Issues to consider when looking for a guy

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by BigFudge

6. And sex toys are not for sharing (well during the session is ok, but not like 1 week later). No matter how many condoms you put on the thing or if you soak it in bleach for an hour, no girl really wants to have 'that piece of old plastic' put inside her. If she's really into toys she'll either bring her own, or ask you to buy one. The only time she'll let you use one you've brought is if it's still in the box unopened, like a priceless marvel superhero figurine. Also, it's a bit weird for a dude to have a drawer full of dildo's and vibrators in the first place right? And lastly, after the things me and some girls have done with those toys they need to be burnt at 1000C, so always need to buy new.

Well, I must be pretty fortunate. The ladies I've met do not mind using my 'that piece of old plastic' in them as long as I show that a certain level of hygiene is being observed. Different strokes for different folks. Your view is definitely not wrong. Singaporean girls are conservative. Most that I've met need to consider for some time if they even want to try the sex toy, let alone buy one for themselves. That's why guys like me have a drawer full of sex toys. I help save the ladies the 'embarassment' of walking into a sex shop and the trouble of finding out what's good and what's not.

Seems like this thread is mostly read by guys. Let's just hope enough girls read it and learn about basic self-protection before it's too late.

It seems like a trend for ladies to come to Orgies/swinging arrangement section to look for FB. Quite out of point at times as they are neither looking for orgies nor swinging but I guess we guys won't complain right? However, I do hope the ladies understand the true definition of a FB. FB's obviously FREE BONKS to us. Only girls think we meant fuck buddy. Fuck already, you think we are buddy? Haha... Ya right... and SBF is shortform for sex, betting and freelance right? It's somewhat disturbing to see ladies with new nicks listing the criteria for their FB. More often than not, it sounds like they are looking for BF (boyfriend) and not FB.

Be realistic gals, why would guys as good as you wish be trolling a sex forum for FB? Guys who are that good can get girls in real life. No need to come online to hide behind a computer screen. It's almost like a guy advertising himself as husband material in a sex forum. Some things don't exist in some places for a reason. Even if such guys exist here, why makes you think you deserve him? Just because you took the effort to start a new nick and a new thread? Please lar, just because you are willing to open your legs for free, it doesn't mean that the queue for you will start in Jurong and end in Changi. (sorry if I'm crude). Some ladies are really curt in their replies in their own thread, almost as if the guys in SBF owe her money. As a guy in a male-oriented forum, it's getting increasingly tempting to put down some of these girls.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

just because you are willing to open your legs for free, it doesn't mean that the queue for you will start in Jurong and end in Changi. (sorry if I'm crude). Some ladies are really curt in their replies in their own thread, almost as if the guys in SBF owe her money. As a guy in a male-oriented forum, it's getting increasingly tempting to put down some of these girls.

Cannot agree with you more on this BRO . Peace to All !

[hickeybites]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

However, I do hope the ladies understand the true definition of a FB. FB's obviously FREE BONKS to us. Only girls think we meant fuck buddy. Fuck already, you think we are buddy? Haha... Ya right... and SBF is shortform for sex, betting and freelance right? It's somewhat disturbing to see ladies with new nicks listing the criteria for their FB. More often than not, it sounds like they are looking for BF (boyfriend) and not FB.

TS: very well-written thread/posts .... and great add-ons by the bros as well.
Believe that there are sisters reading this thread ... albeit silently though
Thread caught my eye and i just had to comment -- agree especially with the above point. As a female, I myself sometimes forget the other more relevant definition of FB (free bonks) --- doesn't help that "Sex and The City" glamourized the concept of fuck buddies for some of us females.

All points are very pertinent & helpful. A couple of insights are a teensy little bit crude for the feminine eyes/ears but much appreciated & welcomed.


(and No... I'm not in search of a FB. Just giving this thread a deserved bump)

[HoneyBeeBees]

This is interesting. Mind if I pen some of my views and suggestions?

Ladies, be sure and clear on what you are seeking for ultimately. If it's not a serious relationship then do you have what it takes to play the game? Girls will always eventually put feelings into any kind of relationship they are in, be it FB/lovers/companion/partner/nsa. Girls and guys are somewhat different sometimes. You need to know where to draw the line if you want to be in the game. Think carefully before joining the game. Yes it may be sweet in the beginning when the guys promise you the stars, moon and the sky. But once he got what he wanted, its back to reality. But not all guys are the same. You have to know when to do the correct thing at the correct timing.

So, can you handle it emotionally? Do not lie to yourself and put on a brave front and join in the game hoping for miracles.

When you do meet the guy that you think you have chemistry with. Do not tell him what he want to hear, but tell him WHAT YOU WANT. Trust me, it will save you a lot of trouble in future when he finds out that ultimately you are hoping that he choose to be his girlfriend. Not saying it won't ever happen but chances are pretty slim considering the kind of forum this is.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by HoneyBeeBees

Ladies, be sure and clear on what you are seeking for ultimately. If it's not a serious relationship then do you have what it takes to play the game? Girls will always eventually put feelings into any kind of relationship they are in, be it FB/lovers/companion/partner/nsa. Girls and guys are somewhat different sometimes. You need to know where to draw the line if you want to be in the game. Think carefully before joining the game. Yes it may be sweet in the beginning when the guys promise you the stars, moon and the sky. But once he got what he wanted, its back to reality. But not all guys are the same. You have to know when to do the correct thing at the correct timing.

So, can you handle it emotionally? Do not lie to yourself and put on a brave front and join in the game hoping for miracles.

When you do meet the guy that you think you have chemistry with. Do not tell him what he want to hear, but tell him WHAT YOU WANT. Trust me, it will save you a lot of trouble in future when he finds out that ultimately you are hoping that he choose to be his girlfriend. Not saying it won't ever happen but chances are pretty slim considering the kind of forum this is.

Well said ! Many FB relationships don't last long because many fail to realize that inevitable emotions come into play after the initial attraction and lust ! However to GENERALIZE normally the woman will be more acceptable to this .

But I do not deny the fact ;if and if there is such a woman . Many guys in here will fall head over heels and will give up almost everything for a woman that has the maturity and the ability of mentally and physically stimulating a man .

[Scarrlet]

It's true that in fuckbuddy relationships, after a certain point of time, emotions comes into play. Sometimes, sessions cant go on cuz of conflict of interest.

I believe that there should be a line drawn as well. I know my limits as well. There maybe times when I'm with my fb and i develop certain feelings but I always tell myself to get real as we're only here to pleasure each other, maybe hang out before/after sex as normal friends and nothing more than that.

It can be difficult for us girls as we mainly need to have a reason to have sex when men only just need a place to fuck. I want to fuck to get the satisfaction of being satisfied and to satisfy as well.

Girls joining in this game of fucking should know their limits and just have fun. With that being said, who's interested in fucking a bitch in heat? I'm on my period but im at my horniest peak so im looking for someone who isnt icky about blood and will want to fuck me just as much. Take a look at the thread below. And apply

http://samleong.shop/showthread.php?t=237853

Criteria to apply

- not afraid of blood
- ages 20 to 40
- good looking
- keep a conversation going
- mind fuck me
- good enough cock to satisfy me
- NO CHEAPSKATES
- not afraid to show me a good time
- presentable in dressing
- not squimish of blood (very horny, want 2 be satisfied still - period just came)
- chinese, eurasian or mixed guys
- fit guys only.
- 168cm and above

Cheers!

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by Scarrlet

I'm on my period but im at my horniest peak so im looking for someone who isnt icky about blood and will want to fuck me just as much. Take a look at the thread below. And apply

http://samleong.shop/showthread.php?t=237853

Criteria to apply

- not afraid of blood
- ages 20 to 40
- good looking
- keep a conversation going
- mind fuck me
- good enough cock to satisfy me
- NO CHEAPSKATES
- not afraid to show me a good time
- presentable in dressing
- not squimish of blood (very horny, want 2 be satisfied still - period just came)
- chinese, eurasian or mixed guys
- fit guys only.
- 168cm and above

Cheers!

Hey girl , abit off topic right ?

[izzx11]

Girls and Guys are built differently as in emotions. So be careful not to let emotions get in the way. Cause you will get hurt. Most guys here are looking for no strings attached relationships.

In addition, the purpose is just to have fun and to satisfy each other. Although haven't met up with anyone from here before but am sure precautions and doubts fill both parties when meet up occurs so as X said expectations needs to be managed and precautions taken.

Guys dont forget, when a girl says no, it means NO! period.

Cheers and Happy Easter

[blohsg]

JasDude : Funny post ... her topic was going 1 direction and suddenly U-turned as her hormones took over and out came the hissing and fangs

Scarlet : hope you're feeling less overwhelmed by ya code(red) Status

[Awaken]

Thanks TS for this infomative thread...definitely use it as reference...

[Reoxy]

Very nicely written piece and constructive contributions from all around.

This thread should be posted as a Sticky instead and let's be neutral about the sexes.

While I am all hands for more ladies coming forward in this forum to spice things up abit, I still do not believe in behaving overly protective by providing them with advices such as these and not sharing the same with the men.

While some may say that men have more sexual avenues but these come at a price tag, literally.

While women on the other hand, if willing, would be able to gain free entry, or to put it in perspective, allow free entry into whatever sexual fantasies they may have.

In fact, I believe the men should pay more attention to these advices because we, tend to think with our dicks rather than our heads.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

This thread should be posted as a Sticky instead and let's be neutral about the sexes.

While I am all hands for more ladies coming forward in this forum to spice things up abit, I still do not believe in behaving overly protective by providing them with advices such as these and not sharing the same with the men.

In fact, I believe the men should pay more attention to these advices because we, tend to think with our dicks rather than our heads.

Well, hardly anyone views this thread so it's unlikely to be a sticky. Less than 1300 views in 10 days. Hardly sticky quality. I can only start a thread. What determines if this thread is good or not is up to individual contributions and there have been very good inputs from our fellow SBF bros and sisters so far.

I did write some points to be gender-neutral. I just didn't specifically list it out as 'Guys! Read this!' and left it to be more subtle. I did receive some PMs on this thread and may be adding points later on. It's quite funny actually when I pm some ladies to wish them good luck in their search for a FB and perhaps they will like to read this thread and the ladies PM me back 'Read already!'.

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

I did write some points to be gender-neutral. I just didn't specifically list it out as 'Guys! Read this!' and left it to be more subtle. I did receive some PMs on this thread and may be adding points later on. It's quite funny actually when I pm some ladies to wish them good luck in their search for a FB and perhaps they will like to read this thread and the ladies PM me back 'Read already!'.

It's a good effort!

And come to think of it, it's true that the ladies are a tad nicer than some of us guys. Some of us come in to post looking for FB or apply to be a FB and start throwing tantrums when they do not get a response or follow-ups.

Maybe I should start a thread myself for these people titled: No Patience? Don't want Effort? Want Immediate Follow-up? Go to FL 1 section.

Haha...

[Xgenre]

Just an update, since I've started this thread, there had been a few ladies who PM me. Most just want to share their troubles with me and I've added them to my MSN list to chat with them. I'm now like an Uncle Agony of the forum like that. For the record, I'm not an old man although I write like one. I'm also do not wish to be an Uncle Agony. The stories are really sad.

Recently a lady PM me and we met for lunch. Her husband is a samster and she found out about what he does here. She told me to send out a message that married or attached people should reconsider finding FLs as it hurts the wife or gf. I told her that this is an adult forum and we don't preach morales here. Guys, there is a saying in the army. Do anything you want but don't get caught. If you can't stop engaging in SBF related activities, at least try to cover your tracks and not get caught. Ignorance can be bliss to your loved ones.

Decided to write in this thread as the PMs resulted from this thread.

[blohsg]

Xgenre : your thread might become the place where they flock to you to do PI for their respective spouses and what not ... it's going to be bz