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26-03-2014, 10:23 AM
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Married man problem
Recently have problem having sex with wife. No affairs or 3rd party, but she keeps having no mood for sex.
Reasons quoted is I dont know how to turn her on. As i keep focus on my career, hence over the yrs, my topics is always towards career serious stuff. She always painful when I enter. How to solve this prob cos Im quick thick. Use jelly also painful So all these makes sex a chore. Sometimes, its so tiring that halfway I dont even feel like having already.. Married man or couples any comments? 
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26-03-2014, 10:50 AM
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Re: Married man problem
Hang on there...sex is not everything in a marriage....
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#3
26-03-2014, 11:00 AM
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Re: Married man problem
Ts, hw old are u? Just curious.
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26-03-2014, 11:36 AM
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Re: Married man problem
Try to avoid talking about work before insertion?
 Seriously though, it sounds like something is turning her off.
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#7
26-03-2014, 11:47 AM
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Re: Married man problem
bro,
women cannot just turn on and off for sex. they are opposite of us. meaning, you got to build that mood up with your wife. starting from the time you open your eyes till the actual action starts. kiss her good morning and before u leave for work, kiss her again. assure her of the little things (like i love u etc) and keep sending short and sweet messages throughout the day. even if it is just a string of emoticons. doing these are to build the mood (since she already told u no mood...build it!) surprise her with a bouquet of flowers (many married couples forgotten they should still go for a date every time/every day). send her fav chocs or sweets. if not a sweet toothed person, send her something to cheer her up. best, send her a sexy lingerie to her office! continue to build that mood... dinner time, go for something memorable to both of u. e.g. the place where u both dine for the first time? memorable kiss location? wedding photo shoot? something to strike a cord with u both? (the feel good thing) she experienced pain bcos she is not sexcited thus not lubricated naturally for your manhood to enter her. we as men need to make it happen...tiring yes, but till you are able to create that conducive environment/mood for your wife, you both will continue to feel this way. make that extra effort. good relationship needs good maintenance just like your career or car or house or so many other things that require maintenance. in time, you and your missus should enjoy your make out... remember to get that moet... 
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#8
26-03-2014, 12:25 PM
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Re: Married man problem
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#9
26-03-2014, 12:27 PM
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Re: Married man problem
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Most married couple or I should said, 95% facing the same problem. So, what are you going to do matter. Cheat or do something else to make yourself stop thinking of it lor.. Last edited by craby125; 26-03-2014 at 12:28 PM. Reason: typo
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#10
26-03-2014, 01:23 PM
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Re: Married man problem
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but everyday people die for money and die without money marriage without sex ? that's why this forum prosper .
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#11
26-03-2014, 01:32 PM
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Re: Married man problem
Xencar,
Gonna open up my blackbook for you in wooing women. First, You must want to have sex,too. If it is a chore to you, then dun waste time starting. Second, take time off to be away from work and preferrably Singapore. It' s too stressful and too many interruptions. Third, women like to be presently surprise. Fourth, Plan a short getaway like to a villa with no electronics. Even camping is good if the both of you are adventurous. Or else, settle for a nice resort. Fifth, Before u have sex, go a massage to relax. Soak yourselves, clean yourselves and hydrate yurselves with water. Only when you are relax, then slip into sex. If you need the little blue pill, get it from a doctor. Rules on the bed...dun tok about work or kids or family and concentrate only on her. Stay there for 3-4 days.
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#12
26-03-2014, 01:40 PM
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Re: Married man problem
TS, u need to go back to the basics on how to sian charbors.
Once you've found the touch... You will find your sexlife again.
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#14
26-03-2014, 02:28 PM
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Re: Married man problem
Wah 100% strike jackpot sia ....
during action also slowly slowly. Let her get into mood first. Quote:
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#15
26-03-2014, 02:41 PM
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Re: Married man problem
It's beginning of complex problem.
Please don't sex with her until she is comfortable. Otherwise things will screw up more. 1. Go for couple/sex counselling. If your wife does not have feeling for you, if no kids, please come out this marriage to avoid complications for both of you. 2. If you have kids, go thru counselling and try fix your side issues. Good luck.
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