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need to rant so pardon my lamenting
met my ex FB, after years she has become my GF. And as usual she is complaining about her life, work, family etc... as usual. didn't expect her to be in the mood, again as usual. Sitting in my car, played some videos on WeChat and she was remotely aroused, said wouldn't mind if we get it on. mai tu liao right? Damn it, was the worst decision I made, and made me swear off sex with her indefinitely Wanted to rub my dick against her pussy- DONT, Pain. Wanted her to lick my nipples- 5 secs of a tongue flick Started the deed and wanted to go a bit faster and cum on her stomach- She said, don't do that, she will have to clean up, so don't cum. I was like WTF? She said lets go hotel than go all the way, but I know from experience she will be even lazier in the hotel, she will watch TV instead of focusing on us. So I pulled out for a breather and wanted to go back in, she said she's lost her mood. Man I was pissed. She's given me shitty sex for the longest time now, so I text her, from now on, let's keep it to movies and meals. Sex is non negotiable because I don't want it anymore from her. She is someone who always promises, NEVER delivers. Promises to suck(rare and far, if there is sucking its a 5 sec commercial), promises to focus and be in the moment, she's always thinking about herself. She still have the cheek to say I seem to complain a lot. Fuck!!! If I wanted shitty sex like this, I'd ask my wife for sex, which hasn't happened for 3-6 years now. I forget the exact time frame because it's been that long. NABEI. Just realized I had written about the situation in this thread, self fulfilling prophesy https://samleong.shop/showpost....&postcount=152
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spent a large part of my productive life with wife, it didn't work and then this FB/GF now sian to go and put in effort to make things work rather pay and fuck off.
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PAY AND FUCK OFF means go and find FL/WL.
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Oic...but why spend more & extra money to find FL/WL leh ?? ...save yr money.. just drop or pay this present FB off...& find a new FB, cow tim liao
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The real problem with us guys is this. The moment it gets too easy and we get EVERYTHING we want? We will get bored. It's not whether she allows you to do all the above or not but rather its the lack of any effort at all from a lot of women when it comes to sex after marriage. Fucking a good looking girl is great - but fucking your wife that actually is into it and enjoying it as much as we are? That's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much better. Unfortunately the reality is that for most married couples, one or even both parties just stop making an effort and normally...its the lady. I'm tired today...and we are not? I have a headache...really? Every week so zhun one meh? I just don't have the urge anymore...ok I can accept this but this may be a mental/physical issue that perhaps needs to be looked at professionally? It might also be the fact that we get caught up with our lives, work and worries. We don't dress up. We are out of shape (or less in shape) and physically not as attractive anymore. It might also be the pressures of work, life, bills, money or whatever that is getting in the way. I honestly think that the root problem is Asian culture (and I'm Asian myself!!). We are attracted to the physical things...and less so the actual person. When something goes wrong? Then we are left with nothing left. Us Asians also find it difficult to communicate with the one person we really should have NOTHING to hide from...but we do anyway. Is it a face issue? Is it social pressures/expectations? I don't have the answers but I do know this. Being married doesn't mean you stop trying. If anything you need to try HARDER. And this goes BOTH WAYS and not just on the husband or the wife. And if you are too lazy or cant be bothered to try? Then don't complain if they take their pleasures outside of marriage. |
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Like this pain. Like that cannot. Try this don't want. Etc, etc etc etc etc. Story of my life brudder. |
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If sex is the only main goal, paying for it is the easiest and cleanest way to get things sorted. Plain and simple. |
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the best experience i had was with a m'sian 25 yo comestic gal i gotta know on wechat. she was pretty looking and had creamy C cups tits. but the best part is she was rely open to anything... allow me to role play, tie her hands and fuck her, bbbj me, cim. she has a high sex drive too and say fucking helps her to relieve stress (the stress from work, living alone in SG etc) i still rem how she is easily aroused. when we just cuddle only and i rub my hands against her groin area (with clothes still on)... and subsquently i slip my hand into her skirt and touch her pussy, damm it was fucking dripping wet and her vaginal lips were kinda swell up and tender, like ready to be penetrated anytime ![]() but subsequently she got kinda emo. each time we meet, she will say alot of emo stuff, like how she felt like being treated as a sex toy, she didnt like herself to be so loose (morally) etc. everytime i got to prep talk her... until in the end i also become emo ![]() eventually i figured it was not worth all the effort and began to stop contacting her. never had another fb who is as fun as her. in fact i didnt have any fun for next few years. it was a stroke of good luck to find a fb like her for me, now its straightforward and simple... just pay and fuck. finish go home and sleep |
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A friend once told me, free sex is always the most expensive sex. Paid sex is always the cheapest one.
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