Singaporean Girls / Wives - Not enough sex drive?

[Bronco]

Sad to hear alot bros same boat lik me..b4 married can do any where at any time, own target carry on ... after married knn thousand and 1 excuse canot lar tired or dun feel like sex..omg she even said sex is dirty after marriaged so many yrs... sigh!!! Even beg to make love and most of time kenna rejected..even out of sympathy ..let u song song awhile but no fun also keep rushing u to do the job fast canot kiss and touch here n ther..the last wan i told her off and saying sillypore not onli got 1 rose hor....
Up to now i really can't understand the spore woman..b4 tat can do anything u like... after ROM totally changed... Wat I know she is good mother of the kids but not a good wife which she did not do a duty...just to share my agony with u all good bros ... Be happy and eat outside lor..cheers!!

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by jasonng

9 out of 10 Chinese SG Girls whom I ask blowjobs from cited "disguising, er xin, dirty, no way!"

no bro, not that they find blowjobs disgusting, just that they deemed us unworthy of getting a blowjob from them, while they go blow someone else... same boat here!!!

[samschnur]

[QUOTE=Bronco;1967633]... Even beg to make love and most of time kenna rejected..even out of sympathy ..let u song song awhile but no fun also keep rushing u to do the job fast canot kiss and touch here n ther..the last wan i told her off and saying sillypore not onli got 1 rose hor....

.... wife rush u.... cannot kiss n touch....?
how come sounds like WL / FL.....
thank god i not married......

[dominion]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

they deemed us unworthy of getting a blowjob from them, while they go blow someone else..

that will be damn sad case...
better ditch that gal n have her blow u

[evo76]

worse is my OC likes me to paint her pussy but cannot even blow me

she says its unhygenic so 1 day I took out antibacteria wet wipes, cleaned myself then somemore got another excuse : mouth ulcer

KNN, even if my toungue is still sprained from the last painting session, I still do it, but 1 lousy ulcer also cannot. (I think permanent ulcer somemore... )

[wen_jun]

wow now i see so many sg guys suffering like me. im one who has super sex drive. need to cum daily type while my wife exact opposite from me. we have sex like maybe once a month or 2! im thinking of seeking a divorce. made a wrong choice from the start -.- marriage without regular sex is doomed.

[thanatos]

Originally Posted by bunny

I share my own actual experince and journey of discovery:

I used to think and feel very upset that I had to like "beg" for sex ... and be the one to initiate it.
As a result I stressed myself silly ....thinking why like that etc. etc.

But on hindsight ... that was me thinking only about myself ... I never put myself in my wife's shoes

Actually they are very stressed ...with work ... and then come home worry about the kids ... and also worry about whether enuf food ... need to go market or super market decide what needs to be bought and what to cook etc... do the kids need new clothes etc... etc...

Very often ... I never think much about it ... and take for granted that things are in good hands .... so feel relaxed and happy and then when I need it ... she say too tired etc. etc. etc... reality is that it is probably true ... and gals are "tuned" differently from guys ... I had a hard time to learning how to accept this ... cos we expect wives to think like us and so when I am turned on ... she shoudl be similarly turned on as well. Sad fact but very true for me

But now I have learnt how to manage my expectations, needs and demand ... and better able to manage my urges now ... when I dun get it I just laugh give a few nice hugs ... kisses tc... and she appreciates it too. if really cannot tahan then can go do HJ .... hahahaha.

Just my honest sharing ... cheers

oh Wives not enuf sex drive cos of work and home stresses ... and they are tuned differently from guys.

My humble experience as well.

After having kids, no more sex. Getting used to it. HJ when cannot tahan

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by dominion

that will be damn sad case...
better ditch that gal n have her blow u

my ex-gf... done that. found out she was eating outside when i came back from the states. cannot be lenient with such women. cannot give them chance. once yr heart softens, u r dead meat. sg men must learn to accept failure. once they can do that, women will no longer feel they have the proverbial "golden CB"... think about it... but alas, sg men, we r all too soft-hearted and not united enough.

Originally Posted by evo76

worse is my OC likes me to paint her pussy but cannot even blow me

she says its unhygenic so 1 day I took out antibacteria wet wipes, cleaned myself then somemore got another excuse : mouth ulcer

KNN, even if my toungue is still sprained from the last painting session, I still do it, but 1 lousy ulcer also cannot. (I think permanent ulcer somemore... )

u r not alone, my friend. my ex had exactly the same thing going on. i could paint her, she loves it. but no returning of favour to give me bj. only once in a long while when i did something really nice for her or some special occasions... i have said this before in this forum, but have to repeat it here. once after i gave her a long painting job, i asked for a bj. she told me to give her a massage 1st, i got mad and told her to go f**k herself. didnt touch her for a week, but she also dont bother and had the cheek to ask me what i want!!!

yours still bothered to give u an excuse of having an ulcer. my ex didnt even bother to think of an excuse. she made me feel that i wasnt worth it, so i have also made it clear that she didnt deserve anything from me.

[evo76]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

u r not alone, my friend. my ex had exactly the same thing going on. i could paint her, she loves it. but no returning of favour to give me bj. only once in a long while when i did something really nice for her or some special occasions... i have said this before in this forum, but have to repeat it here. once after i gave her a long painting job, i asked for a bj. she told me to give her a massage 1st, i got mad and told her to go f**k herself. didnt touch her for a week, but she also dont bother and had the cheek to ask me what i want!!!

yours still bothered to give u an excuse of having an ulcer. my ex didnt even bother to think of an excuse. she made me feel that i wasnt worth it, so i have also made it clear that she didnt deserve anything from me.

Bro AXL,
u are lucky as in you are not in a binding situation whereby you can just dump her.

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by evo76

Bro AXL,
u are lucky as in you are not in a binding situation whereby you can just dump her.

my condolences... guess i m luckier in the sense i found out before i got married to her. we were preparing for wedding liao...

[sitonski]

hmmmz.. share the same situation here as well..

didnt used to have this problem in the past relationship.. oni with the recent one then got such things..

make me feel like a color wolf or sex manics shitz.. once a week also can say alot.. tmd.. 1 month once then consider normal??!!!

[ahyeh]

it seems to me that singapore guys are getting "bullied" by gals. or should i say singapore guys are scared of gals..

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by ahyeh

it seems to me that singapore guys are getting "bullied" by gals. or should i say singapore guys are scared of gals..

i concur...

too many men out there r desperate, dont know of other options or wouldnt consider them and the ones i hate most, trying to be a sensitive new age guy!!! i agree being a SNAG has its advantages, but at least find a worthy enough girl to do it to... have discerning taste...

sorry for my outburst... just saw how disgraceful young sg women could be when i was out "tapao"ing food at a neighbourhood mall just now. the woman was screaming at her husband in public for ordering the wrong food for her while she was talking on the phone!!! i mean, how expensive can it be in a foodcourt? at most dont eat and order again lor... must dress the husband down in public meh? and the husband looked damn pathetic in trying to placate her!!!

[samschnur]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

i concur...

sorry for my outburst... just saw how disgraceful young sg women could be when i was out "tapao"ing food at a neighbourhood mall just now. the woman was screaming at her husband in public for ordering the wrong food for her while she was talking on the phone!!! i mean, how expensive can it be in a foodcourt? at most dont eat and order again lor... must dress the husband down in public meh? and the husband looked damn pathetic in trying to placate her!!!

... wah.... sounds like wat my ex would do......

[samschnur]

anyway, the best bj i got were all from flings or fbs, all my exes hated the idea...think sg gals need to watch more porn....