I cannot CUM - Page 4

insiderivan · #46 25-01-2011, 04:00 PM

Hi bro, U can also try to watch porn and have sex at the same time.

Crazy_horse 02 · #47 25-01-2011, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by chinchiahoe

Bro, your situation is rather uncommon, at least to me. I've another suggestion but not sure if you are receptive to it. U can actually try having sex or making love with another gal & u see if the result is the same(but try not to get addicted & hooked). The problem currently may not necessary lies with u. It may be your gf is not able provide u with the necessary pleasure(individual preferences) thus causing u not able to cum.

I think bro chinchiahoe maybe right. U should consider doing with other girls.

lee2001sg · #48 26-01-2011, 12:21 AM

I am also someone who don't cum easily. Another problem is my OC gets very wet during sex. My solution is to clean her cum at intervals so that I can feel the friction. It works for me. Hope this will help you too. For your info, I am the father of 3 kids.

Absynthe · #49 26-01-2011, 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by lee2001sg

I am also someone who don't cum easily. Another problem is my OC gets very wet during sex. My solution is to clean her cum at intervals so that I can feel the friction. It works for me. Hope this will help you too. For your info, I am the father of 3 kids.

Brovo bro, u power 3 kids. ur OC loves u .garment loves u also.

WhyWhy00 · #50 26-01-2011, 10:11 AM

Does it help on CIM when watching porn?

Izumi · #51 26-01-2011, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by WhyWhy00

Does it help on CIM when watching porn?

My gf won't do BJ with out condom. so CIM out of the question.

EyeLevel · #52 27-01-2011, 09:22 PM

TS,
think you mentioned that your gf is quite traditional and "uptight" ?
If you dun mind me asking, how well do you both communicate?..

You mentioned that she doesn't talk dirty... but is she ok with you talking dirty, well not vulgarities kind of dirty... but sexy talk to her.. and does she respond (gets wet or wetter) ?..

just to share a tip how I got 1 of my super prudish ex to open up...
have all totally stripped... and sitting in front of you, back facing you.
you should only have your shirt off... you will be hugging her from behind.
think more comfortable if you both are sitting on the bed.

If you can move a mirror, infront of you... that will be great... but if not its ok. start with just touching her with your hands.. and kissing her ears and nape.. and slowly and softly tell her where you will next be touching her or kissing her... tell her what you would like to do to her.. ..
all this time ... the touch should be very very light only. if she respond and moan a little mew.. from there ask her if she liked what /where you are touching... now you can apply a little more pressure ... and see if she gives more response.... use this method to train her to respond the way you like..
also to break down her inhibition... from time to time ask her to look at the mirror ( if you have it) and tell her how sexy she looks to you... that way she moan or that expression turns you on so much...

well.. its hard work.. .. so hopefully after a few times of this, she will learn to know what kind of moan or reaction she gives turns you on.

And this is a very healthy and sensual way to improve your relationship. Nothing dirty or lewd. and its proven to work.. kekeke .. by me.

My 2cts
Cheeers!

ilpan77 · #53 28-01-2011, 09:33 AM

That's exactly what wife does too. Cleaning her juices and continue fucking again. Sometimes being too wet also has it's disadvantages.

Izumi · #54 31-01-2011, 10:06 PM

Hi brosn it's been awhile since I last login.
After much cosideration, I have decided to seek "professional" help.
Had a 2 hour appointment with a local girl a few days ago.
She gave good service and it was the best sexual experience of my life.
But sadly I still cannot cum after 2 hours.

I left the hotel filled with shame and guilt.

I wish to seek medical/phycological solution to my problem. Please advise me on the doctors/clinics/pills which can help me.

Absynthe · #55 01-02-2011, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Izumi

Hi brosn it's been awhile since I last login.
After much cosideration, I have decided to seek "professional" help.
Had a 2 hour appointment with a local girl a few days ago.
She gave good service and it was the best sexual experience of my life.
But sadly I still cannot cum after 2 hours.

I left the hotel filled with shame and guilt.

I wish to seek medical/phycological solution to my problem. Please advise me on the doctors/clinics/pills which can help me.

Realy feel sorry for u bro. u need to c a doctor