how does your woman treat you during your dark days?

[durian]

Before starting my own business, I helped my first woman (now ex-wife) in her business running the logistics, operations and errands in the evening and weekends. All these while I was holding a senior executive position in another company. We made our first pot of gold and all money from business and dividends go to her to reinvest in properties. When our relationship turn sour, everything forgotten. Money become an issue when I stopped contributing to household due to my business. Money, money and more money woes as our kids entered child care alhough she was receiving rental income from our multiple properties. Eventually I called off our marriage as I cannot stand it anymore and I never fight for any of the assets or past dividends.

I got to know my present woman during the course of my divorce. This was a period where I went through the darkest days emotionally and also where I ran into financial issues and I have to give up my car. She volunteerly joined me for dinners in food court or hawker centre instead of restaurants where many suitors would invite her to. She took buses and mrt train with me instead of driving her luxury car. And all these despite her networth many more times that of my previous woman.

Both are local woman.

[jazp]

Originally Posted by durian

Before starting my own business, I helped my first woman (now ex-wife) in her business running the logistics, operations and errands in the evening and weekends. All these while I was holding a senior executive position in another company. We made our first pot of gold and all money from business and dividends go to her to reinvest in properties. When our relationship turn sour, everything forgotten. Money become an issue when I stopped contributing to household due to my business. Money, money and more money woes as our kids entered child care alhough she was receiving rental income from our multiple properties. Eventually I called off our marriage as I cannot stand it anymore and I never fight for any of the assets or past dividends.

I got to know my present woman during the course of my divorce. This was a period where I went through the darkest days emotionally and also where I ran into financial issues and I have to give up my car. She volunteerly joined me for dinners in food court or hawker centre instead of restaurants where many suitors would invite her to. She took buses and mrt train with me instead of driving her luxury car. And all these despite her networth many more times that of my previous woman.

Both are local woman.

what do you think will happen after your other woman gave birth to your children? unfortunately most can only focus on one..either their spouse or children.

[durian]

Based on my experience, you have to deal with:-
1. Whether your other woman can accept your children (it doesn't matter whether the kids are in your custody)
2. Can you accept the other woman's kid/(s)?
3. When you have a kid with the other woman, how your kids see you? And how the woman react as they tend to compare how you treat "her kids" and your "ex-kids".

I think I will take one step at a time and I am still learning. Time will tell ba.

Originally Posted by jazp

what do you think will happen after your other woman gave birth to your children? unfortunately most can only focus on one..either their spouse or children.