Watching my wife with other men

[tkchan]

Dear Friends,

I have just joined, although have been reading these articles for many years.

My wife is 38 and I am 39, we met in Uni in SG. I was in engineering and she was a chio, tall, slim (but very shy) arts student.

We are both SG chinese, married in our mid 20's now have 2 kids. Honestly, she had an army of bros chasing her and people say she married me for my brains and not much else . We moved overseas (first HK, then London, back to HK, now to Western Aus) for my work.

Earlier this year, when on work in HK, I was with a colleague and my wife in a car. We had all been out drinking, and my wife was very high. We were making our way back to the hotel.

He made a joke about how attractive she was and what "TK (me) would do if he kissed her" Something in me just said "go ahead" and she laughed and kissed him (normally she is very shy)

Watching her kiss another guy gave me SUCH a hardon. And it began a new, secret lifestyle for us (after a lot of discussion), which is now become something quite interesting. But, watching my previously shy wife take her clothes off for other men, and getting hard watching, is making me question if this is common for others as well.

I appreciate if anyone has any feedback to share

[alwaysbestdeal]

Originally Posted by tkchan

Dear Friends,

I have just joined, although have been reading these articles for many years.

My wife is 38 and I am 39, we met in Uni in SG. I was in engineering and she was a chio, tall, slim (but very shy) arts student.

We are both SG chinese, married in our mid 20's now have 2 kids. Honestly, she had an army of bros chasing her and people say she married me for my brains and not much else . We moved overseas (first HK, then London, back to HK, now to Western Aus) for my work.

Earlier this year, when on work in HK, I was with a colleague and my wife in a car. We had all been out drinking, and my wife was very high. We were making our way back to the hotel.

He made a joke about how attractive she was and what "TK (me) would do if he kissed her" Something in me just said "go ahead" and she laughed and kissed him (normally she is very shy)

Watching her kiss another guy gave me SUCH a hardon. And it began a new, secret lifestyle for us (after a lot of discussion), which is now become something quite interesting. But, watching my previously shy wife take her clothes off for other men, and getting hard watching, is making me question if this is common for others as well.

I appreciate if anyone has any feedback to share

You are just a POOR excuse to want to bonk another man's wife.

[cawca]

Bro.... you're definitely not the only one. Only happens with secure his with hot wives.

[fictionman]

Sick bastard...But its ur choice...But still a sick bastard

[Doldrums]

Originally Posted by fictionman

Sick bastard...But its ur choice...But still a sick bastard

Its his choice. Even people who have mistresses when they are married are entitled to theirs, don't need to use language.

[hornyhubby]

You are not alone. Dont worry. It is an exciting lifestyle.

But the marriage has to be with a VERY strong foundation.
No one to one meetings behind each other...this will cause problems later

To bros who talk shit here....if you have nothing good to say ....best to be silent
One man's meat ( pleasure ) is another man's poison. We are all perverts in one way or another. If you are a saint.....ask yourself.....what the F are you doing here ? Come on bros....this is a forum for discussion

Bro tkchan .......going into uncharted boundaries can be very exciting and fulfilling. We only live once.....live and let live !

[minahfav]

Originally Posted by hornyhubby

You are not alone. Dont worry. It is an exciting lifestyle.

But the marriage has to be with a VERY strong foundation.
No one to one meetings behind each other...this will cause problems later

To bros who talk shit here....if you have nothing good to say ....best to be silent
One man's meat ( pleasure ) is another man's poison. We are all perverts in one way or another. If you are a saint.....ask yourself.....what the F are you doing here ? Come on bros....this is a forum for discussion

Bro tkchan .......going into uncharted boundaries can be very exciting and fulfilling. We only live once.....live and let live !

Hi bro, I'm 101% agreed.

[Sturmgrenadier]

Tricky one bro - it could open up a can of worms down the road regardless of how strong the marriage is. Is that worth the risk? Gotta answer that question yourself man. Good luck!

[DemonicSS]

Originally Posted by Sturmgrenadier

Tricky one bro - it could open up a can of worms down the road regardless of how strong the marriage is. Is that worth the risk? Gotta answer that question yourself man. Good luck!

If you ever had any cans of worms, it is always best to open them and toss it out. The outcome of this action may not always be in your favour, but you will always be happier at the end knowing you have none.

[MaiTuaPao]

Originally Posted by hornyhubby

You are not alone. Dont worry. It is an exciting lifestyle.

But the marriage has to be with a VERY strong foundation.
No one to one meetings behind each other...this will cause problems later

To bros who talk shit here....if you have nothing good to say ....best to be silent
One man's meat ( pleasure ) is another man's poison. We are all perverts in one way or another. If you are a saint.....ask yourself.....what the F are you doing here ? Come on bros....this is a forum for discussion

Bro tkchan .......going into uncharted boundaries can be very exciting and fulfilling. We only live once.....live and let live !

Very true .... support u bro

[tkchan]

Thank you for the kind replies and the PM's.

I am not interested in other women or wives as I love my wife very much. I only get a surprising pleasure watching her get enjoyment with other men. It's odd but I just wanted to share.

[Sturmgrenadier]

Originally Posted by DemonicSS

If you ever had any cans of worms, it is always best to open them and toss it out. The outcome of this action may not always be in your favour, but you will always be happier at the end knowing you have none.

That is one way to look at it bro - but life is never that simple or black or white is it? There's a reason why its called a fantasy and not reality.

Perhaps there are less intrusive methods of spicing things up without involving a third party? Role playing, using toys, bdsm, etc spring to mind.

That said? To each his own and I wish the TS well!

[tuikboo]

Ts hope u could give us ur story and pictures 😄

[DemonicSS]

Originally Posted by tkchan

Thank you for the kind replies and the PM's.

I am not interested in other women or wives as I love my wife very much. I only get a surprising pleasure watching her get enjoyment with other men. It's odd but I just wanted to share.

It is not odd, merely rare.

Though on the sideline, where do you find your studs? (other than that colleague of yours?)

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by tkchan

Thank you for the kind replies and the PM's.

I am not interested in other women or wives as I love my wife very much. I only get a surprising pleasure watching her get enjoyment with other men. It's odd but I just wanted to share.

Look like u are advancing to the dark side

A path of no returning.