lady sent strong signal...wat to do

[sadlonelyguyer]

TS, whoever u screw, i just hope its not my wifey.

[dgsk]

It is an unfortunate reality that the sanctity of marriage is today highly suspect.

That said, she's 20, married, and still goes out by herself with guys other than her husband; that says alot about where she's at in her marriage.

Like what has been said above, go tease her back, flirt with her and enjoy whatever comes.... and goes...

[Savanna]

For all you know she is just a "Cock Teaser"!!!

[ward1967]

Originally Posted by sadesade

to all brothers, i know one girl, age 20 plus, not very chio but also SYT, i got her hp no. when friends come out for ktv last year. she seems very friendly to me, some more say me cute.....
but the worst thing for me is she married, so i never give a second tot of up her or anything..but last time, in msn, she like very keen chatting with me, still say me cute......., then left mmsg on my facebook, proactively gave me her number and asked me to sms her sometimes...(she tot i didnt have her hp)..anyway, the fling feeling very strong....but she got hubby....shit, what shld i do? headaceh....
anyway, the tot of fucking her is very irresistible for me....help!!

Well sounds like a easy choice to me, go for it, She is the married one and unless you know the husband there is no issue there. Well that is no issue unless you are thinking of getting into a serious relationship with her. If this is the case remember, if she is cheating on one man with you then if you ever got together chances are she would also cheat on you. So not a good canadiate for perm gf but a good option fot a F>>k toy.

[Longitude]

This is like skating on thin ice. So speed is safety.

[waikeekee]

Hey TS:

If she is really looking for a fling, I think you should not deny her your time and body. But if she is just flirting, then don't waste you time. Final decision is yours. Perhaps, you are worried that you will be emotionally attached to her, hence my first advise is minimum emotions first and see how things go.

It is in the MALE human species to sow our wild oaks and the female are nesters, they tends to look for the most powerful, strongest and best looking so that their off-springs will have a better chance in life. Hey! I saw this in Discovery Channel. So, sub-consciously, men are always looking for a bonk.

You must also asked the Question? Why would she be looking for another men if she already got one at home. Marriage is a strange thing. I had a failed marriage so, I have some experience. IF? one part is unable to find what he/she crave, the urge to look eslewhere will be multiplied exponentially. Perhaps, he/she is unhappy, no comminication at home, lousy sex, has an unsensitive spouse or simply regret marrying. Then, I am sure anyone in this situation will start to look elsewhere for what they want in life. I have had sexual encounters with married women, besides the sex, we share and talk about our lifes. Make no mistake, we do not want to divorce our respective spouses. It is just like getting a FB and a good listener who understands.

In this modern world and Society, the willing parties are adults. They know what they are getting into. I believe, as long as the two of you are happy and willing, who and what is stopping you. Remember, happiness is a elusive thing. When you find it, you better savour it before regretting.

[goodbong]

this is between 2 consenting adults right? then screw 1st and then worry later.

[warcock]

What you dislike yourself do not like for me.

[warcock]

What you dislike yourself do not like for me.

[sadesade]

Originally Posted by waikeekee

Hey TS;

What I am trying to say is, JUST GO FOR IT! What have you got to lose? I am sure you are not a virgin. All willing pussies are game. Just be very discreet and allow her to decide when and where to see and bonk you. Not the other way round. REMEMBER, she has got more to lose than you. Lastly, try to keep your emotion lock at home and do not be demanding. Simply enjoy the sex and the company of each other (The GFE).

wah brother, i tot the moral of your story is to avoid this kinda thing, how come the final advice is a twist! lol kk, thanks anyway. i also dont wannt to be beated up even im big in size too..(3 man cannot handle me alont i think

[sadesade]

Originally Posted by waikeekee

Hey TS:

If she is really looking for a fling, I think you should not deny her your time and body. But if she is just flirting, then don't waste you time. Final decision is yours. Perhaps, you are worried that you will be emotionally attached to her, hence my first advise is minimum emotions first and see how things go.

IIn this modern world and Society, the willing parties are adults. They know what they are getting into. I believe, as long as the two of you are happy and willing, who and what is stopping you. Remember, happiness is a elusive thing. When you find it, you better savour it before regretting.

wah brother, ur advice like very pro...u hosting any mailbox? or ujust the aunt agony?

[waikeekee]

Originally Posted by sadesade

wah brother, ur advice like very pro...u hosting any mailbox? or ujust the aunt agony?

Hello TS;

I am waiting for my plane's departure, coming home after 4 longs month. You answered my advise and postings. So, I carry some weight and sound like you like what I said. You know, I was zapped by someone who disagrees with me. Anyway, this is life.

I am not a pro, just a guy who had gone through the good & bad, sweetness & bitterness and the beauty & ugliness of what life had thrown at me. Presently, I am happily married (2nd time) but I still cheong and screw around. Hey, I had a threesome 3 days ago and also a ONS in Shenzhen. 3 Bonk in 10 hours - 2 paid and 1 FOC. Next week, I will be going to Bangkok with a man's wife for three days. Knowing I will be back home for 3 weeks, she ask me to go with her, she says she need a break from work. Whatever happens in Bangkok, is between 2 consenting adults who enjoy each other's company. Have sex or not is inmaterial. I love my wife, please don't get me wrong. I also like other woman. Right or wrong, you decide.

Having extra-marital is sinful and morally wrong in all religion. Having sex with another man's wife is unethical. Well, the ball is in you court! What will you do next is you decision. All by-stander can only view and provide advise. We are not here to judge your actions, but since you open a new thread asking "What to do?" You inevitably invited either mail bombs or rapturous support from every reader.

I DO NOT CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK OF ME, I AM MY OWN MAN AND DO THINGS THAT I WON"T FEEL CONSCIOUS STRICKEN LATER.

You only tell us very little about the woman who has "electric eyes" on you. Only you would know. SO, most of us are playing guessing games and jumping to the conclusion. The truth is, most of us have not had affairs and could be envying you. Those who are married who had their wife taken away by another guy WILL hate your guts now. If you believe in karma or retribution, I suggest you do not speak to her again and stop everything, otherwise, do whatever you pleased.

RGDS
WKK

[Lsy84]

Dear bro sadesade,

sometimes u need to be smart to understand a gal's actions at times. Don't be too quick to think that once she does certain actions like in this case she finds u cute and all, she likes u...

from what i know, in the situation u described, shes still young ard 20 something yrs of age..girls at this age tend to be very flirty and like to give themselves options, they haven't reach the stage where they want commitment from a partner yet...

so bro, be careful here, take things one step at a time with her, and always remember to test water first.

[tomvoyeur]

Originally Posted by KingEros

Yes ... even for a guy like me, who rather live with disappointments than regrets, would also make a very thorough risk-assessment study. I guess you should too.

I second ur thoughts bro!

[Bangster]

Originally Posted by Lsy84

Dear bro sadesade,

sometimes u need to be smart to understand a gal's actions at times. Don't be too quick to think that once she does certain actions like in this case she finds u cute and all, she likes u...

from what i know, in the situation u described, shes still young ard 20 something yrs of age..girls at this age tend to be very flirty and like to give themselves options, they haven't reach the stage where they want commitment from a partner yet...

so bro, be careful here, take things one step at a time with her, and always remember to test water first.

Well thought out advice from many bros here.

However, I for one, has to agree with Bro Lsy84 here.

She's very young and if you think you'll like to look at her like a ripe and willing pussy(like most bros presumed), I ask of you to think twice first. Girls this age are nonetheless flirty and super yearning for attention.

I would say even though she's calling you cute and stuff, once you start your moves on her and she recognises it, she'll wake her bloody idea up and stop all the sweet callings very abruptly. I wouldn't call her a cock teaser, she's just too young and dumb to realise what she's leading you into with her actions and words. And by the time she sees clearly your advances on her, she'll kinda freak out and realise this is not the game she actually wants to play.

Hypocrite is a word I find very suitable on these type of girls. And I've seen my fair share of them.

Irregardless, you may want to just give a try and see. No venture, no gain.