Saw messages which I shouldn't

[fairman]

Originally Posted by DalangGoh

But did her get laid by her ex bf? or she just wanna have the feelingof being in love, cared and concern for? IMHO talk to her or seek counselling. It did helps alot of couple having this kind of prob.

That I don't know. Anyway I don't wish to know too. If she still wanna to continue her way, I will do my way too.

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by fairman

That I don't know. Anyway I don't wish to know too. If she still wanna to continue her way, I will do my way too.

sorry to hear that. i sure it is painful for you. hope things work out well for you guys. hope the oversea trip can spice things up a little.

[grouchycabi]

Fariman, why don't you find out whether your wife's ex-bf is married? If yes, talk to his wife! That will stop him in his track!

[bossfei]

You should rekindle that love between your wife. Take her on dates like you used to. Make her realize what she is doing and hope for the best.
My humble opinion. Hope for the best bro.

[etct88]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

.....hire a hitman to finish the job.

wow, this is one real option. But now TS cannot exercise this, leaw.

For me, there will be a pia kar walking around oredi.

[fendy]

Bro Fairman,

Go wif your wife for the tour and tried to have a heart to heart talk and clear all matters.

it might not be what you thought and safe your family.

and if everything works out, get out of SBF and njoy your family life.

well if there's still the occassional itch, just drop by Gland for a fast 1. we are only human.

[picco]

Originally Posted by fairman

Last night have a good chat with my wife. She said she just wanna the feeling of 1st love. I said ok but be fair I will go and find my too. Both of us agree and won't divorce cos we love our kid. I have keep all the SMS as a prove in case she find a PI as some bros said. Time to find my own fling

U just fell into the trap that she wanted. To be able to seek out her so-called feeling of 1st love and also not having a divorce. She isn't even bothered whether you know about it. She has her heart on that guy and not on you anymore. If she has, she wouldn't do this to you.

If I am you, I will destroy the guy she is with right now by finding all sorts of evidence on him. Why? This guy could be married or if isn't, he might have jobs or business or anything you can find out about him. The motive is to shame this guy, cheat him or even bankrupt him.

[picco]

Originally Posted by fendy

Bro Fairman,

Go wif your wife for the tour and tried to have a heart to heart talk and clear all matters.

it might not be what you thought and safe your family.

and if everything works out, get out of SBF and njoy your family life.

well if there's still the occassional itch, just drop by Gland for a fast 1. we are only human.

No point already. His wife's heart is no longer with him. He should even avoid talking to her and just let her lead the life she wants. In time to come, his kid will get to know her mother is betraying this family. And this is something which his wife does not want the kid know.

She's married and not seeking a divorce, so do any of you think her adulterer will wait for her and not get married if he isn't or he wouldn't look for another woman who is single? Men who play with people's wife are no angel and no 1-woman faithful saint. Eventually his wife will see through this adulterer but it's all too late. TS can give his wife the freezer treatment.

[Stud00]

Bro TS,

I know you must be feeling like shit now, confused, emotionally etc. I feel the same now, as i have a similiar situation as you, except for me, its confirmed. She confessed to me.

My advice is to take it slow and easy, gather all the ammo, you can. and do what you need to do. In a adult forum like this, even though many of our fellow bros plainly say that they would fuck another person's wife, gf behind their back, but honestly, i doubt anyone in their right frame of mind would do so. Ever had an angry bf or husband coming after you with a parang? that's some thought for those who can't keep their dick outta other people's wife or gf's skirts. Personally i think that it is darn not steady!

Take it easy bro..

[Ohkui]

at times, u read fr media that couple got stucked, cud not seperate while hving sex.
tis is wat bomoh's hv made curse in the unfaithful woman, upon request fr hubby.
although it sounds malu-shameful,but it is still solid rock evidience for self defence.

[fazer6s]

Bro fairman

Do come to terms that no matter how u try to salvage things (which is a good thing) but deep down u'll always know her heart is no longer there. And if it could happen Once ..... Hmmm twice is not far away.

As for the kid, later they'll know the truth

Grap on to yr self n move on to search a new better life

Obviously the anger of hurt pride n ego is there but u'll never know that sometimes the grass is greener on the other side

As for the other man shld it be me i too will be wary that she can do it to me as well

Gd luck bro

[Malay]

Cant we like maybe hire a gal to court the guy that yur wife is seeing then use the photographs and show it to yur wife...Ask her then "is this the kind of guy that yu are willing to go for and give up everything..."

[fairman]

Just came back from Korea. We do enjoy the trip and our kid too. During the trip I been thinking... Well if she wanted to be this way, let ut be. I will go and enjoy with my own fling

[see see only]

Originally Posted by fairman

Just came back from Korea. We do enjoy the trip and our kid too. During the trip I been thinking... Well if she wanted to be this way, let ut be. I will go and enjoy with my own fling

Ha ... me second you .... we r man aren't we can take up ... can put down

[fairman]

Originally Posted by see see only

Ha ... me second you .... we r man aren't we can take up ... can put down

Agree with u bro!!! Men can go and fling, why not for lady. My wife can fling, why not me. we still can be lovely husband and wife.