Caution OC checking on HP - Page 2

Shim · #16 18-01-2008, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by tanmikel

never die before ah ! touch my handphone

Bro you the best ..... but I dare not say that to OC, she will say, you got something to hide izzit ....

snipeshot08 · #17 18-01-2008, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Shim

Bro you the best ..... but I dare not say that to OC, she will say, you got something to hide izzit ....

Simple, just tell her that its not a matter of whether you've something to hide or not, but simply a matter of RESPECT

Take note although this might sounds MCP-ish but as a man (albiet all the modern days SNAGs or sensitive guys) please do not let your wife dominate you totally, you will suffer for life

, giving in moderately or selectively is still okay.

However if you are one of those that have already given in totally BEFORE marriage than it will be difficult to change it now. Always assert yourself before you take the plunge as it will be fairer to your future wife.

BTW do you really know the meaning of your nick Shim???

(no offence intended tho)

Cheerios....SS08 ^_^

Shim · #18 18-01-2008, 08:30 AM

Haha bro, but I guess for me too late to change already, I can see hers and she can see mine, even password for pda also she know ...

snipeshot08 · #19 18-01-2008, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Shim

Haha bro, but I guess for me too late to change already, I can see hers and she can see mine, even password for pda also she know ...

Alas this is one of the key mistakes people always make, even between friends & business partners

It is always good to remember "Don't do onto others what you don't want others to do onto you"

(on the checking of HP hor) ....altho is kind of conflicting when we guys go cheonging and expect our OC to kwai kwai stay at home >_<

Here I go again.......

Cheerios....SS08 ^_^

tanmikel · #20 18-01-2008, 08:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shim

Bro you the best ..... but I dare not say that to OC, she will say, you got something to hide izzit ....

Quote:

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

Simple, just tell her that its not a matter of whether you've something to hide or not, but simply a matter of RESPECT

Take note although this might sounds MCP-ish but as a man (albiet all the modern days SNAGs or sensitive guys) please do not let your wife dominate you totally, you will suffer for life, giving in moderately or selectively is still okay.

However if you are one of those that have already given in totally BEFORE marriage than it will be difficult to change it now. Always assert yourself before you take the plunge as it will be fairer to your future wife.

BTW do you really know the meaning of your nick Shim??? (no offence intended tho)

Cheerios....SS08 ^_^

its a matter of fairness , dont kachaio my stuff and I'll leave your things alone , bank account and all . when I have my moments , she keep quiet and vice versa .

Shim · #21 18-01-2008, 08:50 AM

But the problem with my OC is that she volunteer to let me see her acc, sms etc ... so i cannot say no to her ...

snipeshot08 · #22 18-01-2008, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Shim

But the problem with my OC is that she volunteer to let me see her acc, sms etc ... so i cannot say no to her ...

You can simply tell that you have no wish or the need to do that because you TRUST and RESPECT her

, don't fall for her trick

Sometimes reverse psychology does work

Cheerios.....SS08 ^_^

snipeshot08 · #23 18-01-2008, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by tanmikel

its a matter of fairness , dont kachaio my stuff and I'll leave your things alone , bank account and all . when I have my moments , she keep quiet and vice versa .

I would say "zhui gao jing jie" will be that the guy can check her stuff but she's not allowed to check his

Yup dream on..........cheerios........SS08 ^_^

Peter · #24 18-01-2008, 09:10 AM

might be a good idea to make sure you deleted those SMS / tel nos before stepping into the car / home!

manipulator · #25 18-01-2008, 10:18 AM

Bro peter, i think most will want to delete, but the problem is just in case forgot ... thats is the problem, you know this one has no margin of error, one mistake and thats it ....

ChuiTaLan · #26 18-01-2008, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Lao_Tzu

Bro, with a second card more dangerous...once my oc told me tat her good friend found a second SIM card in her hubby's wallet or something and then subsequently found him cheating on her.....siao.....liao.....

Well, then tat guy is stupid la. wtf did he put the 2nd sim card in his wallet for??

I put the pre-paid card in my 2nd hp n the 2nd hp is always at my work pl. if really need to bring along, then must OFF it or silent it when meeting ur OC. wana play oso must play smart.

F Off · #27 18-01-2008, 10:31 AM

I think sometimes bros can forget or something .... but I suppose whatever we do, keep here or there ... 2 sim card, 2 phones etc, there is always an element of risk ,.... if want totally no risk, then dont cheong ,...

singexpat · #28 18-01-2008, 10:37 AM

my OC checks msg inbox, sent box, deleted box...

i warn her many times dun touch my hp but she still do it...

nw, i'm short of rapping her hands....

Freman · #29 18-01-2008, 11:37 AM

hi bros,

last time even worse... I don't even know about the 'Sent' folder..... wah lao... a few near misses...

I think best to use a separate handphone than to rely on a thing like trust...

at the end of the day.... so she break a minor trust and look at my handphone ... and discover I break a even more critical trust to her..... still LL....

whatever it is, we are at the losing end....

shag_fest · #30 18-01-2008, 11:38 AM

women will be women. they will forever be suspicious of us, men. so to prevent from any hell to break loose if she finds out yr infidelity, take precaution n spend a little bit of time to clean yr tracks... if u can rem to wear a CD b4 sex, u can del yr sms inbox, off/silence yr hp...etc etc b4 u meet yr OC or gf rite?? ive been doin dat for as long as i can remeber... hehe. gdluck to all bros!