Singaporean Girls / Wives - Not enough sex drive?

[geylangbonker]

too many remarks on spore women.....one big comment is that spore women "bei gan" hokkien term ...!perhaps some hokkien style bros understand what im trying to say...

[Red-Card]

Originally Posted by evo76

worse is my OC likes me to paint her pussy but cannot even blow me

My OC dont even ask me to paint her, you are better off than me

[Bronco]

[QUOTE=samschnur;1967658]

Originally Posted by Bronco

... Even beg to make love and most of time kenna rejected..even out of sympathy ..let u song song awhile but no fun also keep rushing u to do the job fast canot kiss and touch here n ther..the last wan i told her off and saying sillypore not onli got 1 rose hor....

.... wife rush u.... cannot kiss n touch....?
how come sounds like WL / FL.....
thank god i not married......

Bro, why i say my lau char bor rush me and canot touch here and ther mean she dun really like or wan sex ..u like dat also dunno..as i said 1 of the thousand excuse ....sigh!!
My lau char bor wants to make me angry, so i give up then dun wan any more..got it!!!
Bro u still got long way to learn, no wonder u still single..hope u can maintain ur status as single.,,cheers!!

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by samschnur

... wah.... sounds like wat my ex would do......

then congratulations that she is yr ex now... did yr buddies celebrate this happy occasion with u?

[WillamSexsphere]

Women all over the world are the same sexually. Same as men - ang moh or local. However, these are the problems why sg women may seem to have 'low' sex drive to a man.

1. Equality.

Our Sg women enjoys the freedom of equality unparallel to her asian cousins. Equality to a man means that if you can punch me, so too do i have a right to punch you, irregardless of race, religion or social status.

However, equality to a sg woman means she has a right to punch you, but you have no right to punch her for she is still a 'weaker sex'

My point being:- the sg woman has the right to choose whether to have sex with you or not, when the mood suits her, and you cannot complain either way. That's 'equality' to the educated sg female species. Fairness is never in the dictionary of the powerful sg women's NGO.(non-government organistations). Thus the sg male feels 'short-changed'.

2.Stress.

Our sg society has a higher level of stress compared to our asian cousins. The cost of living is tremendous, beginning as young as a 1 day old kid. More than 80% of adult married couples have to work to support a family and a western lifestyle, espoused as modernity. As such, they have little time to 'smell the roses' - work, sleep, work, and little romance to spark up a great sexual interest.

Being of equal status, the sg women can claim they are tired and would rather sleep when you need it. However when she needs it, and you are tired, you get hell from her and suspicions of infidelity. It's her valuable right in our women protected society.

Stresses can also cause friction, and when that happens, the mood for love is gone, let alone sex.

3. Over-familiarity.

Sg women are sexually the same as any other country's female. Some need it, some dont. All men are the same as well. At times, playing with the same partner will breed over familiarity. Other more open and free societies have the time for play to spice up the bed routines, prevent similar styles all the time, but sg citizens dont have this freedom of time. Work sleep work - open the legs, shaft it, a few thrusts and roll over sleep.

These are the problems. The only solution i can think of is:-

a. Spend one romantic evening with your spouse/gf and communicate your deepest desires respectfully and tactfully. Forget about tomorrow, just live for that night and you will be able to understand each other's sexuality more, and never forget it nor let her forget it too. Then your nights will be more bearable and last till old age.

b.Sex with your wife is not the same as sex with a WL. It's not a push turn and rollover affair, but a long sensual journey, starting as early as a kiss in the morning, a call in the afternoon to ask about her well-being, a shared roled in the home, followed by lots of mischevious foreplay before culminating to a great sex affair on the bed, taking turns to pleasure each other.

c. Should things not work out as plan, then understand that besides being a woman, she is a human being after all. Love is more than sex. Do not hurt her. What she doesnt know, will not harm her. She too will probably do the same. Divorce should be invoked only when love is gone, not when sex is non-existant.

However, do understand this fact. Sex to men is something which we can 'fuck and forget'. But for women, it's 'fuck and won't forget'. When men fuck a woman, we can easily forget her after we cum, but the pyschological make-up of a woman is such that when she fucks with another man (other than her hubby) she is giving more than herself - her love and all, and won't forget. Women are emotional creatures. Thus be prepared that her love for her hubby has ended. Staying on only for other purpose than love. Nothing to do with being cuckold. Foolish of the husband to hang on for it's because of love that both got married.

Why sg women prefer Ang Moh?

The grass always seem greener on the other side, when actually, it's the same everywhere. That's why our asian neighbour brothers also ask something similiar - 'why our local women prefer sg man?'

-Just my 2 cts thought. No one needs to agree to it. Cheers.




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[mike3329]

At one time, long suffering husbands bullied by their wives were just called "hen-pecked' husbands; but now with so many relegated to the toilets to DIY, perhaps the more appropriate term would be, "hand-jobbed" husbands!!

I would just like to say...."Screw them"....but then they may just shout rape!
Ah well, it's the toilet again.....

[KingBong]

Not true that sg women got low sex drive, i've come across one that actually told me she broke up with her ex becos her sex drive is higher and he usually disappoints her, cums in less than 2 mins type. But than again, most of them are unmarried, so cant say if they change after marriage.

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by WillamSexsphere

These are the problems. The only solution i can think of is:-

u sure there is no other solution???

However, do understand this fact. Sex to men is something which we can 'fuck and forget'. But for women, it's 'fuck and won't forget'. When men fuck a woman, we can easily forget her after we cum, but the pyschological make-up of a woman is such that when she fucks with another man (other than her hubby) she is giving more than herself - her love and all, and won't forget. Women are emotional creatures. Thus be prepared that her love for her hubby has ended. Staying on only for other purpose than love. Nothing to do with being cuckold. Foolish of the husband to hang on for it's because of love that both got married.

should i reply to this post only when i agree with u and just shut up if i dont??? fyi, women do fuck and forget nowadays. women do marry men bcos of money. women can be rational creatures when they want to be. women r certainly ruthless when it is time for them to move on bcos they realised that they cannot control their men anymore. it is all a choice. she can fuck another man cos she feels like it now... and best of all, blame it on the hubby.

all i m saying is that sg men (too many of them) r afraid of being labelled a bastard for leaving their women!!! afraid that their nice guy tag would be taken away just like that after spending so much time and effort to gain it in the first place. thus, they r stuck in loveless marriages where he goes out and pays for FLs and while she goes out and let other men fuck for free!!! there is a time to be labelled a bastard and many men stuck in loveless marriages out there would attest that if they were given a choice again, they would opt out. the choice is still theirs. just that now, due to their procrastination, there is a financial price to pay now.

by the way, i would never vote u to be an MP cos with that kind of prices, i wouldnt be interested in the FLs u r bringing in. but then again, that is just me applying simple economics.

[weihong]

Depends on age. I encountered age 15,17,18 below 30s gals. Their sex drive seem to be high, those noise they made, and that horny face, tells u they are enjoying. They want more.....they beg u not to cum, they request for diff. sex position when they abt to reach climax(the most shiok position) that can bring them goes wild. And before bed, they already planning for a good sex. They will try to put on some sexy stuff to attract your attention, acting very soft with nice good smile, then try to get near and closer to u. You can tell from her face, she's horny gonna eat u up soon' maybe a whole night. I still remember i got 1 g/f who sex drive very high, we even done it at a HDB staircase in the night, in the theater she place my hand on her vagina wanting me to rub for her outside her pant. Whenever we meet always seem to involve in all this, because she always make the 1st move, even if i start it she never deny my action. She likes to tease my dick, i believe her brain is thinking of that all the time. So i dun think that sg gals have low sex drive, is depends how u guys set the right mood to make yr partner get into it.

[*FiReWoRkS*]

there are S'pore women with high sex drives and those with low sex drives but i would say the majority are low where else us men are usually borned with V8 or some V12 engines..

that is where the problem starts..they do not understand our needs and try as we might to be faithful but it's impossible to beat a biological urge as strong as sex..

i would be really satisfied if my gf could perform up to 70%-80% of my expectation..but don't say expectation cos most of the time she wouldn't even wana do it..

haiz..so hard to be a good man nowadays

[jasonng]

70-80% ? hahahaha I will be happy with 50%, sometimes I dun even get 20%!

I am starting to give up on Singaporean girls... honestly...

[evo76]

During dating, both parties will make every damn effort to spice up the r'ship and make the effort to accommodate each other.

Most situations, as the r'ship goes on, the gal usually cools off and expects the guy to initiate everything. The guy usually goes along so as to placate the gal until at some point where you have to decide if its worth it.

What can she give me for what i'm giving her?

At this point, we can be subservient, enduring tantrums, scoldings or just make a stand about the BS and see how that goes.

I made my stand, had a big arguement but there was no apology. However, the attitude change was for the better the next day. I guess a wake up call once a while helps because I'm not gonna be cowed.

[WillamSexsphere]

Originally Posted by evo76

During dating, both parties will make every damn effort to spice up the r'ship and make the effort to accommodate each other.

Most situations, as the r'ship goes on, the gal usually cools off and expects the guy to initiate everything. The guy usually goes along so as to placate the gal until at some point where you have to decide if its worth it.

What can she give me for what i'm giving her?

At this point, we can be subservient, enduring tantrums, scoldings or just make a stand about the BS and see how that goes.

I made my stand, had a big arguement but there was no apology. However, the attitude change was for the better the next day. I guess a wake up call once a while helps because I'm not gonna be cowed.

My salutations and hats off to you!...Way to go, bro!!!

We sg guys are too kind and honour bound to those sg girls we marry and are taken full advantage of. We respect women rights and are against any discrimination, but hell!, the sg women are not playing on a level field! The want equality but still use tears to seek sympathy to win against logic and reason.

[evo76]

Originally Posted by WillamSexsphere

My salutations and hats off to you!...Way to go, bro!!!

We sg guys are too kind and honour bound to those sg girls we marry and are taken full advantage of. We respect women rights and are against any discrimination, but hell!, the sg women are not playing on a level field! The want equality but still use tears to seek sympathy to win against logic and reason.

True. Asian men are also bound by Asian values and mentality. But I think those values only apply to your own parents, not others. We have to respect our parents no matter what, but why endure emotional blackmail or other forms of manipulation by others?

[primalhunter]

Originally Posted by no_faith

but living in a cruel reality, stress country, in sg where garmen is pushing up the standard of living. there are so much points to consider to mantain a healthy, happy family. not simple.

too much stress, probs, doubts, qns in life. i juz let it be.

Something happened last night. I was doing my OC and in the middle of it, asked her, why u dun enjoy sex like b4, now always quick quick, need to work tomolo?

You know wat she answered me.... we old aledi ler (OMG, she is 32 and i am 35!!!) I reasoned with her that we are not 70+ know, even then i would be bonking her if little bro still up to it!!!!

She just sighed..... hmmmm... anybody care to comment on this, cos i m damn confused liow.

After that, even crazier, she say because i always want, she fell pressure and cannot enjoy it.... oiii? like dat oso can.... we now do it once a week.... ofcos i always wan mah... not enough la, once a week..... but keep quiet, dun dare to say much, at the back of my mind scared she follow my frens wife become superwoman oso..... sigh