What is most depressing to a man?

[Alimi]

To share my story after separated with my wife, I had not have sexual intercourse for 2.5 years except some foreplays/body massage with girls that I didn't really like until early this year, I was able to perform sexual intercourse moderately upon I found the girl that I really like and fond for until todate.

Analysing the possible root cause is about feeling and health. Upon you developed true feeling for a girl that you really like or love, apparently you would highly likely be able to perform pretty well on the bed, this is true for normal men in good health. Should one's health is not at tip top condition, genuine feeling to wanting sex from both partners must exists to compensate lacking in good health from either parties or both. This is true for women as well, I guess. Stay in good health and having true feelings for each other would help the two to enjoy sexual intercourse to the fullest.

Having sex with WL/women without true feeling is still ok for men from the outset due to probably attracted by her good look and/or sexy body contour. WL would be glad to offer sex service to men in exchange for money/fun as well. However, the lack of knowledge and trust on each others in terms of body hygeine, free from STD and contagious diseases, sincerity for having sex to express true love are all important elements which are missing from both parties. As such, it will not yield high quality sexual experience for both the man and the woman. It takes time and efforts for both FB to develop and progress into having a really good and enjoyable sex life experience over a longer period of time.