Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[Chengdu dog]

We should treat everyone equally regardless whether is SG girls or PRC girls.

Except those working FL / HC / KTV / PUB

[mildseven]

It all depend on what type of PRC girls you are thinking of marrying her. Those girls who work at KTV, Pub & Night Club and worst doing FL should not be considered for marrying.

One of my cousin an Accountant who assigned to work in China 7 years ago and later married his colleague a PRC girl and now living in SG with 4 children happily.

[sub2lady2]

Originally Posted by yunao

Totally agree with you bro, some of them working very hard and keep doing ot without resting and forget to mention some very chio.
I myself also cannot tahan keep doing ot somemore it at night shift.

Well said bro, all good girls are similar, and all those ktv/fl/club girls are also same, regardless where they are from - SG or PRC or Malaysia

Marrying those good girls only, and the chioer then better

[Chengdu dog]

Originally Posted by mildseven

It all depend on what type of PRC girls you are thinking of marrying her. Those girls who work at KTV, Pub & Night Club and worst doing FL should not be considered for marrying.

One of my cousin an Accountant who assigned to work in China 7 years ago and later married his colleague a PRC girl and now living in SG with 4 children happily.

Totally agreed... we should treat PRC girls as the same status as SG girls.

Dun let the SG or Malaysian women think they are higher status than PRC women.

Not all PRC women are bad .. unless some suckers got cheated by them before

[Q-man]

I also agree that not all prc gals are bad. Those who are doing decent jobs can be considered.

[Peggie83]

When I need help most - my ex-colleague a ex-PRC lady who took up our Singapore Citizenship here helped me most when I am in need.

She stayed & worked in Singapore for past 10 years. If PRC ladies really look upon you as a friend, they will help you.

In fact the educated PRC ladies here taking up our Citizenships & PRs is not that bad as comparing
to those good-for-nothing Malaysian women who are PRs here.

If you guys looking true relationship with PRC girls in sex trade then good luck to you.

[brucelee232]

Bro applepie... have you though about where will you and her aside? Beijing or Singapore? Have you been visiting her parents?

Lets talk about China people culture...
1... they will be shamed to go back village as unmarried (even attached) when they are aged 28 for girl, 35 for guy. They will try to avoid that.
2... They treat singaporean like how sg girl feel about ang mo. They are proud to have bf/husband of singaporean.
3... They are really pampered. 1stly, they can only have 1 child (for city).

For the cheating part... you are the person to judge. Anywhere also have cheater. Even if you marry a American/Japanese wife, you can get a lazy wife. It depends on the person. Most important is your feel. If you feel she is the one, why would you worry this much? If you love her that deep, you should think that you owed her for everything...

Marriage is 2 person thing, is the thing about acceptance of 2 person into 1. If you afraid she cheat you, then don't plan. That's my personal opinion.

[newbieboy]

actually on the topic on racist whores, we as human beings have visual preferences. i don't see why a preference for certain races equates to racism.

if i declared i am only aroused by fair-skinned women, is that racist? if i can inspire an erection out of sheer will, would Pfizer still earn billions from Viagra? what about bros who only go for big boobies? are they boobists? frenchists? paintists?

these FLs are not bound by the law, but for argument purposes, assuming that they operated within the confines of the law, even they are not obliged to provide a service or product BEFORE money exchanges hands. can cab drivers refuse to pick up passengers without reason? yes they can.

why do you assume FLs do this because they have no choice? many FLs i know like to earn a quick buck, and frankly, who doesn't? why do you have to take this to mean they cannot find alternative employment? if safety and hygiene precautions are present, will their bodies be any different from blue collar work in a production line? many FLs choose not to operate in legal houses and brothels PRECISELY TO exercise their rights to choice.

again, how is the exercise of choice racist? cultural similarities and communication efficiency aside, human beings cannot control what can or cannot arouse them. if you gave me Ashwarya Rai i can't guarantee a hard on, but a PRC MILF inching towards 40, i probably can. what are the triggers for sexual urges? must my preferences be racist in nature? what if i'm more comfortable with Chinese women because my puppy love was a Chinese, or because i spent the majority of my life with Chinese people, including family and friends?

do you yearn for job satisfaction? well guess what, FLs do too. is it wrong to prefer younger men, men with bigger dicks, or men they can communicate better with? if i threw you into a high-end luxury retail store in Dubai, and you can't speak a word of Arab, would the high commissions offset your unhappiness and sense of alienation at work?

in my daily life i view my non-Chinese friends as peers, equals. i respect their opinions if they have opinions to offer, and i do not discriminate. but for the same reasons why FLs, as service providers, can dictate or prefer categories of customers, we can decline them at the door if they don't meet our preliminary requirements.

as with all businesses, they name a price, terms & conditions, and leave it on the table. if you don't like it, walk away. what harm is done except for bruised egos?

sammyboyfor, i think people call you "boss" out of fear rather than respect. i hope you recognize this, and accept the fact that peoples' opinions will inevitably differ from those you concoct out of your megalomaniac and bigoted mind. to me, you are just another account name, and i know nothing about your real life or identity. i do however, realise over the years that there are members here who are likely intellectuals, with masters and phds, with tens or hundreds of millions in their bank accounts, who majored in ethics & philosophy, sharper business acumen and worldviews i can learn from.

the world is fair. if you want the rights to choice, you have to grant the same rights to others too. if you want freedom of speech, and can't be bothered to listen to other people, at least permit them to speak freely too, and without fear. forums don't mould human behaviour, they are but microcosms of society. i don't know what great world change you're trying to inititate here, but STOMP will always be STOMP, and SBF will always be SBF.

yes you are right, racism is rampant and exists everywhere, and i'm sure there are racist FLs. i just don't think it is fair to assume FLs stating preferences for customers immediately renders them racist.

[SDX5]

Bro Applepie99

This is my view:
Whether she tell you her past is true or not, you have to ask yourself - does it matter? If you really love her, then it doesn't matter what her past is! The past is passed.

Likewise you cannot tell what is going to happen tomorrow! So why do you need to think what is going to happen in the future?

Some people can get along very well during courtship but divorced within a year of marriage. Some couple married for 20 years can also end up the same road!

So, go along with your heart! If you want to be safe from financial woes that people are afright of China gal, then get a lawyer to draft a matrionial agreement. If she harbours no ill intention, she will sign anyway!

Life is short, seize it while you still can! What happen if you choose to delay and she found another love life and she leaves you? Can you take it?

Hope this helps!

[Shocking_vibes]

Originally Posted by surferboy

There are good girls and bad girls in every country. My company recently hired a Chinese girl as HR Exec and while she is good looking and attract much attention from male colleagues, she always state very clearly that she has a husband studying in the US and turns down any "proposals" from them.

Came across this blog (A China Girl's Adventures) and I can also see why some of the chinese wants to marry Singaporeans and make Singapore their home. Many come from the country side where life is tough. Imagine having to pump water out of the ground each time you need rather than just turn on a tap and get clean fresh water you can drink immediately. If I were her, I would be looking towards Singapore too...

Finally, it all depends on where you find your girls. I've seen good ones and I've seen bad ones. If you find them in KTV, Geylang and bars... high chance they could be lemons...

Guess we cannot generalise about any race... or judge a book just by its cover.

is the husband studying the US an ang moh?

[Shocking_vibes]

Originally Posted by newbieboy

actually on the topic on racist whores, we as human beings have visual preferences. i don't see why a preference for certain races equates to racism.

You should know by now that these accusations of racism only seem to be perpetuated by minorities rather than the majority. Suppose an indian fl doesn't want to serve a chinese bro can he complain of racism? Obviously not. In this country we have the most sensitive, most riddiculous types of people. Everything that doesn't go their way is immediately construed as racism. Every small insignificant thing and you will hear someone complain that it's racist. I also blame it on this society's way of handling situations. Anything that is deemed potentially offensive, let's just not talk about it, let's just hide it in the closet and then you know pretend it doesn't exist. That is why some chinese are so afraid of talking about race becos they are fearful of offending non chinese and mind you some non chinese take advantage of that to the max. They see everything as not going their own way as racist. FL doesn't like them = fls are racist. This is one of the safest countries in the world where you're not attacked physically becos you don't belong to the majority race. Yet they just take it to the next level by whining about every small transgression as racist. I have heard of many such incidents like aunty inside a shop doesn't smile at him cos he's not chinese means the aunty is racist. Sam leong also gave some stupid eg before in the past. He mentioned some ppl inside the office were "glaring" at him when he was still in sg during a job interview. He thus came to the conclusion that they "glared" at him becos they were racist.

Mind you these racist examples only apply to non chinese races especially malays and indians. For eg if a non chinese fl refuses to serve a chinese customer can he complain of racism? Of course not. It's a very disgusting double standard way of life in this country.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by Chengdu dog

We should treat everyone equally regardless whether is SG girls or PRC girls.

Except those working FL / HC / KTV / PUB

i think there are some girls go to pubs too for drinks n relaxation n maybe ons! u think we should shant them too. no party girls?

[sun814]

that's what i call discrimination base on jobs.

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by sun814

i think there are some girls go to pubs too for drinks n relaxation n maybe ons! u think we should shant them too. no party girls?

Originally Posted by sun814

that's what i call discrimination base on jobs.

To put it bluntly what bro CD dog means is we should not go & find whores to become our gf or life partners.

I know there are still people here who love to have relationship with whores and even harboured thought of marrying them.
These are people who are not matured in their thinking

[sun814]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

To put it bluntly what bro CD dog means is we should not go & find whores to become our gf or life partners.

I know there are still people here who love to have relationship with whores and even harboured thought of marrying them.
These are people who are not matured in their thinking

haha i m one of those men u mentioned who is happily married to a ex-fl for more than 1 year now with a daughter (from her previous marriage). maybe my case is one of the few exceptions. don't blame u for having such thoughts.