HELP! FB Problem - Page 3

supergirl2011 · #31 05-09-2013, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Brainstorm

Don't mind my honest comments. My friends tell me the SAF green towel is made of good material. It can be used as a towel to dry ourselves after showering or be used as a rag to clean the dirty car/floors. But what do you think are the chances someone will use it as a rag first, wash it and then use it as a towel to dry your body after a shower?

As your FB, you ask her to fuck around to fulfill your fantasies. Will you treasure her (a rag) the same way as a woman who doesn't fuck around (a towel)?

You better seek advice from a proper family lawyer. Divorce is not fault-based. She can have adultery and blame her adultery on you for not being the perfect husband to her. Are you richer than her? She may be willing to transfer her Meyer Road property knowing that your net worth is higher than hers. You can check out the laws on matrimonial home too. If you make the Meyer Road condo your matrimonial home and you pay the utility bills, you can stake a claim on the house in a divorce even if you didn't pay for the house. Go ask a lawyer about enhancement.

If financial assets (Meyer Road Condo) can be a guarantee for fidelity, you just buy her a 1.5 carat diamond ring (maybe $30K) to flash around for her PRC friends. Once her friends see it, they see it as a sign of commitment too. Less costly than getting a divorce eventually.

Bro, she wants you to 'Mai Dan /Call for bill'. China girls mentality in play. They can be an unhappy 30 plus year old who gets married and gets divorced within months. However, they cannot be a 30 plus year old who is happily single and never married. It's easier for them to describe themselves to their fellow PRCs as a divorcee rather than a single. If she tell PRC people she is a divorcee, her fellow PRCs can understand. If she tells people she is single, her PRC friends will ask her what is wrong with her.

You didn't actually say if you love her. Since both of you fuck around a lot, can you promise to only fuck 1 girl after marriage? If you cannot give up the forest for 1 tree, what makes you think she can? Sex to ladies is more than the physical act. She will miss being wooed and the attention men give her when men put in effort to sweet talk, surprise her with gifts etc.

very good advice!

see see only · #32 05-09-2013, 12:28 PM

Bro TS,

You have answered yourself in the first place by classified her as FB instead of gf ....

sta1100 · #33 05-09-2013, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by swingersx2

HELP!

My Singaporean FB (Originally from PRC) wants me to get committed (marry her). She's in her early 30s and desperately wants to settle down. When I respond that I don't intend to marry her, she becomes very sad and moody.

We are both reasonably well-off so money is not a factor and she is definitely not pressuring me to marry her because of money.

I am sure she gets fucked at least once every day, and I am also sure she has gotten fucked by all types of men (Chinese, Ang Mo, Bangla, Malay, Indian etc). She loves to be dominated and I have made her seduce and fuck many men. She promised not to get fucked by other men without my permission and be absolutely obedient after marriage.

She is disease-free, fair and attractive at 1.68m with C cup breast size, has nice long legs and gets hit on without fail every time we visit clubs, partly because she dresses like a whore, and is literally a slut.

If you were in my shoes, what will you do? Will you marry her?

Know her been fxxk by other guy even she promise you can you trust her?? Bro there are better lady don't fall into her trap

swingersx2 · #34 05-09-2013, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Brainstorm

Don't mind my honest comments. My friends tell me the SAF green towel is made of good material. It can be used as a towel to dry ourselves after showering or be used as a rag to clean the dirty car/floors. But what do you think are the chances someone will use it as a rag first, wash it and then use it as a towel to dry your body after a shower?

As your FB, you ask her to fuck around to fulfill your fantasies. Will you treasure her (a rag) the same way as a woman who doesn't fuck around (a towel)?

You better seek advice from a proper family lawyer. Divorce is not fault-based. She can have adultery and blame her adultery on you for not being the perfect husband to her. Are you richer than her? She may be willing to transfer her Meyer Road property knowing that your net worth is higher than hers. You can check out the laws on matrimonial home too. If you make the Meyer Road condo your matrimonial home and you pay the utility bills, you can stake a claim on the house in a divorce even if you didn't pay for the house. Go ask a lawyer about enhancement.

If financial assets (Meyer Road Condo) can be a guarantee for fidelity, you just buy her a 1.5 carat diamond ring (maybe $30K) to flash around for her PRC friends. Once her friends see it, they see it as a sign of commitment too. Less costly than getting a divorce eventually.

Bro, she wants you to 'Mai Dan /Call for bill'. China girls mentality in play. They can be an unhappy 30 plus year old who gets married and gets divorced within months. However, they cannot be a 30 plus year old who is happily single and never married. It's easier for them to describe themselves to their fellow PRCs as a divorcee rather than a single. If she tell PRC people she is a divorcee, her fellow PRCs can understand. If she tells people she is single, her PRC friends will ask her what is wrong with her.

You didn't actually say if you love her. Since both of you fuck around a lot, can you promise to only fuck 1 girl after marriage? If you cannot give up the forest for 1 tree, what makes you think she can? Sex to ladies is more than the physical act. She will miss being wooed and the attention men give her when men put in effort to sweet talk, surprise her with gifts etc.

I am not any better than her and I really can't blame her for getting fucked by so many men. Moreover, we live together so she got my approval for all the men that she fucked and she fucks almost all of them in my presence.

Both of us are roughly equal where our finances are concerned. We both have 2 properties each and much of my wealth was accumulated because of her because she encouraged me to invest in property with her in 2009 during the financial crisis. We each bought 1 unit in early 2009 and another unit in late 2009. We are not bothered about money and I don't think money is a factor where our marriage is concerned, at least for now.

We both do not mind continuing our current lifestyles (fucking around) but she is concerned that she is getting older and she wants some form of guarantee that I will continue to be with her when she becomes less attractive and not dump her for some younger, sexier and prettier girl.

swingersx2 · #35 05-09-2013, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

Guys are born hum sup creature wont stick to 1 pussy hole in his life....Small brain always in control of big brain.

Why can't we accept women who fuck around since it is not extraordinary for men to fuck around?

esssinine · #36 05-09-2013, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by swingersx2

Why can't we accept women who fuck around since it is not extraordinary for men to fuck around?

you got a point there brother, i support you

Brainstorm · #37 05-09-2013, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by swingersx2

We both do not mind continuing our current lifestyles (fucking around) but she is concerned that she is getting older and she wants some form of guarantee that I will continue to be with her when she becomes less attractive and not dump her for some younger, sexier and prettier girl.

Thanks for explaining more. You are a blessed guy to find her. She brought you wealth and a good sex life. I don't think the guarantee is marriage though. These days, it's hard to link marriage with guarantee.

Maybe I am too traditional in my thinking. I think the biggest 'possible' guarantee she can get is to have a complete family with kids with you. If you and her have kids, chances are higher you will see her beyond just sex. Kids also bring fresh topics and challenges for couples as they grow up. The relationship runs a lower risk of turning stale if there is something new in the kids' lives every year. If you may lose custody of your kids in a divorce, you are more likely to stay married with her right?

Maybe you can play a game of reverse psychology with her. Every man lusts for sweet young things. Just tell her how lucky you are because she already gives you a license to have your fun (on condition you stay committed to her), why will you want to ruin this amazing arrangement just to satisfy your lust when you already have her permission to fool around outside?

All the best bro.

thomko · #38 05-09-2013, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by swingersx2

Why can't we accept women who fuck around since it is not extraordinary for men to fuck around?

ya. go for it.. important is u happy.. no point marry goody goody than boring sex life. know urself know herself.. bai zhan bai shen.

swingersx2 · #39 05-09-2013, 10:43 PM

The problem is that I am getting bored as we have tried everything imaginable and there is nothing much that interests me anymore.

Marrying her is not likely to solve the problem. I just got my FB to flash her clean-shaven pussy at a popular club yesterday (ladies night) by dancing on the stage with no panties under her micro-mini skirt but it hardly turned me on. I really need to innovate and come up with new ideas.

georgemagnum · #40 05-09-2013, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by see see only

Bro TS,

You have answered yourself in the first place by classified her as FB instead of gf ....

Lols .... Same sentiments

gm

georgemagnum · #41 05-09-2013, 11:07 PM

TS,

Hi.
U asked for help from the bros here.
They had given many advice ... With a good notion to pull you out of the pit.
However, u kept defending and seem insistent on carrying on with ur FB.
I really dunno what exactly do u wan ...

gm