If the Wife can subcontract her duties to a maid because she doesn't want to get her hands dirty doing housework....
Shouldn't sex be subcontracted too?
Women needs emotional connection with her partner to have sex. They generally are not driven by physically needs as much as men. Hence I feel if husband and wife are not having sex, it has to do partly with a breakdown in communication. The wife simply is not interested to fuck because no connection with the husband.
My connection with my kid is even better than my wife... She expect me teach the kid well, which I met the KPI, but still no sex leh, I have since outsourced my needs to MP and communication is kept at a minimum level.
her sucking is far and few, and if there is, it's as short as a 10 sec commercial
forget about CIM or Swallowing.
Sometimes I finish and I am angry that she is lazy and not putting in effort or passion. In fact for a long period of time I boycott sex with her or any kind of intimacy because I don't have the closeness I want
For me, it's about the connection, passion, intimacy, and I expect that from someone I feel emotional about
if I can't get that, and it comes half baked with many terms and short changed, I rather pay to fulfil my primal urge to fuck and pay, and walk off. At least I know what I am getting from that exchange.
OMG Bro I feel u. Well mine is slightly better we still have sex by my request 99% of the time only thing is when we have the chance for sex or quickie as our kids are asleep or having tuition she will like say tired la hungry la house dirty la when she knows I’m abt to ask for it. Goodness I hate that lol. I told her wives shld be lucky/happy if their hubbies still ask for sex compared to not asking for it, they shld be worried if hubbies not asking for it. Lol well cheers.
i hav since outsourced my needs to 2 fbs.... fantastic sex all the time . 1 week easily i get 5shots w the 2 ladies ..... some weeks 7-8 shots ..... hahaaa balls always empty feeling. shiok !
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Originally Posted by lancerlution2
OMG Bro I feel u. Well mine is slightly better we still have sex by my request 99% of the time only thing is when we have the chance for sex or quickie as our kids are asleep or having tuition she will like say tired la hungry la house dirty la when she knows I’m abt to ask for it. Goodness I hate that lol. I told her wives shld be lucky/happy if their hubbies still ask for sex compared to not asking for it, they shld be worried if hubbies not asking for it. Lol well cheers.
Having read and met both husbands and wives who eat out, I believe one of the main problem is the lack of open communication and unrealistic expectations from both sides. No right or wrong but I don't really see any solution, unfortunately, in a society like ours today.
Definitely not looking for a solution especially in a forum like sbf. Lol...
Having read and met both husbands and wives who eat out, I believe one of the main problem is the lack of open communication and unrealistic expectations from both sides. No right or wrong but I don't really see any solution, unfortunately, in a society like ours today.
Definitely not looking for a solution especially in a forum like sbf. Lol...
Having read and met both husbands and wives who eat out, I believe one of the main problem is the lack of open communication and unrealistic expectations from both sides. No right or wrong but I don't really see any solution, unfortunately, in a society like ours today.
Definitely not looking for a solution especially in a forum like sbf. Lol...
If the Wife can subcontract her duties to a maid because she doesn't want to get her hands dirty doing housework....
Shouldn't sex be subcontracted too?
If wifey don't want to have sex with husband . Husband should tell wifey that he will have to eat outside .