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ddog · #46 11-07-2015, 09:55 AM

Guy who makes you cry and not good is not a good catch. Especially if cumming is in the guys mind. Blaming female for their fault... how good is the guy?
Ddog female doesn't give BJ for 3years already. Highly choosy and one of the top beauty figures in SG. Still Ddog understanding.
There is no such thing as bad BJ. Once friction occurs, the penis will erect and cum regardless, UNLESS, there's an issue in the guy's head. Give in to his own issue, and you will cry for rest of sis life.

HonkyTonkyMan · #47 11-07-2015, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by SourCreams

including sherine

wah lao that name, after so many years still send the shrivers down your spine...

DepressedGirl · #48 11-07-2015, 10:42 AM

I know that everyone ask me to get out of the relationship for my own good... but you know.... It is not easy for me....

I just cant understand why so it is so difficult to make him cum... tried all ways.... what ever i can find i can learn but it is just so difficult...

I can make him stand almost instance, and stand for very long. I can feel that he have the high sensation... but making it out it is like....... forever will not cum....

is it because i am not attractive enough for him?
is it because i don have a good figure? (36C)(28)
is it because i don have good looks?
is it because the freshness is gone?

I have so many questions on my mind... I am going crazy...

PPGirl · #49 11-07-2015, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by DepressedGirl

I am with him only for 3 months and still counting. He was really sweet to me until recently... So I am staying together with him.

Initially we have sex almost everyday or at least I made him cum.. After 2 months things started to change.

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Originally Posted by DepressedGirl

I know that everyone ask me to get out of the relationship for my own good... but you know.... It is not easy for me....

is it because i am not attractive enough for him?
is it because i don have a good figure? (36C)(28)
is it because i don have good looks?
is it because the freshness is gone?

Only been with him for 3 months n no more freshness?
3 months is rather a short period unless u tell me u have been with him for 3 years. And i can understand y no more freshness.

Sis.. sorry to say.. he may have found someone new.

The problem doesnt lies with u alone.
Maybe ask him see a doctor rather than blaming the fault on u.

orangeproud · #50 11-07-2015, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by dk1903

depressed girl, agree that love is blind. but seriously girl, it cannot be that blind.
big sexy got it right with what he said about oral sex.
pardon me for asking this - he likes to come from BJ, but he lick you till u get an orgasm??

love should be fair, u simply can't be the one giving ALL the time.
guys will never treasure those girls who love them more. it is coded in our DNA.

u r 27, and u said u have other suitors. do yourself a favour and leave this clown.
3 months is too short a time to fall deeply in love. pull yourself out now before he gets u to sell your body to clear his debts.

there are tons of more deserving guys out there!! u r 27, not 37, so u will find them.
hope u make the right decision and leave him soon.

Is true, pull yourself out b4 he gets u to sell your body to clear his debt. Only together for 3 mths, he can abuse u already, can't imagine how u can with him rest of your life. The more u with him, u will feel more worthless, useless yourself. Anyone with pride or self-esteem will leave this jerk even she is 37 now, no way to tahan his nonsense, abusing. From the way he treat u, can't see any sign that he love u. U even make yourself land in debt bcos of him...omg.....pls do yourself a favour, dun ever borrow money, sign credit card or loan money for him, or else u will be in deep trouble of clearing the debt.....at that time, who know? That jerk might coax u to provide fxxk or bkkw services for other to clear the debt.

U come here for asking opinion, most of us here asking u to leave this jerk, yet u choose to continue to stay with him....well, this is your life, your decision, we can't force u. But can u pls give yourself sometime to think properly dun u feel that it is better to be someone who can make u feel more good abt yourself, who can help u to become a better woman rather than make yourself land in miserable hell.

DepressedGirl · #51 12-07-2015, 08:48 AM

Thank you every brothers and sisters for all the advise... i will think and consider properly the next step that i should take...

Really thanks a lot...

Imgonnafart · #52 12-07-2015, 09:58 AM

With us better. Don't have to think so much what you are lacking but more on the points of...

How do I control such horny guys?

Now isn't that a better question to ask?

dimplesboy · #53 12-07-2015, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by DepressedGirl

Thank you every brothers and sisters for all the advise... i will think and consider properly the next step that i should take...

Really thanks a lot...

Hope you stay strong and make a decision for you, yes for you solely not him. Afterall you are 27, not 37 nor 47. Even a lady of 37 or 47 are still widely desired for, not to mentioned you are just 27, you definitely still deserve someone better! Stay strong..gd luck sis!

orangeproud · #54 12-07-2015, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by DepressedGirl

I know that everyone ask me to get out of the relationship for my own good... but you know.... It is not easy for me....

I just cant understand why so it is so difficult to make him cum... tried all ways.... what ever i can find i can learn but it is just so difficult...

I can make him stand almost instance, and stand for very long. I can feel that he have the high sensation... but making it out it is like....... forever will not cum....

is it because i am not attractive enough for him?
is it because i don have a good figure? (36C)(28)
is it because i don have good looks?
is it because the freshness is gone?

I have so many questions on my mind... I am going crazy...

Dun doubt on yourself, believe u r an attractive lady but suay meet the wrong guy unappreciated towards u. Those Jerk r born to be nitpick, they like to find bone in an egg. Your man has some character flaw, he may all the while like to verbal abuse.

U sound depressing, sis, dun fall into depression bcos of this jerk. Do u have other female buddies, hang around with them, dun always stick with him alone. Hang out with other friends, those positive friends, they will change your perspective towards life.

Take care!

飞龙在天 · #55 13-07-2015, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by DepressedGirl

In the end..... I try to help him in all aspect and land myself in deep debts...

Ps. For all who wish to know i am 27 and he is 33.

he is not worthy of your love if he take money from you.

leetona · #56 13-07-2015, 12:51 AM

Maybe he used gambir.. Purposly make himself cannot cum and blame u...

orangeproud · #57 13-07-2015, 01:22 AM

Provide him $ & sex, yet he abused u. Everything thing he also can blame on u if he is a abuser himself. Really too much!!!