Need help please...

[sean69]

Originally Posted by naan1974

May not be your problem at all.
You blow for me, if I cum then your're fine
it's his problem. If I cant cum, I will
provide you some personal training.

damn u !!!! that's my line !!!!!

[lasupkia]

Few ways can try.
1. Bj after 3 mins forcefully stick 3 fingers into his ass.
2. If 1 doesn't work, buy an egg vibrator and put into his ass. Start bj and increase the speed of the egg progressively to max.
3. Put a meat cleaver beside u then start bj. After 3 mins tell him this. "If u don't fucking cum now, I'm going to cut off your land jiao."

Update us on which method works.

[DreamMaster1985]

Laughing at all the comments here. But, yeah, TS, the main thing is it is not your fault. You should not get so stress up over it. As you have stated, you can make others cum but your current bf cannot. This shows that your techniques are not at fault.

More likely it's due to the guy's fault. One of the few reasons a guy cannot cum is due to external stress. Maybe his work is causing him stress that he cannot cum even if he wants to.

But the way he is treating you now, just leave him.

[hornyhubby]

We have a bunch of witty bros here. Smiled n laughed at some comments.

Jokes aside dear sister.....the problem is not with you. You are fine. You have made him ( and others ) cum before but now he can't come. Without a shadow of a doubt.....it is HE who has a problem. Do not despair and beat yourself up for nothing

[durian]

your bf is fucking selfish and self-centred ... ask him go to craiglist and there are many men and trans willing to make him cum.

[ryu0000]

i tell u wat. u try bj on me. u will realize the reason y he cannot cum

[DepressedGirl]

Dear brother and sisters...

Thanks for all your advise and comment... I seriously don't think I will go for any personal training.

I am with him only for 3 months and still counting. We are both divorcee from our respective relationship. I got divorce because of him and some other reason with my ex husband. He was really sweet to me until recently... So I am staying together with him.

Initially we have sex almost everyday or at least I made him cum.. After 2 months things started to change.

It is actually very saddening to hear my bf telling me to learn from porn... I mean I feel really Dulan and sad.... Like really sad... And heart breaking. After doing so much for him.... In the end..... I try to help him in all aspect and land myself in deep debts... I don mind cos I love him... But when it come to this I felt helpless... I can only cry everytime I couldn't finish his business...

Bro and sis... I know i am silly and stupid to do everything for him... But love is blind... I do have other suitors who are Rich and good... But I dunno why... I just fall for him... So leaving him is not a option.

Ps. For all who wish to know i am 27 and he is 33.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

My advice for you is to get yourself a new guy.

Biggie Sexy in here the right word to use is a new "prick"..

Anyway gal big guy is right, ditch that dick his inability to cum i sense is not so much your lack of skill or probably he has got an insensitive dick..

[dimplesboy]

Sorry, truth can be hurting, but i guess sometimes knowing the truth is necessary. Obviously this guy doesnt really love you, he is treating you as a sex object mainly, all he want is to get a good bj from you to the extent making you learn all these just for him...everything is just for him, but whats for you?????

Just my advice sis, leave him. You will find someone better one day. Good luck. Love yourself.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by jellycat

You should never feel lousy about yourself. A man should make you feel confident.

Why don't you ask him "Issit his dick old and spoilt already? Need to go check up a not."

Alternatively, tell him to lick you until you cum.

If he can't, ask him to go watch video and learn

If you don't know how to give a blow job, that's something you can learn.

But in this scenario, it's HIS problem, not yours.

Ha.....really a guy shld make a gal feel confidence & great in a relationship. Btw, TS, how old r your bf? 40+ or 50+? This is quite difficult to make some uncle cum. Next time, if he verbal abused u again, asked him back: is your dick too old already, or spoilt already? Like jellycat mentioned. Maybe his dick goes to the extent turn rusty already.

When u & him, most of the time, what u two doing? Dun tell me just sex, sex, & still sex? Or lick, blow & suck his rusted pipe? Does he ever show concern or care to u like if u fall sick & can't perform blow task to him? Or he just ignore u & dulan? If he shows concern to your personal live or personal problems? Or he just show uninterested to your problems? Accompany u out for shopping, cinema or dinner? Or just a miser telling u no point going out spend $ & the weather so hot, asking u to stay at home to blow his rusty pipe? Maybe he is just a miser, dun wan to spend $ outside for blow service, asking from u is FOC & yet he still so damn rude in his attitude towards u? I think he just take u for granted. He remember your birthday & celebrate for u b4? Once in a moon time then buy small gift for u?

Just find that he is just treating u as a sex partner not girlfriend from the way he treated u. Well, if u also treat him as a sex partner & he can give u satisfaction in sex, then nothing I can stop u from this relationship. Sex is not one way traffic, if he can't satisfy u, how can he have the cheek to dulan u when u can't make him cum. He is just a jerk.

For u own pride & self-esteem, dump him b4 he dump u as he just treat u as a FOC sex partner, he does not need to spend a single cent, yet can receive blow, fuck service. Outside, those fl or wl might dirty with STD. At least, u r more clean & most importantly FOC & he can verbal abuse u, show black face with u anytime he like....pui......despise him

[FishingPartner7]

PM me I am here to help .. They say I am patience.

[UHKCBJMD]

Aiya the guy motherless dog la. If his mum still alive (unlikely with a dog son like this ) ask his mum suck his small dick la

[FunnyHippo]

Originally Posted by FishingPartner7

PM me I am here to help .. They say I am patience.

I saw what you did there...

[SourCreams]

Originally Posted by durian

your bf is fucking selfish and self-centred ... ask him go to craiglist and there are many men and trans willing to make him cum.

including sherine

[dk1903]

depressed girl, agree that love is blind. but seriously girl, it cannot be that blind.
big sexy got it right with what he said about oral sex.
pardon me for asking this - he likes to come from BJ, but he lick you till u get an orgasm??

love should be fair, u simply can't be the one giving ALL the time.
guys will never treasure those girls who love them more. it is coded in our DNA.

u r 27, and u said u have other suitors. do yourself a favour and leave this clown.
3 months is too short a time to fall deeply in love. pull yourself out now before he gets u to sell your body to clear his debts.

there are tons of more deserving guys out there!! u r 27, not 37, so u will find them.
hope u make the right decision and leave him soon.