How often does your wife give you sex?

[Johnbass]

Government give baby bonus also no use...
How you think can encourage women to have more sex/procreate?

[lateNightyOwl]

Originally Posted by zomgbaby

Both my spouse and I are in our late 20s. Sex life is almost non existent since marriage almost two years ago. Same 101 reasons some bros mentioned.

No mood
Very tired but can end up watching drama

Technically no difference from having Code Red throughout the entire year. Last session was many weeks ago. Cousin shared her preggy news and she got "competitive". The saga lasted for only a few days.

Regret? Yes, definitely.
Actions? Tried to talk to her the importance of sex in marriage but always brushed aside. Recommended marriage counseling got rejected.

FL/Paid sex
Not yet although the thought has crossed my mind numerous times. Maybe when the day I can no longer tolerate the need of PCC when I'm already married.

I'm emotionally hurt and always wonder what have I done to deserve this kind of treatment. Sigh.

Sign... sad enough for such thing to happen after having a baby, even sadder if it's before that. Really a bit phobia of marriage sometimes, be strong bro

[parrotkid]

Originally Posted by zomgbaby

Both my spouse and I are in our late 20s. Sex life is almost non existent since marriage almost two years ago. Same 101 reasons some bros mentioned.

No mood
Very tired but can end up watching drama

Technically no difference from having Code Red throughout the entire year. Last session was many weeks ago. Cousin shared her preggy news and she got "competitive". The saga lasted for only a few days.

Regret? Yes, definitely.
Actions? Tried to talk to her the importance of sex in marriage but always brushed aside. Recommended marriage counseling got rejected.

FL/Paid sex
Not yet although the thought has crossed my mind numerous times. Maybe when the day I can no longer tolerate the need of PCC when I'm already married.

I'm emotionally hurt and always wonder what have I done to deserve this kind of treatment. Sigh.

How about before marriage? Was she as disinterested?

[maxman]

Originally Posted by zomgbaby

Both my spouse and I are in our late 20s. Sex life is almost non existent since marriage almost two years ago. Same 101 reasons some bros mentioned.

No mood
Very tired but can end up watching drama

Technically no difference from having Code Red throughout the entire year. Last session was many weeks ago. Cousin shared her preggy news and she got "competitive". The saga lasted for only a few days.

Regret? Yes, definitely.
Actions? Tried to talk to her the importance of sex in marriage but always brushed aside. Recommended marriage counseling got rejected.

FL/Paid sex
Not yet although the thought has crossed my mind numerous times. Maybe when the day I can no longer tolerate the need of PCC when I'm already married.

I'm emotionally hurt and always wonder what have I done to deserve this kind of treatment. Sigh.

I'm no marriage counselor so don't take this too seriously but keep it in mind. By what you have described, I can't sense her affection/attraction for you since she seems so uninterested in sex. If you are currently not having your sexual needs met by your wife, having almost no sex, but somehow, just somehow, have a baby/child with her later, and due to the lack of sex with her again that led you to "eat outside" and cause marriage breakdown or divorce, you will likely end up being ordered to pay child support for some/many years.

My main point is, your financial disaster is likely much greater after you father a child with her than before you become a father. If you want to free yourself from an unhappy or sexless marriage, do it before your children are even conceived.

[matrixtheone]

Question is which is better?

Having affairs or paid sex?

[soggypanties]

Originally Posted by matrixtheone

Question is which is better?

Having affairs or paid sex?

Both are considered cheating. In the eyes of a girl, probably both are just as bad, nothing can be positive enough to use the term "better"

[sgiceboy]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

If she bothers to give sex to u, at least that means she cares about how u feel. If not, she is only thinking about herself and is not worth your time.

then i die... no sex for years liao

[parrotkid]

Originally Posted by sgiceboy

then i die... no sex for years liao

Then u should ask yourself whether she loves you enough to care about your feelings. There is nothing wrong asking one's wife for sex. If she respects and love you, there should be no reason she is not giving it to you.

[maui_boy]

2 to 3 times a week

[bigbrudder]

Originally Posted by zomgbaby

Both my spouse and I are in our late 20s. Sex life is almost non existent since marriage almost two years ago. Same 101 reasons some bros mentioned.

No mood
Very tired but can end up watching drama

Technically no difference from having Code Red throughout the entire year. Last session was many weeks ago. Cousin shared her preggy news and she got "competitive". The saga lasted for only a few days.

Regret? Yes, definitely.
Actions? Tried to talk to her the importance of sex in marriage but always brushed aside. Recommended marriage counseling got rejected.

FL/Paid sex
Not yet although the thought has crossed my mind numerous times. Maybe when the day I can no longer tolerate the need of PCC when I'm already married.

I'm emotionally hurt and always wonder what have I done to deserve this kind of treatment. Sigh.

Bro, get out before kid comes along. Serious, things can only go downhill after kids.

[asdfghjkl]

i can imagine the torture for guys with trophy wives but no sex..

[sleepygordon]

Originally Posted by soggypanties

Both are considered cheating. In the eyes of a girl, probably both are just as bad, nothing can be positive enough to use the term "better"

Paid sex is lesser evil cuz there is no emotional attachment

[parrotkid]

Just curious. What jobs and educational levels do your wives have? Maybe there is correlationship between lack of sex and job and edu level.

[Absolute]

Depending on who you are hearing from, a person whose sexual drive is on the verge of depleting will tell you there is more to a relationship than sex whereas another person who is at the sexual prime will insist that sex is the linchpin in a relationship.

Alas, a person whose sexual drive is now almost zero had once upon a time experienced what it was like to be at the sexual prime and the person who is at the sexual prime now and craves for sex will one day enter the phase of the sexually depleted.

[Absolute]

Originally Posted by soggypanties

My young jedi, one fine day when your biological clock rings the alarm, when you meet someone whom you subconsciously throw out all your logical theories about bachelorhood, someone who you suddenly wanna treat as a princess, ... then you'll be back in this thread joining the rest of us wondering what the hell went wrong

Nay, I am in my forties and had met many "princess materials" but rationality got the better of me. In fact, when I was a young jedi in my early twenties, I had seen what our young jedi friend has mentioned but you need to have a clear mind and discipline when treading the relationship path.

To this day, I have never regretted my decision to stay single while enjoying the freedom to decide when, who and how I want to have sex.