How often does your wife give you sex?

[maxman]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

Sex life for me had gone downhill ever since my wife had our 2nd child. If i al lucky, i get to have sex with her 2 times a month. Sometimes just once. I thought they always say that women sex drive will increase when they become older? Any bros with similar experience?

It's really no surprise. A woman who is a girlfriend or wife changes from a lover to a mother after bringing children into the world. If she is sensible and realizes this important change in her life, she also realizes the changes in her priorities. It is many a husband's lament that his wife's attention is mostly directed to his children and less on him.

[maxman]

A very thought-provoking article about marriage and adultery in these modern times. With 40-50% divorce rates, it questions that perhaps it is difficult to expect marriages to last as long as our longer lifespan. Ashley Madison membership reached 1 million in Japan faster than anywhere else in the world, with women outnumbering men 2 to 1.


http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/52421...ushpmg00000063

[emogirl]

Personally I think any girl wants to feel wanted and special. She might not feel sexy or desirable to you anymore after having two children. I know I have "fat days" when i just feel bloated or eaten too much! I know it seems silly but it's true. We like being told we're beautiful and like receiving surprise gifts. It doesn't have to be flowers or jewelry. Anything special that we tells us you want us is good enough.

[maxman]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I've already explained that.

1. It gets boring screwing the same person day in day out. This applies to both sexes not just men. Mankind was not designed to be monogamous. Many Non Christocentric societies do not impose monogamy on a marriage.

2. Once women have children, they are biologically programmed to switch from reproduction mode to nurturing mode. Sex takes a back seat and maternal instincts take over.

I agree with both points but especially with point number 2. I have seen point number 2 happened with some married friends.

[peanut123]

Originally Posted by real_king

i cant care less now.

an empty house, an empty heart. an empty wallet.

Wow, this is short, sharp and poignant. So sorry to hear this bro. I know all the guys in this thread have it tough, but your short post really summarizes the pain succinctly.

By empty house, I presume you don't have kids? Have you considered a divorce?

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by sgiceboy

Cos she always have low sex drive.

why kiss cannot har, i tell u lor,

Kiss lips, wait scare have pimple
Kiss breast, say ticklish.
Kiss vagina, say its dirty.

u say how leh........ foreplay ZERO....

seems the female partner has 101 excuses to avoid intimacy
and it seems those doing for $$ are super interested. so i guess maybe need to use carrot bait method

[soggypanties]

I can only see excuses as a warning sign..

[parrotkid]

If a woman really loves her husband and knows that her hubby really needs sex, why should she not give in to his needs?
To me, a wife doesn't really love the husband that much if she gives him sex like once in 6 mths.

[maxman]

Originally Posted by soggypanties

I can only see excuses as a warning sign..

In the case of a relationship including in a marriage, I agree. A clear warning sign pointing to end of attraction and affection especially if such excuses never happened in the past.

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by emogirl

Personally I think any girl wants to feel wanted and special. She might not feel sexy or desirable to you anymore after having two children. I know I have "fat days" when i just feel bloated or eaten too much! I know it seems silly but it's true. We like being told we're beautiful and like receiving surprise gifts. It doesn't have to be flowers or jewelry. Anything special that we tells us you want us is good enough.

I told my partner that I'm lucky that I don't have to sugar-coat my words to her.
She laughed.
But sometimes I still do it cos' she's my partner.
So choose your partner wisely.

[ls460]

Personally I think any wife wants to feel attractive and wanted even though she isn't as much as SYTs(after 3 kids). She might even feel that she is fat or unattractive to me anymore after having 3 children but I let her know that I need her everyday and if she doesn't feed me enough then I will eat elsewhere. The key words is to make her feel wanted all the time.
She has since been giving me every single day both in Singapore and when we are overseas.

[real_king]

Originally Posted by peanut123

Wow, this is short, sharp and poignant. So sorry to hear this bro. I know all the guys in this thread have it tough, but your short post really summarizes the pain succinctly.

By empty house, I presume you don't have kids? Have you considered a divorce?

a kid i do have. That i nvr really had the chance to take care or to hold.
His first words, i wasnt there.
His first steps, i wasnt there.

he was brought back to my wife's country after 2months he was born.

How sad can that be.
at least u guys out there get to see your wife everyday, talk to her everyday.

me? i go back home everyday to face 4walls. Again theres someone out there whois worse off. So the fact is you are never the worst.

[jenoroth]

It seriously makes me wonder why do guys want to get married in the first place, especially in singapore. Stupid woman's charter makes marriage/divorce laws so favourable to the women. Plus girls these days have such an inflated ego. I think they watch too much korean drama. They seem to feel the whole world owes them a living and they deserve to be treated like a princess. Please, as long as i got someone to cook food, clean my house and have action on a regular basis, why do you need marriage?

Thoughts on these people? Plus i'm still young, 22 this year. I know some of the bros here have a good career with good salary. Why get married and waste your time/energy on woman?

Might as well spend the money on yourself and on your parents.

[TehPENG]

Originally Posted by jenoroth

It seriously makes me wonder why do guys want to get married in the first place, especially in singapore. Stupid woman's charter makes marriage/divorce laws so favourable to the women. Plus girls these days have such an inflated ego. I think they watch too much korean drama. They seem to feel the whole world owes them a living and they deserve to be treated like a princess. Please, as long as i got someone to cook food, clean my house and have action on a regular basis, why do you need marriage?

Thoughts on these people? Plus i'm still young, 22 this year. I know some of the bros here have a good career with good salary. Why get married and waste your time/energy on woman?

Might as well spend the money on yourself and on your parents.

Get married has thousands of weird consequences but having babies that look like u and see them growing up is still a pretty magical feeling.

[soggypanties]

Originally Posted by jenoroth

It seriously makes me wonder why do guys want to get married in the first place, especially in singapore. Stupid woman's charter makes marriage/divorce laws so favourable to the women. Plus girls these days have such an inflated ego. I think they watch too much korean drama. They seem to feel the whole world owes them a living and they deserve to be treated like a princess. Please, as long as i got someone to cook food, clean my house and have action on a regular basis, why do you need marriage?

Thoughts on these people? Plus i'm still young, 22 this year. I know some of the bros here have a good career with good salary. Why get married and waste your time/energy on woman?

Might as well spend the money on yourself and on your parents.

My young jedi, one fine day when your biological clock rings the alarm, when you meet someone whom you subconsciously throw out all your logical theories about bachelorhood, someone who you suddenly wanna treat as a princess, ... then you'll be back in this thread joining the rest of us wondering what the hell went wrong