet? Can't u do it in the living or bed rm? Maybe by doing this u can entice her to do it for u instead

[-SBF-]

[QUOTE=epsilon;1964400]My wife also gives me the same excuse...tired or stress....but we dont cook and dont have kid yet.....for me she will ask me to go toilet and HJ..sigh...[/QUOTE