Wife & Sex - going through the motion

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I have similar problem with many bros here. Wife totally off sex. Every few months once is a bonus. Has been worse since we went for op to remove her ovary and uterus. She claims the op has killed her sexual drive and just act blur or sleepy when I try to initiate.

But other than that, I guess I'm luckier than many others as my wife looks after the kids and me and even my Mum very well. So I guess she is a great wife minus the sex part.

Have been tempted lately about eating outside but the thought of losing everything I have at home is holding me back. But I also can't see myself doing PCC for rest of my life ......

[yesscenter]

Originally Posted by Gixer

Hahahahahaha, how dumb can you be? You sure about your husband? Ignorance is bliss, just because you don't know does not mean it doesn't happen.

Maybe your husband is one of the rare ones, but unless you are still in shape and fucking his brains out every night, he is still looking around, and one day, in a moment of weakness, he will do it. He will fuck some sweet young thing and get his rocks off. He will get some other chick to suck him off before he reams her out.

Only thing is will he respect you enough to keep it discreet......

Bro, very well said

[rat967]

I know my gf since age 16..now ( wife ) been tgt for 24yr
Few yr back after giving birth to my 3rd child. She lost interest in doing sex.
Sex become my end yr bonus... 1 or 2 time if lucky 3 time.. haha
But i hv no complaint.. coz she takecare of family
Looking after children wll.. so bro !! got 1 good no 2 good.. haha

[retsmas]

Originally Posted by ffuckoff

As expected, my post will evoke a lot of shallow and defensive responses because I hit right into the root of your problem and many just simply cannot accept that you have also to be blame for a sexless life with your wives.

In fact, I am already prepared for all these emotive remarks which is understandable considering the fact that many of you are sexually deprived by your dear wives for so long and therefore will speak against anything that your infantile minds construe as a woman not understanding a man's needs.

Futhermore, many of you losers here cannot tolerate the reality of a truly loving couple enjoying a fulfilling marriage life because you have fucked up your marriages and therefore will go all out to post negative and cynical comments should anyone tells you that her marriage is a happy and satisfying one. In English, there is a word to describe this state of feeling: it is called jealousy.

The moment I decided to speak for your dear wives, I know that I am a lone voice standing tall against a group of sexually-deprived male whiners here and I do not come here to please you by parroting what you hope to hear.

No apology, men, but you better do a lot of introspection about your fucked-up relationship with your wife first and start taking corrective action today. Don’t just push all the blame to your poor wife. Relationship is mutual. And this leads to good sex eventually.

There could be many pages of posts in this thread but it could give the illusion that most Singapore men are sexually deprived because of their wives’ faults. But 99% of the posts here are shallow and self-centred whines and rants let out by a group of like-minded losers who are ineffective husbands in truth and in real-life (go and read DH Lawrence’s “The Secret Life of Walter Mitty). Ouch! Truth hurts but I am not going to apologize for my honesty.
So losers, stop whining and start winning!


My nick says it all.

A typical ignorant, shallow, insensitive and arrogant sg woman.
Of course ur girlfriends will tell you that they r happily married blah blah blah... just cos women wanna save face and tell u hw gd their hubby is and hide the truth. So pls dont be so naive.

Also, the marriage road is long. Hubby treats u well nw doesnt mean it will last forever. Who knows maybe u will stray one day if he suffers from pe and ed and unable to sextifies u. So enjoy what u hv and learn to be more understand else ur hubby may one day find that imported 'goods' are better!

[donut88]

Originally Posted by ffuckoff

As expected, my post will evoke a lot of shallow and defensive responses because I hit right into the root of your problem and many just simply cannot accept that you have also to be blame for a sexless life with your wives.

In fact, I am already prepared for all these emotive remarks which is understandable considering the fact that many of you are sexually deprived by your dear wives for so long and therefore will speak against anything that your infantile minds construe as a woman not understanding a man's needs.

Futhermore, many of you losers here cannot tolerate the reality of a truly loving couple enjoying a fulfilling marriage life because you have fucked up your marriages and therefore will go all out to post negative and cynical comments should anyone tells you that her marriage is a happy and satisfying one. In English, there is a word to describe this state of feeling: it is called jealousy.

The moment I decided to speak for your dear wives, I know that I am a lone voice standing tall against a group of sexually-deprived male whiners here and I do not come here to please you by parroting what you hope to hear.

No apology, men, but you better do a lot of introspection about your fucked-up relationship with your wife first and start taking corrective action today. Don’t just push all the blame to your poor wife. Relationship is mutual. And this leads to good sex eventually.

There could be many pages of posts in this thread but it could give the illusion that most Singapore men are sexually deprived because of their wives’ faults. But 99% of the posts here are shallow and self-centred whines and rants let out by a group of like-minded losers who are ineffective husbands in truth and in real-life (go and read DH Lawrence’s “The Secret Life of Walter Mitty). Ouch! Truth hurts but I am not going to apologize for my honesty.
So losers, stop whining and start winning!


My nick says it all.

first, u got the author wrong.

Second, if u think your hubby is what u think he is, u can be so wrong. We men know what men is looking for or thinking about. U know how many times men think about sex in a day? Its scientifically proven. Go google it

so u think your hubby only has eyes for you? U put a naked woman in a room with him, u see what happen to his dick

his eyes dont roam around when he's walking on the streets?

Are you really sure u can read what is going in his mind? Men think differently from what he talks.

U must be AWARE member

[MoJoe313]

Guys,
ffuckoff wrote that 1.5 years ago. She never appeared since. Relax lah. LoL

[ibanezjem555]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

I did more research on saddle sanding and how much to sand and bought some sandpaper the next day. After the sanding, the playability improved. To be honest, the high action was still a problem because of the way the guitar was built, but I could at least now make those chord transitions without difficulty.

I still have all three of my guitars with me. Ocassionally I switch between them to play certain songs more suited to each guitar.

But there's no guess which one I play on the most often .

I guess it's the same with people. I don't claim to be an expert on relationships or guitars, and some guitars may indeed be beyond any hope even after doing many things for them, I have had such people in my life. However, I realised that most of the time, we are too quick to pass judgment on other people and throw in the towel. Perhaps we should attempt to see if some of the issues in our relationships can be fixed, although it may require some effort or pain on our part to do it. We should also decide whether some of the flaws of a relationship can just be accepted or managed if fixing them is too difficult.

And that, is my take.

Ha ha ha... this story really strikes a chord. Have numerous guitars and out of anger sold a few away, bought a few more but sticking to a couple.

Unfortunately, women are not like guitars. Guitars ever ready in the mood for you to play. The guitar knows you love it, even though you have ignored it and left on the rack without touching for the whole week.

Women wants your whole life, your feelings and soul .. everything especially your freedom. There are ups and downs... and it ain't easy. Women are not guitars. In many ways, guitars are better. But you can't **** a guitar (the input port jack way too small.. ha ha ha). But women.. love them or hate them but can't live without them.

Rock On Bro

PS: Sorry other bros.. know that this thread already dead but can't help commenting..

[ChainSmoker]

Originally Posted by takashi31400

Totally agree with you.Mine not even marry yet but has been 10 years together already totally change.Most of the time i have to DIY.......

Thats really sad

[KupOut]

Originally Posted by ChainSmoker

Thats really sad

Agreed as well

[ibanezjem555]

Last night, I went to act cute with my OC. Can see she was a bit stress. Get her a glass of water, tell her some interesting stories, manja her a bit. Stress have sex is best.. right ? No.. she turned around and ask me to hug her from behind and 'no jerking as I need to sleep''.

I ended up, eyes wide open. Cannot sleep to went to type that post at 12.48 am. Then, she wake up, blame me that she cannot sleep, she need her beauty sleep, working tomorrow. Happened twice, since I sneaked out of bed twice

Morning wake up she is the beh song. No answer my happy watsapp . Never mind, went for a nice massage and felt like a king for one half hour. Now, relax.. Watsapp her want to meet after work ? No, she say (still beh song) but I song lo.

Women like kite. Sometimes must pull hard, sometime time let go and ignore . If pull too hard, line break.. then must scramble to pick up the kite. Waste time..

I guess its knowing wife .. when to tarik and when to let go. Again, looking at many bros here, I get once a week I should be grinning ear to ear (I want to have more but legs closed).

Many many bros here suffering. Can offer no solution except for silly kite story. Many of the bros here like the kite string hold almost to the end already.

[ibanezjem555]

Originally Posted by ferragamo

my scale is based on sex with wife:

2 or more times a week - very good
1 time a week - quite lucky already
2 time a month - average
1 time a month - fairly normal
1 time every 2 months - poor
1 time a year - better get divorced

for most guys , minimum need twice a week - that is a fair amount

but I think most guys are lucky to get twice a month

LoL ! Wah I quite lucky already !

[lancerlution2]

Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Last night, I went to act cute with my OC. Can see she was a bit stress. Get her a glass of water, tell her some interesting stories, manja her a bit. Stress have sex is best.. right ? No.. she turned around and ask me to hug her from behind and 'no jerking as I need to sleep''.

I ended up, eyes wide open. Cannot sleep to went to type that post at 12.48 am. Then, she wake up, blame me that she cannot sleep, she need her beauty sleep, working tomorrow. Happened twice, since I sneaked out of bed twice

Morning wake up she is the beh song. No answer my happy watsapp . Never mind, went for a nice massage and felt like a king for one half hour. Now, relax.. Watsapp her want to meet after work ? No, she say (still beh song) but I song lo.

Women like kite. Sometimes must pull hard, sometime time let go and ignore . If pull too hard, line break.. then must scramble to pick up the kite. Waste time..

I guess its knowing wife .. when to tarik and when to let go. Again, looking at many bros here, I get once a week I should be grinning ear to ear (I want to have more but legs closed).

Many many bros here suffering. Can offer no solution except for silly kite story. Many of the bros here like the kite string hold almost to the end already.

Hug from behind. Once hug given and hands wanna autoroam sure kena shot down. Lol all wives the same bro. Mine no exception too.

[ibanezjem555]

Originally Posted by lancerlution2

Hug from behind. Once hug given and hands wanna autoroam sure kena shot down. Lol all wives the same bro. Mine no exception too.

Thanks Bro Lancer..thought I was the only few. my wife is no autoroaming esp on breasts. No licking too. Says too ticklish and 'why you groping me, no respect, treat me like sex object huh ?'. Thought it was one of those women's erogenous zones.. but it is the erroneous zone instead !

Lucky, only way can touch her breasts is when having sex and she on way to cumming. Early part of sex also cannot.

Just catching up on this thread. Wah lau, poor bros.. divorce, pretty wife but cannot ****. Jiatlat ! Better count my lucky stars !

[angelhunter702]

Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Thanks Bro Lancer..thought I was the only few. my wife is no autoroaming esp on breasts. No licking too. Says too ticklish and 'why you groping me, no respect, treat me like sex object huh ?'. Thought it was one of those women's erogenous zones.. but it is the erroneous zone instead !

Lucky, only way can touch her breasts is when having sex and she on way to cumming. Early part of sex also cannot.

Just catching up on this thread. Wah lau, poor bros.. divorce, pretty wife but cannot ****. Jiatlat ! Better count my lucky stars !

Well, all bros here are indeed lucky. Some had sex before marriage but not after kids. Some had sex before marriage but reduced significantly after marriage. I envy you all.

I didn't have once before marriage and thought she is waiting for us to have sex after marriage. 10 years of relationship and 2 years after marriage, guess what, I didn't even have sex once with her before but she cheated me once.

I love her and respect her as my life partner. I'm her best friend and so does she as mine. But I guess there is where it stops. I married my best friend. Hahaha~

Well, I had it once awhile outside (I guess I slept with 8 different FL so far), otherwise, it's just visit my favourite massage lady and let her jerk me off.

I did all this discretely and always feel guilty after that. Anyway, I guess this will go on till the rest of my life? Anyway, I'm now working overseas and busy coping with wife and life and never had sex for a loooong time.

So, cheer up bros, I guess I am the worse case by far.

[Gold5039]

Originally Posted by angelhunter702

Well, all bros here are indeed lucky. Some had sex before marriage but not after kids. Some had sex before marriage but reduced significantly after marriage. I envy you all.

I didn't have once before marriage and thought she is waiting for us to have sex after marriage. 10 years of relationship and 2 years after marriage, guess what, I didn't even have sex once with her before but she cheated me once.

I love her and respect her as my life partner. I'm her best friend and so does she as mine. But I guess there is where it stops. I married my best friend. Hahaha~

Well, I had it once awhile outside (I guess I slept with 8 different FL so far), otherwise, it's just visit my favourite massage lady and let her jerk me off.

I did all this discretely and always feel guilty after that. Anyway, I guess this will go on till the rest of my life? Anyway, I'm now working overseas and busy coping with wife and life and never had sex for a loooong time.

So, cheer up bros, I guess I am the worse case by far.

Bro, your case very bad indeed