Bringing ktv girl for outing, do I need to tips her? - Page 2

nokia88 · #16 24-10-2010, 03:32 PM

Knew 1 KTV girl whom i sat with 1 time and she asked for $200 for a bonk which i rejected . Few days later sms her for dinner as she was not working that night . And i smsed her how much juz to play safe . Her reply was $200 for having dinner and bringing her go disco . She can still reply "It's not a transaction but she treat me as friend else she will not go dinner with me " . After that i deleted her number .

Martell99 · #17 24-10-2010, 03:48 PM

think is better you ask first...
i had fren tat use to bring a ktv gal(from some high joint) wif him whenever we go drink sometimes we meet for coffee n on every sunday they will go shopping see movies , my fren claim tat is his galfren but after they so call break up he told me actually whenever she go out wif him haf to pay her $300... such good deal dun need to wrk oso get money somemore can enjoy...

SubaruSTI · #18 24-10-2010, 04:00 PM

To share my experience.
Once I was sending this KTV girl home after session ( met her the first time)
She jio me to ask her out for Dinner then St james on her off day.
At the same time, she kinda hinting to me that how much this customer gave her at the end of the day after they went for meal and disco.
After reaching her home, that was the first time and the last time I saw her.

To pay for meals and expenses like disco entrance and drinks i think is ok. Just like you as a gentleman will pay for the ladies. But to pay her a tip after the whole session ...hmmm...awkward lor ...machiam paying for social escorts service rather than going with " friend "

patty · #19 24-10-2010, 04:21 PM

bros, what about asking HC girl out for meals?

nicholassoong81 · #20 24-10-2010, 05:33 PM

Yeah.. To sum it up, all these KTV girls are bitches. At least the ones in Singapore. Don't waste your hard earn money on them. If we need to pay for them, then we better get something back in return. I won't be tipping my female friends when I go out with them. Hence, KTV girls will never be my friends.

hock19 · #21 24-10-2010, 07:54 PM

Generally speaking the end result in whatever way you look at it is that there will be a nett gain in favour of the gal. This is in the form of cash, presents. Nothing is free in the world and as all bros say, they are here to make money.

The way I work is to realize this and if I think if I am spending wisely and in return, get what I want out of the gal, then that is fine. At the end of the way, this is a transaction - cash and present from you in return for sex, company and "love" ( from your point of view) from her. And if you think that that is fair exchange, and you can live with that, then that is fine.

owl888 · #22 24-10-2010, 09:15 PM

The gal will b able to size u up inside the KTV depending on how much u tip her. If normal tip & she still keen to meet up with u over lunch then may b she likes u. If u spoil mkt inside the KTV & tip her handsomely then she might think tt u r a carrot waiting to b chop

But rule of thumb to put each other in comfortable position to talk abt $$$, avoid dating her during her working hours from 4pm till midnight coz this the time she make lots of $$$.

junior_cannibal · #23 24-10-2010, 10:52 PM

Like what some of the bros said, unless you are really good looking, or remind them of their first loves, else, why would they want to go out with you? Ya, occasionally, we may chance upon a ktv mm that may like you for one reason or another. I have my fair share of such encounter. However, not that I am wealthy, just that its cleaner and more straight forward to pay for each session.
As for outing, outside of their workplaces - ktv, so far, I have never paid once for the so called tips. I find the idea ridiculous. I got friends who brought the mm out for good meals, gifts and at the end, the mm still asked for tips.
I agree these mm are here to make money. If so, then should go to work every day. If an outing is deemed as work, then make it clear upfront. There are bound to be guys who can be misled, thought its love at first sight. Anyway, don't try to find love in a ktv, 99 out 100 times will be a day dream or a wishful thought that will end in tragedy.

Alan Ong · #24 24-10-2010, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by KoolGang

I have a question for experienced bros out there. If I go out with a ktv girl I met once before for lunch or for other sightseeing, do I need to pay her tips? On one hand, she might have better things to do and expect to be paid for her time. On the other hand, this is just lunch between friends. If I need to tips her, how much should it be?

Standard I think is $150 to $200 but maybe your meal may cost $50

hoosdathu · #25 25-10-2010, 12:19 AM

go ahead, tip her $10000 per outing, else she'll think of u as stingy

have any bro here ever thought of tipping ur friends for having lunch together?

if she treats u as a friend, she shouldn't be thinking of tips.
if u are just one of her clients, pls make sure u don't spoil the market by tipping like a carrot head.

nicholassoong81 · #26 25-10-2010, 12:50 AM

I ever had such an experience in Chang Ping. I don't know why the girl did that. She claimed that she likes me. I was there for 7 days. And she skipped work to keep me company. We were like bf and gf. Of course I had to pay for transport, accomodations and food. But we had sex almost every night and she didn't ask a single cents from me at the end of the trip. Out of my feelings for her, I gave her a few hundred bucks for accompanying me for the whole trip. After I came back to Spore, I wanted to break up with her coz I felt guilty for cheating on my gf. She cried over webcam. When I went to Chang Ping again, I bumped into her. She cried and blamed me for being heartless. We got back together again. This time round, I did raw with her coz I found myself to like her more and more. Once again, she did not ask me for money. My friends found it too good to be true. But as a guy who was so intimate with her for so many days, I could feel her love and sincerity. Perhaps she is too young to realize the pragmatism of society. But returning back to reality, this type of story only happens one in a million. In regards to the ktv girls in Spore, I won't even think abt taking things seriously with them as 99.9 percent of the time, they are just after your money. That's my 2 cents worth.

owl888 · #27 25-10-2010, 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by nicholassoong81

This time round, I did raw with her coz I found myself to like her more and more. Once again, she did not ask me for money. My friends found it too good to be true. But as a guy who was so intimate with her for so many days, I could feel her love and sincerity. Perhaps she is too young to realize the pragmatism of society. But returning back to reality, this type of story only happens one in a million. In regards to the ktv girls in Spore, I won't even think abt taking things seriously with them as 99.9 percent of the time, they are just after your money. That's my 2 cents worth.

Bro dun EVER EVER raw with WL. PRC in CP can do raw with anybody for the right price. No point risking your life juz for the moment of joy. My humble 2 pts!

Compassion · #28 25-10-2010, 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted by owl888

Bro dun EVER EVER raw with WL. PRC in CP can do raw with anybody for the right price. No point risking your life juz for the moment of joy. My humble 2 pts!

If you ever want to do raw with a WL, make sure you send her to do a HIV test first.

KoolGang · #29 25-10-2010, 06:40 AM

Actually, it is not the feeling that I am after. This girl is a challenge cause she claimed she didn't go out (hotel) with her customer. So I am trying to get closer to her with a final goal in mind. Perhaps, she would be willing if she is more comfortable with the other person. Of course that would be transactional.

junior_cannibal · #30 25-10-2010, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by nicholassoong81

But returning back to reality, this type of story only happens one in a million. In regards to the ktv girls in Spore, I won't even think abt taking things seriously with them as 99.9 percent of the time, they are just after your money. That's my 2 cents worth.

Glad that you know the difference between reality and the non reality. The playing fields in China and here can be really different. Even the ktv mm of two places, though of same origin, i.e. PRC, can be very different. Before I first went to CP, SZ and the likes, didn't quite understand why some senior bros claimed these places would cast 'gong-tao' on us. Over here, for the mm to come, they already incur high costs that they not only need to recover, they need to make a lot more from there to make sense for the travel here. Hence, don't try to have the company or the bonk really FOC, the least we should do is to Pay in Kind.
The other rule I have learnt these years, most mm wouldn't mind if you are married, but if they were to find out you have other Chinese gf, you better be careful, she might one day chop off your little bro and stir fried with chilli.