Work distractions

[secretgarden]

Originally Posted by redmen89

Power. Yeah, would love to hear how you do it too.

Sort of facing similar instance at work but supervisor of another team. But up there one.

Harmless flirting back and forth but sometimes she pull handbreak every now and then. Maybe coz she's married.

Until one day when confiding in her on some issues, she suggested we go for lunch together... Was interesting coz she do t go out with anyone for lunch. Lunch as per normal but we talk a little bit Abt personal lives la. Guess getting to know her. Plus, she's older..

Haha. Would love to know how you do it bro!

Not me la bro haha i haven succeed. Looks like you’re off with a good start. Jiayou.

[redmen89]

Originally Posted by secretgarden

Not me la bro haha i haven succeed. Looks like you’re off with a good start. Jiayou.

Thanks bro. But not easy. I was told by her staff that she noticed I'm quite close to her boss. And when I asked her what she mean, she said "it's a female thing..."

So I'm trying to be careful Abt it la. Don't want to get into trouble lor.

But the syiok feeling of getting the attention and flirting is really nice. But my hunch is, for her, she's new to this game and a lot for her to lose.

So no expectations from me.. if it happens, it'll be a fun ride. If not, just enjoy the attention...

[itguy2008]

TS, unless you are single, else don't eat and shit at the same place. The sexual harassment law is very unfair to guys. Read it.

One of my colleague used the "F" word in office during meeting. One female complained about that. He got an investigation from the police and got terminated by HR even before he is found guilty by the court. At this economy climate, I am sure it is hard for him to find a job.

[secretgarden]

Originally Posted by redmen89

Thanks bro. But not easy. I was told by her staff that she noticed I'm quite close to her boss. And when I asked her what she mean, she said "it's a female thing..."

So I'm trying to be careful Abt it la. Don't want to get into trouble lor.

But the syiok feeling of getting the attention and flirting is really nice. But my hunch is, for her, she's new to this game and a lot for her to lose.

So no expectations from me.. if it happens, it'll be a fun ride. If not, just enjoy the attention...

Agreed bro. You should have “Close? You meant lunch? You wanna have lunch with me?” Haha

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

TS, unless you are single, else don't eat and shit at the same place. The sexual harassment law is very unfair to guys. Read it.

One of my colleague used the "F" word in office during meeting. One female complained about that. He got an investigation from the police and got terminated by HR even before he is found guilty by the court. At this economy climate, I am sure it is hard for him to find a job.

He can very well take it up with MOM for unfair dismissal. He's got a case for himself and it's up to him to fight for himself. He might not want to go back and work for that company again but sure as hell he should be squeezing out as much money from them as possible in severance.

[ceeko]

Bonked an ex colleague in the pantry when we were on a gotomeeting call (pre zoom days) while the meeting went on (We just had to be around but not talk), So we fucked.

Fucked her for 2 over years... fun times.

But other than that eating/shitting same work place is really fucking shit in general.

[redmen89]

Originally Posted by secretgarden

Agreed bro. You should have “Close? You meant lunch? You wanna have lunch with me?” Haha

Nice one.

Lol, keep me up to date with your progress too bro. But from my experience, the danger in this is when you start to have feelings... Then die liao.

Always talk to your wingmen or bros Abt it. But make sure they don't work same place. Like many bros here say, high risk... But I get it, the thrill for us men is there.

[wantedbryan]

Would love to have some texting fling in office but i guess it is really dangerous to play where you eat. love to hear some story from you Shifu here.

[redmen89]

Originally Posted by wantedbryan

Would love to have some texting fling in office but i guess it is really dangerous to play where you eat. love to hear some story from you Shifu here.

U have any story to share bro? Haha. Can learn tips from each other la.

[jien1]

Have a girl recently that chat quite often too...but too bad I'm married and don't dare to venture to far, but my mind sure can wander! Lol