Why married man still visit FL?

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

Can I understand more about this? I have read around that using these services can choose the type of girls you prefer. But how do you guys explained. When you said you love your wife but still go for paid service.
Just being curious.

Let me put in this way, as once explained by an oversea associate to his wife..."Doesn't mean I got a masterpiece at home that means I must give up appreciating all other artwork"...

[mike3329]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

Thanks for sharing..... It seems like. I have to keep one eye open and the other close.....(suck thumb and live with it) or I can just let this marriage fuck off.

I believe that nowadays, most couples do not work hard enough to keep their marriage alive. They give up too easily and sometimes in a fit of anger when they say and do things that may test the relationship.

That I believe is why the rate of separations and divorces are so high.

Keeping one eye open and the other closed may not be such a bad policy. I would add that it should be a give and take mentality rather than winner takes all.....

There will be good times and also trying ones but overall more effort should be made to keep the relationship alive and healthy.

And TS, instead of sucking thumb, perhaps the energy should be expanded on sucking him instead with a cim and swallow to seal the deal. If you do it really well, he will be less likely to seek the experience outside!

There is a lot of truth in the saying..."to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom". Try it.

Good luck...

[juststray]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

Thanks for sharing..... It seems like. I have to keep one eye open and the other close.....(suck thumb and live with it) or I can just let this marriage fuck off.

Just to share my 2 cents.

Accepting that he will stray and keeping one eye closed is only a temporary measure. Eventually you may not be able to take it anymore and worst may happen.

Please seek for council if you still want to keep this marriage. Asking reasons for why brothers stray here may not be his reasons. Only knowing the actual reason than you can see what to do next.

However, be prepared that he stray because of you. I think most woman are not aware that their behavior are sometime pushing their man further and further away and yet have the mindset that we are married, you can only have me.

Hope that you can solve your problem and you have my best wishes.

[larue]

Neither condoning nor condemning, but something I read when an experienced mistress was interviewed:

A bad man fools you once, a good man fools you forever.

Maybe she's on to something.

[I Love Boobs]

My wife got fat after marriage.
That and I was constantly surrounded by pretty SYTs
I see my good friends and their wives pile on the pounds after marriage. Before that controlling their food and going to the gym. After that, eating bubble tea and becoming fat fucks.
Will a girl stay with a poor man? Unlikely in modern day Singapore...
Does a man stay with a fat wife? Yes, most of us do out of love for the thing that once was our hot chick girlfriends.... Most guys may fuck outside but they still maintain the marriage.
I really don't see the problem. In this case, the wife has failed miserably in even projecting a decent image and will be an absolute FAIL in bed.
Looks matter.
Guy with fat wife = LOSER
That's how society goes.
Look outside. Invariably the fat wife will be super bitchy and try to control her husband.
Because she knows she's over the hill and that he's looking at other chicks....

[KenSG]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

Thanks for sharing..... It seems like. I have to keep one eye open and the other close.....(suck thumb and live with it) or I can just let this marriage fuck off.

TS seemz like you having trouble with your marriage if you already married. Ask yourself are you controlling everything in every terms. Why your husband go find FL is it because u never feed him enough, if you still love him talk openly cheers.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by mike3329

I believe that nowadays, most couples do not work hard enough to keep their marriage alive. They give up too easily and sometimes in a fit of anger when they say and do things that may test the relationship.

That I believe is why the rate of separations and divorces are so high.

Keeping one eye open and the other closed may not be such a bad policy. I would add that it should be a give and take mentality rather than winner takes all.....

There will be good times and also trying ones but overall more effort should be made to keep the relationship alive and healthy.

And TS, instead of sucking thumb, perhaps the energy should be expanded on sucking him instead with a cim and swallow to seal the deal. If you do it really well, he will be less likely to seek the experience outside!

There is a lot of truth in the saying..."to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom". Try it.

Good luck...

Yup, agree wif bro mike 3329...as the yrs go by, they seem to heck care abt each other doing their own things ignoring each other

[Otaman]

My army buddy marry his gf because she let him fuck everyday before marriage.
After ROM she only give it to him twice a week.
After baby came..... she refuse to have sex for 2 yrs.
Then she suddenly offer again as she wants another child.
2 months later she got pregnant..... and my buddy no more sex for him from her since.
So he became my cheong buddy now.

[MuffDiver69]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

Thanks for sharing..... It seems like. I have to keep one eye open and the other close.....(suck thumb and live with it) or I can just let this marriage fuck off.

TS, from your replies, i can sense that you are very bitter about your hubby eating outside. actually i don't believe the eating chicken rice everyday explanation as what most bros here will say.

it is the wife's responsibility to cook something different everyday, keep it interesting and fresh. i'm not asking you to be a pornstar but at least try. no guys want to go back home and be greeted by a yellow face hag that nags and a dead fish in bed. especially after a hard day's work.

if both of you are working, then go paktor after work and try to ignite the flame again. leave the kids with the in-laws or get a babysitter for a few hours also can. get yourself some kinky costume, book a room and fuck your hubby good and proper, do you think he still can stand if you kept his balls drained and physically exhausted?

[MaoSanWang]

Originally Posted by MuffDiver69

TS, from your replies, i can sense that you are very bitter about your hubby eating outside. actually i don't believe the eating chicken rice everyday explanation as what most bros here will say.

it is the wife's responsibility to cook something different everyday, keep it interesting and fresh. i'm not asking you to be a pornstar but at least try. no guys want to go back home and be greeted by a yellow face hag that nags and a dead fish in bed. especially after a hard day's work.

if both of you are working, then go paktor after work and try to ignite the flame again. leave the kids with the in-laws or get a babysitter for a few hours also can. get yourself some kinky costume, book a room and fuck your hubby good and proper, do you think he still can stand if you kept his balls drained and physically exhausted?

Wah Wife's responsibility, so fierce!
Agree it needs to be interesting but I feel it takes 2 hands to clap lah.
one hand want to clap but the other don't want, also no sound right!

Different people, different hobbies.
Husband go play golf or shoot 19th hole. sama-sama.
At end of day if still go home, i think no harm done lah.
Husband don't get frustrated with wife if she say too tire, wife don't get harassed for sex.
Win-Win.

[MuffDiver69]

Originally Posted by MaoSanWang

Wah Wife's responsibility, so fierce!
Agree it needs to be interesting but I feel it takes 2 hands to clap lah.
one hand want to clap but the other don't want, also no sound right!

Different people, different hobbies.
Husband go play golf or shoot 19th hole. sama-sama.
At end of day if still go home, i think no harm done lah.
Husband don't get frustrated with wife if she say too tire, wife don't get harassed for sex.
Win-Win.

you don't expect the guy to put on some costume and try to seduce the wife right? lol. guys are visual creatures, no matter how out of shape the wife is, as long as she tries to seduce the hubby, he will still rise to the occasion. in fact thats where mistresses trumps over wives, by being slutty and accommodating in the bedroom.

[arbalest]

I surely get flamed here but who cares. It seems TS is really trying to understand. I think cheating in a marriage takes 2 hands. While TS may have to assume some responsibility on the cheating as well, I feel that men must be held accountable. I don't care what people say that marriage is just a sheet of paper. If like that don't even marry.

Most impt is TS must be honest with self on responsibility and what is her limit also.

[ilovepantyhose]

tiagong in a marriage, the husband has to close one ear and the wife has to close one eye

[Otaman]

Thanks bro

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by MuffDiver69

you don't expect the guy to put on some costume and try to seduce the wife right? lol. guys are visual creatures, no matter how out of shape the wife is, as long as she tries to seduce the hubby, he will still rise to the occasion. in fact thats where mistresses trumps over wives, by being slutty and accommodating in the bedroom.

Well said, bro ! ..