Stories of Fantasies

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nowadays most women want orgasms. That wasn't always the case. A couple of generations or so ago, many adult females simply didn't have climaxes – and a lot of them weren't bothered about it. Probably a lot of them didn't actually know what an orgasm was.

And some doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was 'normal' to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn't exist – and was simply a myth made up by the media.

All that has changed now.
These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms – if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms – if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.


What is a female orgasm?

This explanation in the assumption that you – the reader – are male. But what follows will be of interest to a lot of female readers too.

What happens in a woman's body during a climax is very like what happens in your (male) body when you ejaculate. In other words, there's a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything 'blows' in a great blast of ecstasy. This 'orgasmic moment' is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds.

Men are well aware that these throbs of pleasure are accompanied by the pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn't happen in women.

A few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women 'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.


Multiple orgasm

The other big difference between male and female orgasm is this:
after the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two.

This ability is extremely rare in males.
Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability that usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms – if they so desire.


jz sharin,

[Torch_Man]

Originally Posted by Torch_Man

"Got tired of my cock, did you?" I teased.

"Not so," she declared enthusiastically, "I simply wanted to get it out in the open so we could rejuvenate the monster in preparation of our next venture."

"Oh yeah? What makes you think there is another venture?"

"Well you haven't lied to me yet so the way I see it we are due a grand finale. I have sucked your cock, you have eaten my pussy, I sucked your cock some more, and then you butt fucked me in royal fashion. It's been a wonderful day so far, but I think we should engage in some old fashioned sex as a fitting conclusion to our sex fest. Agree?"

"Amen, but the last leg of our journey was a nasty one. I think we need to clean up a tad before we swap bodily fluids again."

"You're absolutely right, Randy. Come with me," she said. She had been standing ever since our anal action so she headed down the hall in the direction of the bathroom wickedly twisting her fat cheeks as she went. I was surprised to find that my cock noticed her actions and mildly responded.

In the bathroom she busied herself adjusting the water temperature in the shower while I stood behind her jiggling and caressing her majestic boobs. She wiggled her butt against my body to express her approval and appreciation. My cock wholeheartedly accepted her arousing display of appreciation and flexed its muscle to let her know its feelings.

In the shower we immediately cleaned up the overflow from our butt fucking, and then we devoted considerable time to soaping and caressing the remainder of our bodies. For a minute I thought Maude was going to jack me off in the process of scrubbing my tool. She did get it hard, and upon doing so she stooped in front of me, placed my cock between her enormous tits, and together we worked it back and forth in her upper valley.

I was extremely turned on by now, and Maude noticed this fact. She removed my shaft from between her boobs and into her mouth. Vigorously, she sucked and pumped my tool to blissful submission. Once again I fed her my best cream. But I was not to be undone.

As soapy as we were, I moved her out of the shower and seated her on the toilet. She automatically spread wide when she saw me kneeling before her. The bountiful soap suds collected at her crotch did little if any at impeding my quest for her pussy. My mouth found her opening instinctively, and my tongue jutted into her hole. Her greeting was a low, sensual moan as she cradled my head in her hands.

The intensity of our coupling along with the long period of neglect for both of us caused Maude to respond to my tongue immediately. Also, the unbridled ardor with which I invaded her crotch had brought the tip of my nose into play coincidentally and precisely on top of her clitoris. Her orgasm could have been classified as spontaneous combustion considering the time from contact to climax.

We stood soap-clad back in the shower deeply engrossed in passionate embraces until the water started to turn cooler and convince us the shower was over. We took turns drying each other, and in the process almost initiated another amorous episode.

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Bringing women to a climax


For men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female climaxes is that with women, it's not a mechanical thing – as it generally is with men.

You see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren't very romantic – or even if they don't particularly like the person who's doing the rubbing! Women are not like this. Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions have to be right.

Although females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax easily:
- a romantic atmosphere
- pleasant, comfortable surroundings
- a partner who they really like
- a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
- a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore
- a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate their clitoris.

Unless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.

Please bear in mind that – contrary to what many men think – sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.

So, try not to give the impression to your female partner that she ‘ought’ to be able to climax through intercourse alone and that that is what you think of as ‘proper sex’. The sex menu can be a varied one. Some women, for example, find it really easy to climax through oral sex – particularly if the guy is patient and sensitive to what his partner wants. And how does he find out what she wants and what turns her on? Well, a wise man will ask her.

What he should not do is to assume that his technique is flawless and that if his partner does not come, it’s her fault. Plenty of men think that because a previous girlfriend always came a certain way, this one should follow suit. Women are not all the same in their likes or dislikes. So do try to treat your partner as an individual.

Many women like much more foreplay or loveplay than men imagine. They want to feel that the man is keen on giving pleasure – and not just in a hurry to have his own climax. In fact, the worst thing a man can say to a woman is: ‘Haven’t you come yet?’ This is likely to make her feel extremely inadequate and will ruin any build-up of sexual pleasure and tension that might have been taking place.


jz sharin,

[Torch_Man]

Originally Posted by Torch_Man

In the shower we immediately cleaned up the overflow from our butt fucking, and then we devoted considerable time to soaping and caressing the remainder of our bodies. For a minute I thought Maude was going to jack me off in the process of scrubbing my tool. She did get it hard, and upon doing so she stooped in front of me, placed my cock between her enormous tits, and together we worked it back and forth in her upper valley.

I was extremely turned on by now, and Maude noticed this fact. She removed my shaft from between her boobs and into her mouth. Vigorously, she sucked and pumped my tool to blissful submission. Once again I fed her my best cream. But I was not to be undone.

As soapy as we were, I moved her out of the shower and seated her on the toilet. She automatically spread wide when she saw me kneeling before her. The bountiful soap suds collected at her crotch did little if any at impeding my quest for her pussy. My mouth found her opening instinctively, and my tongue jutted into her hole. Her greeting was a low, sensual moan as she cradled my head in her hands.

The intensity of our coupling along with the long period of neglect for both of us caused Maude to respond to my tongue immediately. Also, the unbridled ardor with which I invaded her crotch had brought the tip of my nose into play coincidentally and precisely on top of her clitoris. Her orgasm could have been classified as spontaneous combustion considering the time from contact to climax.

We stood soap-clad back in the shower deeply engrossed in passionate embraces until the water started to turn cooler and convince us the shower was over. We took turns drying each other, and in the process almost initiated another amorous episode.

"Careful, Randy," she gasped, "I still want that old fashioned fuck."

"I'm up for that," I replied with all due enthusiasm.

"Not just yet, you aren't" Maude said as she flipped my limp dick and laughed. "I'm awed by that thing's stamina, but timing is everything at this stage of the venture. Rest up, and then I want you to fuck me bowlegged." Evidently my earlier remark had stuck with her.

"Done," was all I could think of to say. I followed Maude back to the kitchen where the day had begun.

"By the way, Mr. Handyman," she said, "my plumbing is still leaking."

"That gives me a reason to visit you again," I said good-naturedly.

"You damned sure better have a better reason than that to return."

"Oh, believe me, Love," I sighed, "I do. I do."

We went into the living room where we sat and listened to some very pleasant music from a collection of CD's in Maude's entertainment center. It was nearing four o'clock in the afternoon. Maude broke the silence.

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'Cuming' isn't that easy, if you're a woman. Nearly all men can climax without difficulty, but women just aren't built that way.
Unfortunately, not everyone knows this all-important fact – even in 2011.

This is partly because books, films and – most of all – internet porn paint a picture in which today's females are hot and raring to go, and in an almost constant state of sexual ecstasy.

This inaccurate portrayal can lead to today's teens and 20-somethings believing that there's something wrong with them if they can't climax to order.
The truth, however, is that most of them are absolutely normal.

Interestingly, only a generation ago many doctors believed that a high proportion of the female population simply couldn't climax at all.

Why did they think this way?
Simply because most of them had had little or no training in sexual medicine.

Also, the majority of them were so embarrassed about sex themselves that they tried to avoid discussing it with their patients.

Furthermore, since women don't need to climax in order to conceive, most doctors didn't rate the importance of the female orgasm very highly.


jz sharin,

[Torch_Man]

Originally Posted by Torch_Man

"Careful, Randy," she gasped, "I still want that old fashioned fuck."

"I'm up for that," I replied with all due enthusiasm.

"Not just yet, you aren't" Maude said as she flipped my limp dick and laughed. "I'm awed by that thing's stamina, but timing is everything at this stage of the venture. Rest up, and then I want you to fuck me bowlegged." Evidently my earlier remark had stuck with her.

"Done," was all I could think of to say. I followed Maude back to the kitchen where the day had begun.

"By the way, Mr. Handyman," she said, "my plumbing is still leaking."

"That gives me a reason to visit you again," I said good-naturedly.

"You damned sure better have a better reason than that to return."

"Oh, believe me, Love," I sighed, "I do. I do."

We went into the living room where we sat and listened to some very pleasant music from a collection of CD's in Maude's entertainment center. It was nearing four o'clock in the afternoon. Maude broke the silence.

"Martini time," she announced cheerfully. She headed for the cleverly disguised liquor cabinet in the corner of the room. "Would you like something else?" Maude asked.

"You," I said truthfully.

"All in good time, my good man." Her smile was sweet. I couldn't help noticing she was still stark naked as she sauntered back to the couch where I was sitting. She handed me my martini, and softly sat down beside me.

We continued to listen to the pleasant sounds from her CD player while we sipped our drinks. Maude's hand casually but deliberately inched its way toward my crotch. I pretended not to notice, but my pecker never seems to cooperate with me when I am trying to be suave. I could feel it expanded in both girth and length. By the time her hand stealthily made contact with my love muscle, it was at a semi-hard stage.

"Oh my," exclaimed Maude. "What do we have here?" Her fingers carefully lifted it free from between my legs. My organ was growing all this time. "Is this for me?" she asked coyly.

"I've been saving it for you," I grinned.

"Bullshit. That thing has been in nearly every imaginal portal of my body," she said playfully, "and, I might add, it has performed magnificently."

"Are you ready for the next act?" I asked knowing full well my question was purely rhetorical. My cock was at full mast and literally ready to get the show on the road.

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New attitude


Fortunately in 2011, most medics have a very different attitude.
This is largely because they're now familiar with the results of sexual studies conducted by American researchers Kinsey, Masters and Johnson, Shere Hite and others.

In addition, the last 20 years have seen a number of sexual surveys conducted with large samples of people through newspapers and magazines. Indeed, the Medical Information Service – has designed many of these.

The results of these surveys have taken the lid off the sex life of the great British public.

Now we know that virtually any woman can climax – and indeed have multiple climaxes – if the circumstances of her life are right. And these circumstances usually include having a caring, understanding partner who's knowledgeable about sex and who uses that knowledge to help her relax and to reach orgasm.

As we've already said, orgasm is a much more automatic response for men than it is for women. And it would be true to say that in very many males an ability to climax doesn't necessarily have to be linked to feelings of love and romance.

But women more commonly find that their sexual confidence and competence blossoms when they feel loved and appreciated.

Of course nowadays there are young females who set out to have as much uncommitted and uncomplicated sex as young men. But they're still in the minority. And we have discovered that many of these youngsters are secretly quite unhappy.

But to understand more about the female orgasm, let's go back to the start of a woman's sexual life.


jz sharin,

[Torch_Man]

Originally Posted by Torch_Man

"Martini time," she announced cheerfully. She headed for the cleverly disguised liquor cabinet in the corner of the room. "Would you like something else?" Maude asked.

"You," I said truthfully.

"All in good time, my good man." Her smile was sweet. I couldn't help noticing she was still stark naked as she sauntered back to the couch where I was sitting. She handed me my martini, and softly sat down beside me.

We continued to listen to the pleasant sounds from her CD player while we sipped our drinks. Maude's hand casually but deliberately inched its way toward my crotch. I pretended not to notice, but my pecker never seems to cooperate with me when I am trying to be suave. I could feel it expanded in both girth and length. By the time her hand stealthily made contact with my love muscle, it was at a semi-hard stage.

"Oh my," exclaimed Maude. "What do we have here?" Her fingers carefully lifted it free from between my legs. My organ was growing all this time. "Is this for me?" she asked coyly.

"I've been saving it for you," I grinned.

"Bullshit. That thing has been in nearly every imaginal portal of my body," she said playfully, "and, I might add, it has performed magnificently."

"Are you ready for the next act?" I asked knowing full well my question was purely rhetorical. My cock was at full mast and literally ready to get the show on the road.

"I want to ride it like a horse," Maude said almost shyly, "and I want you to play with my boobs the whole time. I miss having a man around, so tag you're it."

"Climb aboard fair lady. Your stud awaits you."

"What happened to carriage?" she asked playing along with my nonsense.

"Sorry, ma'am," I said playing the role. "All you get this trip is a broken down old stud ready for the soap factory."

"How dare you speak that way about my thoroughbred stallion. There is none other like him in this kingdom, my good man."

Maude's stallion had no idea what we were talking about, but it was steadily becoming more anxious to start the ride. With the help of her hand, the steed stood erect awaiting her mount. She might have been a lady, but this was no occasion for side-saddle. She swung her leg over my body and straddled my hips demonstrating remarkable agility for a woman of her tender years.

She deftly aimed my shaft at her thoroughly wet pussy, and settled on it without hesitation. I watched with blissful amazement as her crotch swallowed up my cock. Once at ground zero she slowly ground her pussy against my crotch. She may have been away from the sexual scene for an extended period of time, but there was no doubt that her memory was as sharp as any around.

I began hunching my hips and she automatically switcher to her riding mode. She rose almost the full length of my pecker before starting her assent. On her way down she tucked her hips inward creating a powerful thrust against my cock. This was a first for me, but I hoped she would never take this maneuver out of her assault plan.

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The beginnings

A lot of young women are worried about their lack of ability to climax. But the fact is, unlike males, most females have to learn to reach orgasm.

Our research shows that most younger women do not manage to climax until some considerable time after they have started sexual activity. Moreover, when they do 'come' for the very first time, they do so in a variety of ways.

In a survey we conducted for our book The Big 'O', we found that:
47 per cent climaxed for the first time through masturbation
32 per cent through sexual intercourse
20 per cent through petting
1 per cent while sleeping

In the same survey, we found that the most common age of first orgasm was 18, but that it could also be as late as the 40s!


jz sharin,

[Torch_Man]

Originally Posted by Torch_Man

its Sharing Time....


New attitude


Fortunately in 2011, most medics have a very different attitude.
This is largely because they're now familiar with the results of sexual studies conducted by American researchers Kinsey, Masters and Johnson, Shere Hite and others.

In addition, the last 20 years have seen a number of sexual surveys conducted with large samples of people through newspapers and magazines. Indeed, the Medical Information Service – has designed many of these.

The results of these surveys have taken the lid off the sex life of the great British public.

Now we know that virtually any woman can climax – and indeed have multiple climaxes – if the circumstances of her life are right. And these circumstances usually include having a caring, understanding partner who's knowledgeable about sex and who uses that knowledge to help her relax and to reach orgasm.

As we've already said, orgasm is a much more automatic response for men than it is for women. And it would be true to say that in very many males an ability to climax doesn't necessarily have to be linked to feelings of love and romance.

But women more commonly find that their sexual confidence and competence blossoms when they feel loved and appreciated.

Of course nowadays there are young females who set out to have as much uncommitted and uncomplicated sex as young men. But they're still in the minority. And we have discovered that many of these youngsters are secretly quite unhappy.

But to understand more about the female orgasm, let's go back to the start of a woman's sexual life.


jz sharin,

hi folks,

hw did u find those infos on women sexuality, climax, attitude??????

personally, if u tracked my previous posts, i ever made fbs squirted or orgasms a few time) i look it upon myself to fulfill their inner sexuality (as i m not a selfish person who jz fulfill my needs onli) therefore most of my fbs dreaded leavin me (perhaps i m a slightly sentimental guy, wif sum romancing or shopping or chitting or anything......) since i fulfill their climaxes almost everytime (remember: women can "cum" many time) usually i made them "cum" at least 2 time, but of course, we're nice friends, to begin with........ so i seldom have to "need" to disappear from them............

do share ur views


jz sharin,

[Torch_Man]

Originally Posted by Torch_Man

"I want to ride it like a horse," Maude said almost shyly, "and I want you to play with my boobs the whole time. I miss having a man around, so tag you're it."

"Climb aboard fair lady. Your stud awaits you."

"What happened to carriage?" she asked playing along with my nonsense.

"Sorry, ma'am," I said playing the role. "All you get this trip is a broken down old stud ready for the soap factory."

"How dare you speak that way about my thoroughbred stallion. There is none other like him in this kingdom, my good man."

Maude's stallion had no idea what we were talking about, but it was steadily becoming more anxious to start the ride. With the help of her hand, the steed stood erect awaiting her mount. She might have been a lady, but this was no occasion for side-saddle. She swung her leg over my body and straddled my hips demonstrating remarkable agility for a woman of her tender years.

She deftly aimed my shaft at her thoroughly wet pussy, and settled on it without hesitation. I watched with blissful amazement as her crotch swallowed up my cock. Once at ground zero she slowly ground her pussy against my crotch. She may have been away from the sexual scene for an extended period of time, but there was no doubt that her memory was as sharp as any around.

I began hunching my hips and she automatically switcher to her riding mode. She rose almost the full length of my pecker before starting her assent. On her way down she tucked her hips inward creating a powerful thrust against my cock. This was a first for me, but I hoped she would never take this maneuver out of her assault plan.

Maude was working on her fourth orgasm of the day, and as normal with women they were coming at more frequent intervals. I tried desperately to honor her request by caressing her breasts as much as possible, but she was determined to sit upright to take full advantage of the stallion in her barn. I was the last person on Earth to dispute her wishes.

When her orgasm did take over her body and her emotions, I held fast and let her ride my stiff rod to the finish line. She was perspiring openly now and she was breathing more like the horse than the rider, but the expression on her face and her panting commentary convinced me that she had just thoroughly enjoyed her fucking ride. Her magnificent bosom was immediately in front of my face now, and I took full advantage of the situation. I went from nipple to nipple and back again.

When she realized that my cock was still embedded full-length in her pussy, she immediately decided on a solution. She carefully raised her body high enough for my pecker to come free of her pussy. It was still super slick from her vaginal juices so when she carefully eased the head of my dick in her ass it slid in almost effortlessly. This was much tighter. I commenced my stroking with renewed vigor, and nature took its course. My balls started to quiver and my climax took charge of my actions.

In the heat of passion Maude has changed positions. She was leaning away from my face, and resting on her outstretched arms. This was the deepest I would ever penetrate her ass. It was also the deepest I would ever deposit my generous ejaculation.

Somehow, once we recovered from our world class coupling, we came back to Earth and regained our composure sufficiently to allow us to bring our day to a wonderful end. I did manage to repair the leak under her kitchen sink even though she insisted the deed was not at all necessary.

If you think our relationship ended here, you're crazy.

END OF ACT 02

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The 20s and 30s

Even in their 20s and 30s, a lot of women have difficulty reaching that elusive orgasm.

These days, most sex therapists believe that if you can't climax (or don't climax easily), it's a good idea to start by practising on your own.

This may seem obvious, but many women, even today, feel inhibited about self-love and can't help feeling that it isn't something they should be doing.

But masturbating helps you to learn exactly which pressures and rhythms you need in order to bring you to orgasm. So, it can be really useful.

You may also find it helpful to watch some sort of sex-education DVD, such as Betty Dodson's Selfloving.

Once you have learned to climax easily on your own, you can then show your partner exactly what you need in order to make you come.

Of course, this may feel embarrassing at first. But the first step in fulfilment with a partner is to communicate your feelings to him or her and also to communicate how you like your body to be touched.

When you can't find the words, use caresses. But also try to build up a vocabulary with your partner that's easy to use. A lot of couples find their sex lives fail simply because they don't have the right language. And saying: 'Could you rub my ...er ...er?' isn't specific enough to be helpful.

Some women, incidentally, find achieving orgasm much easier with the help of a vibrator. And nowadays there are several excellent online mail order businesses, run by women for women, which sell good quality sex aids that really work.

They also sell lingerie, erotic literature and lubrication. They are equally helpful to gay and heterosexual women.


jz sharin,

[Torch_Man]

folks,

hw r d "A Twinkle in the Twilight Act" series???

do comment......


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30 plus

By the time you're in your 30s, 40s or 50s: you should be able to reach orgasm quite easily – provided that you have a loving, understanding partner.

But do remember that most women find that their ability to climax varies according to what part of their menstrual cycle they're in.

It's quite common for a woman to feel especially orgasmic half-way through her cycle. But some women feel particularly turned-on just before a period. Others notice that they don’t really feel like sex at all during some times of the month. All of this is normal.

But if you're still not having any orgasms at all, or if you're still having enormous difficulty 'getting there' – you may want to seek some help from an experienced sex therapist.


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Various types of orgasm

Thanks to Freud, the father of psycho-analysis, people used to believe that vaginal orgasms were what mature women had, while clitoral orgasms were what immature women had.

Experts no longer believe this. And many of today's sex experts, as well as ordinary women, say that they really don't know the difference between a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral one.

The majority of women need clitoral stimulation in order to climax. This applies whether they're enjoying loveplay or intercourse.

Some women, on the other hand, believe they can 'come' through intercourse with no manual stimulation of the clitoris and claim that it's the vagina itself that sparks off the orgasm.

But many sex experts think that what's happening during intercourse is the clitoris is being stimulated by being pulled down or being rubbed by part of the man's torso.

There's also the G-spot to consider.

Some women experience a particularly intense orgasm when that part of their anatomy is stimulated (you can find the G-spot inside you, on the front vaginal wall).

Indeed, many women who enjoy having their G-spots touched claim that they ejaculate during these intense orgasms.

So, there may be a case for saying that there's a G-spot orgasm – as well as possibly a vaginal one and one that originates in the clitoris.

Our feeling about all of this is that it really doesn't matter whether or not there are different types of orgasms.

The important thing is that you should be having good, reliable orgasms whenever you want them – and you should be enjoying them.


jz sharin,