分手费 - Got such thing ?

[Durex_69]

Originally Posted by Helsinkg

PRC girl always:
1. have love, no money, they will leave you;
2. have money, no love, they also leave you after you can't affort to give her
3. Unless, you have money and she really like you, she will stay beside you

NO MONEY, NO HONEY!

I already kana all this last month, very painful.... brother!

Is there a Case #4 ??

Me now with a PRC, me no money to give her (actually didn't get her any) but we together for few months already.

If she's going after my CPF (which is very limited due to my low salary), she gotta wait long long cos me long from retirement.

[castaway]

I like to thank all bros for giving me advice and sharing ur experiences.
But I really dun noe..
Although she told me about wat happened, she didnt ask me for help, maybe its because i told her i dun have much money...
But she still reply my sms after our final session( cos i told her i no more money liao), which i sms her i would be willing to listen and help her think of ways if she have difficulties..
If she wanted to con me, and she knew i have no money to help her, she wouldn't have entertain me by replying my sms, knowing that i cannot help her rite?
She reply that she was touched, and wish dat good guys like me should be blessed, and she thank me as a good friend.
She is going back on the 19th, and i think i would contact her. If she is into trying to con me or find me unworthy as her friend, she would not contact me rite, as i have no money if she wanna con?
I am not trying 2 make u bros, who r concern for me, angry. I just thought dat if she really have no intention to con me, she might feel sad if i forget bout her. Yes, she might forget me after sometime, but i thought that she should be given a friend, who could give her hope in life, if she have no intentions to con men to improve her living?
I am thinking of using this time after she went back, to see if she would keep in contact with me. If she still does after 1 or 2 yrs after today, I would visit her in china. But i would definitely bear in mind wat u bros had told me. I would not give money straight away if she ask for any.
I know its a pain to read my grandpa story, but i do hope bros out there would give me some more advice.
Thank you.

[castaway]

Can any bros kindly give me some advice?
Thank You.

[Kaizen]

Originally Posted by castaway

Hi i think i need some advice from u bros..
I feel that since i met her, i am not very keen to go gl after knowing her plight. I am motivated now to bulid my career, hoping 1 day i can find her in china, help to solve her problems. Den from there, i would evaluate if she is the right girl i should go for....

Is my thinking correct? pls advise me bros...

You are crazy, my friend.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by castaway

Can any bros kindly give me some advice?
Thank You.

What other advice you would still like to hear after 4 fucking pages? Just undergo this one-off relationship, suffer some heartache and move on lah.

[PuTonRen]

Dear Bro castaway,

Like one brother said correctly, after 4 pages of postings on this topic and the advice from many kind hearted brothers here, you are still in the maze going round and round. Wise up! Your incident is not new to this old man.

Once, a Chinese told me that Singaporeans were stupid and could be easily conned. Being a true blood Singaporean, I was not happy, but he was partially right. My reply to that Chinese was:

"Singaporeans are not stupid, they are too soft hearted. The Chinese are only trying to exploit our kind nature"

Being too soft-hearted and then be exploited will usually make a person being sucked into a whirlpool wherein there is little of no chance of coming out. You sound that a Samster about two years back, his logic is exactly the same as yours. In the end, not only he hit negative power, but also was ignored by kind hearted brothers here who were trying to help, but was eventually pissed by his pig-headed attitude.

Wise up! Wise up!

My 2 cent worth.


PTR

[Cyberfriend]

Originally Posted by castaway

Is my thinking correct? pls advise me bros...

Bro, IMO your way of thinking is a nono. I have friends who fell for FLs, 3 friends in fact, but none of it turned out the way they wanted.

You are still young at 21. Climb to the peak of your career and just go GL once in a while to relax. Once you have achievements in your career, then go for relationships. If you think (for some reasons) that Sgp girls will not fall for you, what makes you think that the FL will fall for you, other than your hard-earned money?

I see that almost all bros here are advising you against this relationship and I am on their side.

Give it some thoughts before committing.

Cheers

[Pramoda]

Originally Posted by sexytoy.com.sg

In their PRC term is last burst of fire!!!!!

KNN only non-PRC men kanna this shit from the PRC girls. I ask them whether any such thing when they split with PRC men, they say NO !

[alba]

When feelings are gone, everything talks about money.

[Pramoda]

Originally Posted by alba

When feelings are gone, everything talks about money.

They will come out with bullshit like compensation for wasting their 青春

[nicodemuz]

算了吧！ move on and eat another day of pussy.....
don't give what 分手费！ If you don't give, she lan lan will still RTC/M (return to china/mainland). Can save the so called "分手费" for your bonking marathon!

[LeDivorcee]

Don't be fucking stupid... Even she maybe sweet and gentle with you in the beginning, it will mostly end up you getting hurt and she laughing all the way to the bank...

Trust me... KC trap is alive and well within the PRC circle. They usually know a friend who has a friend and knows another friend who made it big with a rich guy... How many rich guys are there in the world? They know fully well, everything is for short term and they will want to milk it for all its worth...

[poppoppop]

PRC really money face.

[Mahalapa]

I've oni heard b4 those 'small little face' ask for such fee when their sugar mummy ditch them,now it's the other way round for those MM.

[tungsten]

If girl ask in a cheeky manner
You reply - I also come out sperm leh... Why not you give me money to buy tonic also?

If girl ask in a begging manner
You reply - I also come no money, can lent me anot?

If girl ask in a matter of fact manner
You reply - I also put in feelings, why not you pay me as well?

If girl ask in a demanding manner
You reply - ......... Just show her the finger and walk off.......

Freaking ridiculous... WTF ... I feel that most guys here would not mind helping their ex within reasonable means (Face it, most of us are soft hearted. I totally agree Bro Putonren on this point) ... But ask in a demanding manner.... NO WAY!