Meaning of I'll tell you later ?

[littlepok]

It simply means she need to consider first as u are not that attractive to say YES immediately yet not so sucky to say NO immediately.

gotta see what's coming up and weigh her options. rule of thumb: don't remind her or ask her again till she gets back to u. do not show u are desperate, have the take-it-or-leave-it attitude. if she comes back for more, u know u got chance. if not, just move on. let her screw the wall

[ahjun4]

so whats the result?

[sean69]

it means u are ugly..

[Moromoro]

Originally Posted by tomcat007

PUA - Pick Up Artiste
NEG - ??

NEG is the soft rejection of the girl or purposely making a negative comment to gain her attention.

NEG is not a comment to digust the girl and should be done in a light hearted manner.

Imagine you pull a string up and down in front of a cat. Once u stopped the cat loses interest in you. So neg is basically mixing in abit of down for all the up you do for the girl. =P

An example, I asked a girl whether she wanted to have dinner with me, she said No, she have something to do later. Pretending to be angry, and turning my back against her and walk away. She came chasing after me asking me why i am angry and i got my dinner with her. It works if the girl cares for the relationship, if not.....she will juz let u walk away. Then u nid to work on building rapport.

For more info on pickup tricks you can start by reading the book The Game by neuil strausseman. He studied Neuro liguistic programming as well which helps him in his pickup arts.

From experience, some of the tricks and rules works, provided you wanna wear a mask and not display ur genuine feelings to the gers. >.< Fun but complicated stuff with lots of hardwork involved. I am not really cut out for it.

[Familiar]

Hmm probably im not too clear on one point . She's a friend whom i've known for quite a long time .. The dinner is still around 5days from now , have to wait for her reply ..

[Pohchuan]

Originally Posted by Moromoro

For more info on pickup tricks you can start by reading the book The Game by neuil strausseman. He studied Neuro liguistic programming as well which helps him in his pickup arts.

From experience, some of the tricks and rules works, provided you wanna wear a mask and not display ur genuine feelings to the gers. >.< Fun but complicated stuff with lots of hardwork involved. I am not really cut out for it.

Can use the book by neil as a guideline but not to be followed exactly. Can use some of the methods but tweak it to the asian context. I have used some of Neil's methods to KENO and gauge the girl's IOIs. It works well because no need to waste time on girls that potentially will close up on me and can just concentrate on those with higher chance.

I find that neil's methods are excellent for use with asian girls because most asian girls will give off those body language that will confirms if she is game enough. Ang Moh girls talk way too much and can partially hide their true intention through talking smoke screen.

[Familiar]

We've decided to stop contacting since my buddy like her too and she doesn't want things to be complicated . Perhaps the dinner is off too . Thanks to all bros for the kind response . Appreciate it alot .

[iloveu4ever]

I experienced such responses before....

I usually reply:

Hmm..later huh...I need inform the restaurant beforehand to book the fine dining for two...if too late den you tell me, we can only eat at hawker centre.

or...

Not too late hor....later my mum cook for me dinner...i can't join u liao


Make it casual and take rejection in your stride...if you look sad or appear dependent on her response....the ball will be on her court....take control of the situation. My mindset is always, if you don't want....just fuck off.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by Familiar

We've decided to stop contacting since my buddy like her too and she doesn't want things to be complicated . Perhaps the dinner is off too . Thanks to all bros for the kind response . Appreciate it alot .

So it's quite obvious she take a fancy to your bubby over you
Just move on...Remember A good horse will not turn back to eat an old grass. 好马不吃回头草 and never become "a shoulder" for her cos it will complicate your friendship with your buddy. It's always not worth to lose a good buddy over a cai

[Familiar]

Hmm she does not fancy him , even indirecty rejected him once .. Its just that since we're together in the same clique , she doesn't want friendships to get worsen . She's those friends over boys girl ..

[Bangster]

She's good meat for a 3-some

[callmebad]

too short to determine her feeling

you have to look at her sign language as well when she answered you

(did her eyes look at you when she said it or her eyes looked elsewhere when she said it)

either she is not interested

or she is trying to say she needs to check her diary 1st to see if she is free and come back to you later

but normally, if a girl is keen on you, no matter how busy she can be, she will try to squeeze out some time for you

[wally888]

if she never tell u later, then u got no chance liao.........