How often does your wife give you sex?

[JimmyCrackCorn]

Originally Posted by A1406

I agree with u no sex no point to stay on the marriage

I agree on this as well

[Fishie]

This is probably strange but I've recently lost the drive for sex with my husband! And the worse thing is that we have just gotten married for a week. We are both relatively young (20s) but I am just so tired of sex with him!

I love sex. I think sex is THE most important pillar in a relationship. However, I've been the "one on top" for longer than I remember! At least 3.5 years to 4? We barely do any other position at all because he likes being lazy. Just like how sex occurs in this manner >> press me down to blow, rub him, either finish with him orally or I want it I will have to climb on top.

I barely remember the last time he actually played with me or sexually aroused me before all that. But we are still having sex at least twice a week. Just that I am getting significantly resistent to sex cause I barely derive anything out of it.

I've tried telling him that I like other positions or that I want more foreplay. Not happening. I've let him eat outside in hopes it'll spice things up and even a threesome. But sigh... We are back to square one.

How? What can I do?

[sleepygordon]

Originally Posted by Fishie

This is probably strange but I've recently lost the drive for sex with my husband! And the worse thing is that we have just gotten married for a week. We are both relatively young (20s) but I am just so tired of sex with him!

I love sex. I think sex is THE most important pillar in a relationship. However, I've been the "one on top" for longer than I remember! At least 3.5 years to 4? We barely do any other position at all because he likes being lazy. Just like how sex occurs in this manner >> press me down to blow, rub him, either finish with him orally or I want it I will have to climb on top.

I barely remember the last time he actually played with me or sexually aroused me before all that. But we are still having sex at least twice a week. Just that I am getting significantly resistent to sex cause I barely derive anything out of it.

I've tried telling him that I like other positions or that I want more foreplay. Not happening. I've let him eat outside in hopes it'll spice things up and even a threesome. But sigh... We are back to square one.

How? What can I do?

You got to be kidding me....

[the_e_ones]

Originally Posted by Fishie

How? What can I do?

Sis Fishie, let me help you...

[iPangChance]

Originally Posted by Fishie

This is probably strange but I've recently lost the drive for sex with my husband! And the worse thing is that we have just gotten married for a week. We are both relatively young (20s) but I am just so tired of sex with him!

I love sex. I think sex is THE most important pillar in a relationship. However, I've been the "one on top" for longer than I remember! At least 3.5 years to 4? We barely do any other position at all because he likes being lazy. Just like how sex occurs in this manner >> press me down to blow, rub him, either finish with him orally or I want it I will have to climb on top.

I barely remember the last time he actually played with me or sexually aroused me before all that. But we are still having sex at least twice a week. Just that I am getting significantly resistent to sex cause I barely derive anything out of it.

I've tried telling him that I like other positions or that I want more foreplay. Not happening. I've let him eat outside in hopes it'll spice things up and even a threesome. But sigh... We are back to square one.

How? What can I do?

Married for only 1 week like that liao?

[Laolucas]

It does seem that there are alot of sex drive incompatibility in SG.

Is it due to our conservative culture that is why SG is facing this? Guys and girls try to stay virgins till marriage and only after realised that they are sexually incompatible. Couples not being open minded enough to filly explore each other's sexuality?

No wonder our divorce rates are rising. Sigh.

[A1406]

Originally Posted by Fishie

This is probably strange but I've recently lost the drive for sex with my husband! And the worse thing is that we have just gotten married for a week. We are both relatively young (20s) but I am just so tired of sex with him!

I love sex. I think sex is THE most important pillar in a relationship. However, I've been the "one on top" for longer than I remember! At least 3.5 years to 4? We barely do any other position at all because he likes being lazy. Just like how sex occurs in this manner >> press me down to blow, rub him, either finish with him orally or I want it I will have to climb on top.

I barely remember the last time he actually played with me or sexually aroused me before all that. But we are still having sex at least twice a week. Just that I am getting significantly resistent to sex cause I barely derive anything out of it.

I've tried telling him that I like other positions or that I want more foreplay. Not happening. I've let him eat outside in hopes it'll spice things up and even a threesome. But sigh... We are back to square one.

How? What can I do?

I don't think any way that can change as I am in the same situation. My wife is just like your husband. She dun like foreplay. If she happy she let me do it but just lay there and hurry me to get the deed done and over. No other position she will compromise. At first she still ok can do this and there but slowly she allow lesser and lesser things that can do. Recently Chu a lot of patterns n reason to totally disallow to do. I told myself never to touch her again and "outsource" to a third party😜.

[sotongtail]

Originally Posted by A1406

I don't think any way that can change as I am in the same situation. My wife is just like your husband. She dun like foreplay. If she happy she let me do it but just lay there and hurry me to get the deed done and over. No other position she will compromise. At first she still ok can do this and there but slowly she allow lesser and lesser things that can do. Recently Chu a lot of patterns n reason to totally disallow to do. I told myself never to touch her again and "outsource" to a third party😜.

Outsource third party to touch her?

[HelloAngel]

Originally Posted by Fishie

This is probably strange but I've recently lost the drive for sex with my husband! And the worse thing is that we have just gotten married for a week. We are both relatively young (20s) but I am just so tired of sex with him!

I love sex. I think sex is THE most important pillar in a relationship. However, I've been the "one on top" for longer than I remember! At least 3.5 years to 4? We barely do any other position at all because he likes being lazy. Just like how sex occurs in this manner >> press me down to blow, rub him, either finish with him orally or I want it I will have to climb on top.

I barely remember the last time he actually played with me or sexually aroused me before all that. But we are still having sex at least twice a week. Just that I am getting significantly resistent to sex cause I barely derive anything out of it.

I've tried telling him that I like other positions or that I want more foreplay. Not happening. I've let him eat outside in hopes it'll spice things up and even a threesome. But sigh... We are back to square one.

How? What can I do?

Maybe change position when he asks you for a bj? Like 69 but he on top? Hey, you are only married for a week! Still have a long long road ahead for both of you. Sexual incompatibility may lead to a weaken marriage. Unfortunately, there is no one solution to your issues cos only both of you can solve it. Good luck!

[HelloAngel]

Originally Posted by A1406

I don't think any way that can change as I am in the same situation. My wife is just like your husband. She dun like foreplay. If she happy she let me do it but just lay there and hurry me to get the deed done and over. No other position she will compromise. At first she still ok can do this and there but slowly she allow lesser and lesser things that can do. Recently Chu a lot of patterns n reason to totally disallow to do. I told myself never to touch her again and "outsource" to a third party😜.

Maybe she is getting her fix from someone else like how you are outsourcing too?

[IceLem0nTea]

Originally Posted by Fishie

This is probably strange but I've recently lost the drive for sex with my husband! And the worse thing is that we have just gotten married for a week. We are both relatively young (20s) but I am just so tired of sex with him!

I love sex. I think sex is THE most important pillar in a relationship. However, I've been the "one on top" for longer than I remember! At least 3.5 years to 4? We barely do any other position at all because he likes being lazy. Just like how sex occurs in this manner >> press me down to blow, rub him, either finish with him orally or I want it I will have to climb on top.

I barely remember the last time he actually played with me or sexually aroused me before all that. But we are still having sex at least twice a week. Just that I am getting significantly resistent to sex cause I barely derive anything out of it.

I've tried telling him that I like other positions or that I want more foreplay. Not happening. I've let him eat outside in hopes it'll spice things up and even a threesome. But sigh... We are back to square one.

How? What can I do?

Maybe you can try swinging if he is interested

[A1406]

Originally Posted by HelloAngel

Maybe she is getting her fix from someone else like how you are outsourcing too?

Yes maybe.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Fishie

This is probably strange but I've recently lost the drive for sex with my husband! ....I am just so tired of sex with him!

I love sex. I think sex is THE most important pillar in a relationship. However, I've been the "one on top" for longer than I remember! At least 3.5 years to 4? We barely do any other position at all because he likes being lazy.

I've tried telling him that I like other positions or that I want more foreplay. Not happening. I've let him eat outside in hopes it'll spice things up and even a threesome. But sigh... We are back to square one.

WoW !!..sis Fishie, wat a good & understanding wifey you are to yr hubby ! ...does he even know he is such a lucky man !!...you are one in a million !...most conservative mainstream wives would definitely "kill" their husbands if they ever find them eating outside or are involved in 3-somes !..

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by A1406

I don't think any way that can change as I am in the same situation. My wife is just like your husband. She dun like foreplay. If she happy she let me do it but just lay there and hurry me to get the deed done and over. No other position she will compromise. At first she still ok can do this and there but slowly she allow lesser and lesser things that can do. Recently Chu a lot of patterns n reason to totally disallow to do. I told myself never to touch her again and "outsource" to a third party😜.

Can feel for you, bro A1406 & empathise wif yr unhappy sex life wif yr wifey...yours is only just ONE of many other similar cases happening around ..."wife dun like sex"...by the word 'outsource', believe u mean u want to "eat out"..but u must do it w/o her knowing, o/w you will be in trouble wif her...just my 2 cents worth of tots...

[A1406]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Can feel for you, bro A1406 & empathise wif yr unhappy sex life wif yr wifey...yours is only just ONE of many other similar cases happening around ..."wife dun like sex"...by the word 'outsource', believe u mean u want to "eat out"..but u must do it w/o her knowing, o/w you will be in trouble wif her...just my 2 cents worth of tots...

Bro to begin with. If she behave in this manner believe that she also know somehow it will lead to "eat outside". Ladies out here, agree with me or expect the husband to endure without it or DIY? And if the husband really did that is his fault???