My wife only give when. She is back after a drinking with friend at club. But is a kind of very good type. Other day. She say got kid Liao old Liao what is there to do. I tell her we not reach 40 what old Liao. So I think woman and man is not the same as it come to sex. Maybe is they worried about their body not as good as they are young. This is how I what feel.
I would like to be frank here. This is LAN jiao Wei. If she think we think that her body is undesirable why would we ask for sex.
There always a reason why wife distance herself. From a wife point of view, I myself love to have have a regular sex with my husband but for some reason I have not slept with my husband for abt 5 years now.
Before marriage, we did zero n I respect her to keep her virginity till we married. But we had heavy petting very often, a few times a week n she even tried to give me a BJ when I request her to try.
After marriage, we did once every 1-4 months. She swift her focus on money n money is the most impt thing to her/in this family. She don't enjoy sex at all n feel it's not a need in a marriage. Say why some ppl can do without sex n can't I do without too. She alway want me Chop chop finish so she can sleep. Rejected my request almost all the time, even hugs n kisses are very rare to come by as it's wasn't needed in a relationship just like how she feel about sex. Even if she give hug/kiss, it felt more like 应酬 me n quickly push me away. Don't feel any love from her at all. Talking n reasoning with her is like talking to wall. I rather build a marriage with my left n right hands.....
Before marriage, we did zero n I respect her to keep her virginity till we married. But we had heavy petting very often, a few times a week n she even tried to give me a BJ when I request her to try.
After marriage, we did once every 1-4 months. She swift her focus on money n money is the most impt thing to her/in this family. She don't enjoy sex at all n feel it's not a need in a marriage. Say why some ppl can do without sex n can't I do without too. She alway want me Chop chop finish so she can sleep. Rejected my request almost all the time, even hugs n kisses are very rare to come by as it's wasn't needed in a relationship just like how she feel about sex. Even if she give hug/kiss, it felt more like 应酬 me n quickly push me away. Don't feel any love from her at all. Talking n reasoning with her is like talking to wall. I rather build a marriage with my left n right hands.....
Sad to hear that. I read quit a number of reply and it seem that mostly it's the women who lost interest in sex.
Before marriage, we did zero n I respect her to keep her virginity till we married. But we had heavy petting very often, a few times a week n she even tried to give me a BJ when I request her to try.
After marriage, we did once every 1-4 months. She swift her focus on money n money is the most impt thing to her/in this family. She don't enjoy sex at all n feel it's not a need in a marriage. Say why some ppl can do without sex n can't I do without too. She alway want me Chop chop finish so she can sleep. Rejected my request almost all the time, even hugs n kisses are very rare to come by as it's wasn't needed in a relationship just like how she feel about sex. Even if she give hug/kiss, it felt more like 应酬 me n quickly push me away. Don't feel any love from her at all. Talking n reasoning with her is like talking to wall. I rather build a marriage with my left n right hands.....
that's why if nothing to eat at home, people find "food" outside to satisfy their constant raging hunger
Unfortunately majority of the ladies out there do not like/enjoy sex. Hence they don't understand why guys needs physical intimacy and often it leads to guys eating outside and get blamed for doing so. Personally, I do feel sad for men.....
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Originally Posted by Pockypig
Before marriage, we did zero n I respect her to keep her virginity till we married. But we had heavy petting very often, a few times a week n she even tried to give me a BJ when I request her to try.
After marriage, we did once every 1-4 months. She shift her focus on money n money is the most impt thing to her/in this family. She don't enjoy sex at all n feel it's not a need in a marriage. Say why some ppl can do without sex n can't I do without too. She alway want me Chop chop finish so she can sleep. Rejected my request almost all the time, even hugs n kisses are very rare to come by as it's wasn't needed in a relationship just like how she feel about sex. Even if she give hug/kiss, it felt more like 应酬 me n quickly push me away. Don't feel any love from her at all. Talking n reasoning with her is like talking to wall. I rather build a marriage with my left n right hands.....
Empathize wif bro Pockypig...so sad & sorry to hear tis from him of his wife ..tis is a typical local SG wifey who can't be bothered about the sexual needs of their husbands...he is not alone in tis problem wif his wife...there are so many others like her around...sigh...really pity their husbands...just like wat our dear sis justfuckmelah08, who is one of very few special & rare breed of understanding wifeys said...wife dun wanna give sex to hubby yet when he goes eat outside, she gets angry wif him & blames him totally for it ...so unfair...but then nothing in tis world is really fair...sigh
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Originally Posted by Ramzai
Sad to hear that. I read quite a number of reply and it seem that mostly it's the women who lost interest in sex.
Is that the main reason why men stray?
Yes, i m afraid so, bro...guys, tink & consider very carefully before u sign on the dotted line @ the ROM wif the girl you are to marry...whether the 2 of you are sexually compatible..??...to save yrself a lifetime of misery..
Devote some time to read this very truthful article about your wife becoming a mother to your own child. It is worth the read for those who think marriage guarantees a lifetime of fun (and sex).
I woke up this morning thinking about how much our lives have changed ever since we have become parents.
We used to live life on the edge, party when we wanted to and travel wherever we could – spontaneously. But today… everything is different. Our late nights out are early nights in because I’m constantly exhausted.
WE hardly ever go out alone. WE never spend enough time together…. and WE don’t communicate the way we used to.
Our 1 hour phone calls are now 5 minute instructions – calls that tell you what to buy before you come home.
I’m not the person that I used to be. I’m not the bride that you married; I know I’m not fun anymore and that is what worries me.
I’m sorry for not giving you the attention that you deserve.
I’m sorry for not kissing you goodbye this morning because instead… I had to change a dirty diaper.
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Yes, i m afraid so, bro...guys, tink & consider very carefully before u sign on the dotted line @ the ROM wif the girl you are to marry...whether the 2 of you are sexually compatible..??...to save yrself a lifetime of misery..
Devote some time to read this very truthful article about your wife becoming a mother to your own child. It is worth the read for those who think marriage guarantees a lifetime of fun (and sex).
I woke up this morning thinking about how much our lives have changed ever since we have become parents.
We used to live life on the edge, party when we wanted to and travel wherever we could – spontaneously. But today… everything is different. Our late nights out are early nights in because I’m constantly exhausted.
WE hardly ever go out alone. WE never spend enough time together…. and WE don’t communicate the way we used to.
Our 1 hour phone calls are now 5 minute instructions – calls that tell you what to buy before you come home.
I’m not the person that I used to be. I’m not the bride that you married; I know I’m not fun anymore and that is what worries me.
I’m sorry for not giving you the attention that you deserve.
I’m sorry for not kissing you goodbye this morning because instead… I had to change a dirty diaper.
If most women thought as Shan does, then it'd be up to the man to help make things work. However, most women don't thing that way.
Devote some time to read this very truthful article about your wife becoming a mother to your own child. It is worth the read for those who think marriage guarantees a lifetime of fun (and sex).
I woke up this morning thinking about how much our lives have changed ever since we have become parents.
We used to live life on the edge, party when we wanted to and travel wherever we could – spontaneously. But today… everything is different. Our late nights out are early nights in because I’m constantly exhausted.
WE hardly ever go out alone. WE never spend enough time together…. and WE don’t communicate the way we used to.
Our 1 hour phone calls are now 5 minute instructions – calls that tell you what to buy before you come home.
I’m not the person that I used to be. I’m not the bride that you married; I know I’m not fun anymore and that is what worries me.
I’m sorry for not giving you the attention that you deserve.
I’m sorry for not kissing you goodbye this morning because instead… I had to change a dirty diaper.
This is a highly bias letter IMO. It's say like only woman take care of the family that's why things change. There are guys like me who help in take care of the children. Week ends I wake up earlier than my wife, change the diaper of my baby so she doesn't have to wake up to change etc.
I'm a married mother of 2 boys (4 and 11) and my husband does not give me sex anymore since about 5 years back. We been married for 12 years and in my early 30s (married young).
To be frank, I'm not fugly. Am still slim and dresses & maintain my looks well as I work in the corporate world. I get cat-calls & praises/ good comments at work by both female & male colleagues.
Before that, our sex life was ok, frequency about 1-2 per month. Dunno wat happened after that. I tried all methods to lure him - lingerie, hints, even quarrelled about it. Even suggested counselling, to no avail.
Anyway I decided to become a rebel. I strayed.
I'm now into my 3rd affair. It ain't proud to admit it but I do have my needs. It certainly feels good to get attention and love from others but just don't understand why he's not giving it to me.
On the surface, we are like a normal family. Some of u may suggest that he also may be straying outside but I dont care any more. I just need to satisfy my needs. Sounds selfish but what to do if u were in my shoes?
I'm a married mother of 2 boys (4 and 11) and my husband does not give me sex anymore since about 5 years back. We been married for 12 years and in my early 30s (married young).
To be frank, I'm not fugly. Am still slim and dresses & maintain my looks well as I work in the corporate world. I get cat-calls & praises/ good comments at work by both female & male colleagues.
Before that, our sex life was ok, frequency about 1-2 per month. Dunno wat happened after that. I tried all methods to lure him - lingerie, hints, even quarrelled about it. Even suggested counselling, to no avail.
Anyway I decided to become a rebel. I strayed.
I'm now into my 3rd affair. It ain't proud to admit it but I do have my needs. It certainly feels good to get attention and love from others but just don't understand why he's not giving it to me.
On the surface, we are like a normal family. Some of u may suggest that he also may be straying outside but I dont care any more. I just need to satisfy my needs. Sounds selfish but what to do if u were in my shoes?
1 to 2 per month is quite less.
We are married for 15 yrs with 1 child average 1 to 2 times per week.
Nowadays we like enjoying more morning sex. Was having quickie this morning in the hotel toilet when our girl called us that she wanted to use the toilet.
There always a reason why wife distance herself. From a wife point of view, I myself love to have have a regular sex with my husband but for some reason I have not slept with my husband for abt 5 years now.
What is the reason? Would like to hear the wife perspective. I never failed to satisfy my wife but she still refused sex, we probably only have sex 1 to 3 times a year. I end up going to ML for HJ.
Ooopsss i m so sorry !..din know you were a sis all tis while...paiseh
There shd really be a way to identify gender here in tis forum so we won't be calling each other bros or sis in error...jmho
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Originally Posted by maxman
Devote some time to read this very truthful article about your wife becoming a mother to your own child. It is worth the read for those who think marriage guarantees a lifetime of fun (and sex).
I woke up this morning thinking about how much our lives have changed ever since we have become parents.
We used to live life on the edge, party when we wanted to and travel wherever we could – spontaneously. But today… everything is different. Our late nights out are early nights in because I’m constantly exhausted.
WE hardly ever go out alone. WE never spend enough time together…. and WE don’t communicate the way we used to.
Our 1 hour phone calls are now 5 minute instructions – calls that tell you what to buy before you come home.
I’m not the person that I used to be. I’m not the bride that you married; I know I’m not fun anymore and that is what worries me.
I’m sorry for not giving you the attention that you deserve.
I’m sorry for not kissing you goodbye this morning because instead… I had to change a dirty diaper.
At least tis wifey bro maxman is talking about in the article is quite understanding & apologetic towards her husband...not like many of the others who simply dun heck care about the sexual needs of their husbands ...causing them to stray into the arms of other women & then blaming their husbands in the process...sigh
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Originally Posted by sammicheng1000
This is a highly bias letter IMO. It's say like only woman take care of the family that's why things change. There are guys like me who help in take care of the children. Week ends I wake up earlier than my wife, change the diaper of my baby so she doesn't have to wake up to change etc.
Yes, bro sammicheng1000 is a good husband like many others...but @ the end of the day, those wifeys who flatly & angrily refuse sex to their husbands hv only themselves to blame for the break-up of their marriages
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Originally Posted by chanellno5
hi all, my story is the complete opposite.
I'm a married mother of 2 boys (4 and 11) and my husband does not give me sex anymore since about 5 years back. We been married for 12 years and in my early 30s (married young).
To be frank, I'm not fugly. Am still slim and dresses & maintain my looks well as I work in the corporate world. I get cat-calls & praises/ good comments at work by both female & male colleagues.
Before that, our sex life was ok, frequency about 1-2 per month. Dunno wat happened after that. I tried all methods to lure him - lingerie, hints, even quarrelled about it. Even suggested counselling, to no avail.
Anyway I decided to become a rebel. I strayed.
I'm now into my 3rd affair. It ain't proud to admit it but I do have my needs. It certainly feels good to get attention and love from others but just don't understand why he's not giving it to me.
On the surface, we are like a normal family. Some of u may suggest that he also may be straying outside but I dont care any more. I just need to satisfy my needs. Sounds selfish but what to do if u were in my shoes?
Empathize with you too, dear sis chanellno5 on yr unhappy marital situation of not getting to enjoy sex wif yr husband as you deserve or are entitled too ...You're are one of the rare good wifeys wif sexual needs tat need to be fulfilled like all of us do whether we are husbands or wives...human beings whether male or female need sex which is an impt ingredient of a marriage...now & then. But normally the reverse situation is more true tat most wifeys refuse sex to their husbands rather than the other way round...but of cos there are cases like the sis here, whose husbands are the ones refusing sex to their wifeys !..sigh
For cases like sis chanellno5 whose husbands are denying their wives their conjugal rights in marriage..there could be 2 main reasons which hopefully would help the sis analize her problem wif her husband
1) He has found some1 else more attractive or loving meeting his sexual needs...so he has no more sexual need from his wife inspite of his wife being very attractive herself...this may be a case of "familiarity breeds contempt"...guys as always like to hv more varieties & easily fall to the lure of other women..
2) He may be greatly stressed by problems @ work & in the home...so there is no desire to hv sex wif anyone...tis may be the case for tis sis
3) Very unlikely tat he simply just ain't interested in sex wif anyone
Sis chanellno5 seems to hv done her part to revive her marriage ..but to no avail from her husband...believe she can't be faulted for finding other men to satisfy her own sexual needs...but in the 3rd affair tat she is in now, she just needs to be careful of any likely complications in such affairs like STD, being a 3rd party in another marriage etc, etc...my best wishes to her for finding her sexual happiness in whichever way she tinks best for herself...to satisfy her own sexual needs..
16-11-2015, 11:51 AM
..tis is a typical local SG wifey who can't be bothered about the sexual needs of their husbands...he is not alone in tis problem wif his wife...there are so many others like her around...sigh...really pity their husbands...just like wat our dear sis justfuckmelah08, who is one of very few special & rare breed of understanding wifeys said...wife dun wanna give sex to hubby yet when he goes eat outside, she gets angry wif him & blames him totally for it 
