Why married man still visit FL?

[The Old Nite]

some people said that whatever whore can give them, some wife cannot give them in terms of service... and some says that maybe they sick and tired of seeing the same pussy everyday...

[jolene1996]

there could be many reasons, the guy/girl could be playboy/playgirl to start with. Lack of sex is another reason, u have to find ways to get rid of the urge right? bad sex is antoerh reason...so many more

[vkoolboi]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

Can I understand more about this? I have read around that using these services can choose the type of girls you prefer. But how do you guys explained. When you said you love your wife but still go for paid service.
Just being curious.

Wife do not love her man enough, so he find love outside of marriage.

[mike3329]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

Can I understand more about this? I have read around that using these services can choose the type of girls you prefer. But how do you guys explained. When you said you love your wife but still go for paid service.
Just being curious.

Just go to the other thread 'Married man poll on extramarital affairs' and you will find most of the answers you are looking for.

Most men and for that matter also women will 'stray' if they have the opportunity or the guts to do so especially if they believe they can get away with it!

I am sure that you yourself has had that fleeting thought of straying except that you may not have acted on it yet.

It is not as if they love their spouses and families any less but they are just following their natural instincts and normal human desires.

They do not go out of the way to hurt their families although that may be the consequence.

Sex within the bounds of matrimony may not be enough to satisfy all their needs and desires. The excitement of trying something new and the fulfillment from a fresh conquest or experience.

The allure of illicit sex may actually be the thrill of living dangerously. The risk of being exposed.

This is true of paid or unpaid sex......

[alea]

To TS and all married women, once and for all, you’ve got to decide if love has got anything to do with sex.

If yes, then how often are you having sex with and loving your husband?

If love has got nothing to with sex, then why should you care who he’s fcking with?

[ET]

Because all man like to try new dish

[alec]

Because there was hardly any communication anymore as her expectations just grew and grew until she changed soo much without realizing it... She's a runner, while I prefer to walk slowly.

So its more of filling up the missing hole inside.

[thedevil666]

guys usually can separate intimacy from emotions better than girls. so typically, we will still love the family but have dark secrets somewhere.

as to why guys stray, other than our primal instincts, i believe it is because u can never be satisfied by just 1 girl. there are too many temptations out there.

[bonk69]

After treat myself with maca or tongkat ali, uncontrollable cock stand and desire.
Wtf why the evil mind keep come to our mind, too many hamsap activities in sg because of strong currency markets exchange rate

[ET]

Cos man always like to explore new hole

[Lucifypunk]

As a lady working in a male dominated industry,I know that it is very normal for guys to stray outside of a relationship. My colleges are very open about it with me. I personally allow my bf to go for paid services(or what I call “fuck and go”) but no more than that. I laid out my boundaries. It is normal for guys to not want their gf or wife to be fucking someone else, double standards i know but I don’t sleep with anyone else unless it’s a swinging session(mutually agreed). But to me, I don’t think there’s anything wrong unless he’s playing with your feelings or to put it simply, have another gf or wife.
Sex is nothing until feelings get involved.

[larue]

Originally Posted by Lucifypunk

Sex is nothing until feelings get involved.

Yeah, for men it can be no more than a biological impulse. There isn't really anything to justify, men just often can't help themselves. It is what it is.

[starbuck]

妻不如妾， 妾不如偷 ， 偷不如偷不着。

[IamCIM]

Thanks for sharing..... It seems like. I have to keep one eye open and the other close.....(suck thumb and live with it) or I can just let this marriage fuck off.

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by hawkeye007

Let me use an analogy for u. You love to eat Hainanese chicken rice, can eat it for almost every meal, 3 times a day, 7 days a week.

But once in a while, you will inevitably have a craving for Pho or Tomyum soup or Ayam penyet. Once u have satisfied your craving, you will go back to eating chicken rice.. 😬😬

Totally spot on