Originally Posted by EVee
She takes the view that she wants to get to know the person better before having a session, if at all. I think once you understand that, you have to proceed with eyes (and wallet) wide open. In other words, she means what she says in those ads. although this is to our disdvantage, I think her approach is more profitable and requires less (potentially dangerous) work.
(I think the American femdoms (e.g. Ceara Lynch) make most of their money via online domination and videos and once a while, a whale who is into financial domination.)
Before I met her, I think I spent 100 (IG follow), 150 (tribute), 210 (gifts), short meet up for coffee (100 + 50 extra (voluntary)). So about 550-600.
After that, i will say I was the one who practically begged to be her chauffeur and to give her even more money, I won't say how much but should be enough to pay for a very nice meal. But it suffice to say that I was feeling very light headed and slavish in her presence, and I begged for her to take advantage of me in that state. She really succeeded in making me feel that I belong beneath her feet.
And I really dislike financial domination or pain. But at that point of time, although I would have preferred gentle teasing, physical contact is still contact even if it was painful. And doing something for her was better than nothing even if it hurt my finances.
it's been nearly 27 hours, and I still feel very inferior to her.
She is a relatively tall local girl in her prime who speaks good English, quite well dressed. She is confident, and not abashed in "using" you. Those are very important traits if you can only feel submissive to a person you believe is "superior". She is also very good at making you feel small and so if you are into erotic humiliation, she is probably it. Anja was very good at making you tick but Stacy has the advantage of being more confident and prettier.
My own personal analysis of her, totally unsubstantiated and without any factual evidence of, is that she is a borderline female sociopath with quite high iq. She is calm and appear unconcerned with rule breaking behaviour. I suspect she would have been quite the delinquent when she was a teenager but survived due to her high iq and superficial calmness. She would also have been a patsy magnet.
although I am extremely reliable (given my submissive inclinations), she has probably lied to me or exaggerated to me many times without any reason- all of which (given my submissive inclinations) i instinctly accept. I suspect she truly enjoys cruelty if she can get away with it and of course, better if she can get money out of it.
She also has the natural instinct to dominate ) which I realise is more common than i expected among females) but of course like all good (borderline) sociopaths, if she doesn't get her way, will probably be very frustrated or angry and may want to seek "payback".
And she will know how to make you want to please her or to make you suffer. In fact she is likely to be very confident of that ability. I only say she is borderline because I sense some hesitation at times (which probably saved her many times).
So as I said, if you are going to go down this path, tread carefully. It is going to be expensive, you are expected to serve, you will be used and there may be nothing in it for you. But perhaps that is what you want.
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31-07-2017, 03:47 PM
Re: Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC
Re: Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC
