Why married man still visit FL?

[thedevil666]

Originally Posted by Icecass

A friend once told me, free sex is always the most expensive sex. Paid sex is always the cheapest one.

Fellow chiongsters agree?

Lol. I heard this recently too. Don’t tell me from the same source.

But I agree with this statement. Paid sex is fuck and go. There’s a transaction. Only troublesome if she is underage.

Free sex usually means emotional attachment. Those married one, serious consequence may cause divorce. Those single one u have a sticker sticking to u. For free one night stand, she might just wake up and cry rape

[donut88]

From my experience, having FBs for free sex is not entirely free. We still got to spend $$ to entertain the FB. Meals, movies, drinks, hotels, etc. So it's not free sex. And some FBs will have emo baggage over time. I think I have enough of emo FBs. Its v draining. Going to give up.

Paid sex has its pros and cons too.

[dennyx22]

can I ask what is the downside of having pay sex?

[Heronoteasy]

Originally Posted by dennyx22

can I ask what is the downside of having pay sex?

OMG,another young brother down here?

Ans:If luck is not on your side,stds ,HPV worst Hiv.
Dun you think that putting condoms is 100% safe,theres some stds that can transmit by skin to skin infections,Saliva etc etc.

Hope we senior cheongsters guide you safely...
Condom is always a must,unless you clear of the gal/gf conditions.

[sladang]

By definition, free sex is no need to pay for having sex.

However, all expenses incurred alongside the free sex are something that u still have to bear, be it relevant or irrelevant..

[paynow]

Originally Posted by donut88

From my experience, having FBs for free sex is not entirely free. We still got to spend $$ to entertain the FB. Meals, movies, drinks, hotels, etc. So it's not free sex. And some FBs will have emo baggage over time. I think I have enough of emo FBs. Its v draining. Going to give up.

Paid sex has its pros and cons too.

Fully agreed with you.

[dennyx22]

thanks for the prompt response, I am well aware of the virus and disease transmission and etc., I thought there may be some other drawback too.

[Cheesebeast]

For the same reason a man with a fridge full of food gets a takeway instead - variety

[Heronoteasy]

And one thing I wanna warned Bros down here...

For example ,you picked a PRC look 9/10 dun be too happy....
Statistics show in china website i browsed before, I think a FUJIAN University 40% HIV hit rates...(For the pretty ones)

So the more prettier you bonked,the more likely you will suffer in regrets...
(Happen to my best friend too...)stds

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Icecass

A friend once told me, free sex is always the most expensive sex. Paid sex is always the cheapest one.

Fellow chiongsters agree?

there is no free sex even if its between gf or wives etc....most of time one have to "invest" money and time to cultivate the r/s, or the more with some reluctant wives, must spend money to dine romance just to get them into the mood..just like some people say wives like fine dining, fl like fast food...the worst part after fine dining the wives might get "indigestion" and end of the day LL pcc..

[donut88]

The problem with paid sex is the STD risk, which stops me from doing it


Well, there is no best of both worlds. Either go FB way and bear the emo baggage, or go paid sex and take the STD/HIV risk

FB way is still better than paid sex. If get emo baggage, just drop her and wall off.

If you get STD/HIV from paid sex, no turning back.

[Shadow_warrior]

many years ago I met 2 girls at a disco,

we drink very high go to hotel.

my friend was screwing another girl in the other room, then he text me saying she is a ML works at Tanglin Massage, no need for romance, just do

When I asked her if she has condoms, she said, she's clean, so I went raw. Heng man, never kenna anything.

But I never did that crazy thing again. Even blows I take BJ and not BBBJ, even from ONS or flings. I try not to have sex with WL, ONS or flings
end of the day, come out still just as tired. Of course one is more shiok, but also more dangerous and deadly

One time in hongkong went to a KTV, fuck the china girl in the next room, was very drunk I vaguely remember the condom, but forgot if still had it on when finished. Was scared for few weeks, went to see doctor and test.

The fear of fucking a ML WL with condom, and after that those weeks and months you start to fear did I get something is just not worth it.

Now I am very disciplined. Level 1. DIY or use Sex toy. If cannot tahan Level 2. ML with HJ Level 3. ML with BJ - only 3 levels no matter who the girl is or how she looks.

[hil169]

Originally Posted by donut88

The problem with paid sex is the STD risk, which stops me from doing it


Well, there is no best of both worlds. Either go FB way and bear the emo baggage, or go paid sex and take the STD/HIV risk

FB way is still better than paid sex. If get emo baggage, just drop her and wall off.

If you get STD/HIV from paid sex, no turning back.

One question, you dare to take unknown risk to raw your fb knowing that she could have other fb on the side or would you rather fuck fl with condom knowing the risk fully?

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by donut88

The problem with paid sex is the STD risk, which stops me from doing it


Well, there is no best of both worlds. Either go FB way and bear the emo baggage, or go paid sex and take the STD/HIV risk

FB way is still better than paid sex. If get emo baggage, just drop her and wall off.

If you get STD/HIV from paid sex, no turning back.

FB can also be screwing outside. And being FB we have more trust with her, so we don't use rubber, CIP, CIM, but remember she has no obligation to be safe with other FB she fucks. FB means she's probably not exclusive to you. If exclusive it's called a GF.

I know many bros who have caught shit from their FBs, some even made her pregnant pay for abortion, not knowing if it's theirs, or even married them.

[Highjoys]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

I am female.
which part implied the whole world owes me explanation? If you are not happy, don't reply. Simple.

If you are adaptive and adventurous with mutual satisfaction with your man, making him want you always, he will not likely go to FLs because he will not be able to find the same thrills and comfort with safety with you elsewhere...