Found ex-colleague Chiobu Wife on dating app

[thor1981]

Originally Posted by ralliart

It's fairly obvious she wants to carry on with this 'friendship'.

From this statement, we can understand that from her POV, she may not reply or reject you due to her situation and is afraid you may take it the wrong way.

When a lady dislike you, she will either tells you up-front or simply ignore you.

This is insightful bro, tks. Definitely have received the up-front "sorry, i don't wish to see you" or lots of ignored messages over the years

in this case, you're right, it does seem like she is managing my expectations, and there was more of that last night (details to follow in my FR)

[thor1981]

FR for 13.11.2020:

Overall 9/10 date night details are below. just checked out of hotel


I had planned to meet Cynthia 7:30pm at a restaurant she suggested, also quite near her workplace. As I mentioned in this thread, I also booked a hotel nearby in case things escalated. Last time we kissed for a short time near her car, but I don't think a car is a good place for much more (for two ppl in their 40's lol)

I arrived on time, and about 7:31 got a text message:

C: "Sorry, running late from work, didn't drive today, grab is running late, be there in 5 mins, so sorry, drink on me!"

M: "No problem, see you when you get here"

Usually a good sign if a girl is running late and offers me a drink. Usually will arrive on time for business meetings, and will not offer a drink if there is no interest! But I'm not sure why she offered to buy drinks since we were meeting at a resturant

She arrived around 7:45, I was seated at our table. She looked great, fitted black dress, heels, nice necklace/earrings, just some cleavage on display. I stood up and realised immediately an issue -- in her heels, she was actually a taller than me! I'm 170cm and in her heels, she is about 173 cm. Last time she wore flat shoes, and I didn't notice. She was sort of looking down at me, which made me feel a little insecure la, but anyway, have to remember she's meeting me for a reason, so not a time to get nervous with height diff.

Once again, we shook hands, like formal business meeting, and no hug, despite kissing on the lips last time. I'm trying to be respectful of her situation, and since she chose the restaurant, I thought maybe it's a place she brings clients, friends etc.

M: Nice to see you again! You chose a great restaurant. Did you have a good day?
C: Yeah, day was good. It's nice to socialise with colleagues in the office this week after the circuit breaker. Sorry I'm so late, did you order already?
M: Oh, I was waiting for you. *I called over the server for menus*
C: Such a gentleman. On Friday night, most guys I think cannot wait to have a drink after work! How was your day?
M: (didn't want to tell her I was working from the hotel room I had checked into!!) Oh it was good, I was working online today, not yet back into the office.
C: Well, TGIF, it's nice to unwind! I didn't drive today so I could also have a drink. Last time, I couldn't drive home because YOU got me drunk!

She laughed, jokingly. Although I admit I was trying to get her drunk, I just replied "no way, you enjoyed every drink that last time!"

Cynthia looked over the menu, "are you ok with red wine" she asked.
M: Oh, um, sure (usually not common for women to order FOR me!)

Cynthia requested for a BOTTLE of a merlot on the menu. I was a little surprised again, since that is a lot of wine for 2 people!

She was sitting across the table from me. While we chit-chatted about things like when travel might start again, her interest in visiting Hong Kong for work, my own time living there, she would often fix her hair, her smooth, fair armpits coming into view and her cleavage very slightly jutting out every time she played with her hair. I admit the sight was sexy, and she didn't seem to notice I was getting turned on by it.

The conversation was not at all sexual, mostly just about work and past travel experiences. The wine came, and she suggested I try it (I'm no wine sommelier, but I took a sip and just nod like an expert).

Again, more chit chat about family, travels, education etc.. and eventually got a bit more interesting for purposes of this FR:

C: I'm sorry if I'm a bit slow to reply to messages. This week has been busy for my kids since school holidays start next week. My husband isn't very organised with his work, so I had to fill in for some home based learning activities.
M: Oh, no problem (as long as she reply my messages, no problem!), please do what you have to do.

She smiled,
C: "thank you for understanding. I don't want you to feel you have to put up with my schedule also. I know you must have other, younger women you'd like to date!"

I didn't know how to reply to this, (answer if ofc, any chiobu younger woman, I'm happy to try my luck!) but ofc, I replied more genially "Well, I really had a nice time last time, so it's ok. We're all busy with life!"

After she smiled back appreciatively, I little awkwardly asked "May I ask, have you dated other men since marriage?" (we had started on our 2nd glass of wine and ordered dinner by now)

C: *she didn't reply immediately* .. well, I guess, it depends how you define "date." I admit, when my husband's started losing interest in spending time together to focus on his other work, I didn't mind staying out later with clients, or even giving my phone number to men who approached me and asked me out. But it never went beyond that. I think I was just lonely, and I enjoyed the attention and dressing up for men who were interested in me.

(I know her hubby and I know he started his own business and from his FB updates, was traveling a lot for his work. I don't know how well it did, but I noticed he rarely included his wife in his travels. And looking at her now, I'm not surprised other bros decided to try their luck with a chiobu, lonely milf like her)

She continued ... C: "there was a client, an Italian, who was living here. I admit, I enjoyed spending long flirty evenings, with him but only talking business. I enjoyed his chemistry, but I knew he was married. He used to co-own a yacht with his Singapore friend, and one day, they invited me. I thought it was a gathering with their families, but it was only the two of them. The italian man tried to kiss me after some drinks and I had to refuse, not because I didn't like him, but I cannot mix business with personal relations.
I also felt very awkward, because his friend asked for my number and then was relentlessly pursuing me. He wanted me to travel to Bali with him, which I refused. I've never told anyone this because I think people would misjudge.

I listened. It sounded like something she had wanted to get off her chest for a while. And I also made a mental note not to request her for financial advice, in case I became her client and she decided to stop dating me bcos of that

continued..

[coypredator]

Sounds liek a similar situation im in. But you are progressing way better than I am.

Looking forward to your updated fr

[liber69]

Congrats bro on moving to the next base.

Your lady knows what she wants and is clear headed from what is read. Once the boundaries are defined clearly and I am pretty sure you both can have a good time together.

Live in the moments and live it up ：）

[lalaliang]

Bro what happened in the hotel! HHa

[thor1981]

tk u bros

contd;

The three course dinner wasn't very big servings, so our wine seemed to make conversation move that much easier. The bottle was about 2/3 finished and we had about 5 glasses each.

I heard her phone buzzing and she reached into her handbag (a very classy, designer LV bag!). And I felt a bit awkward because it was her husband calling. She spoke in Mandarin, scolding him for forgetting something he had to buy for their kids' school next week and that the shop might be closed over the public holiday. It was a little awkward, since I used to work with "Irving" (her hubby, not his real name), and I had actually seen Cynthia at company events before. Of course, based on suggestions from bros here and my own good sense, I did not mention her hubby at all. My plans were to be fucking Irving's chio wife, so didn't want to spoil her mood.

She excused herself, still talking to him, mentioning she told him she was working late that etc, and walked toward the ladies' room. She walked slowly, slightly tipsy, and I noticed her ass looked nice under her dress, cheeks and hips swaying from side to side as she walked. A brief thought passed through my mind imagining what underwear she was wearing, and what her ass looked like with those cheeks spread

I topped her glass up and mine, and she came back after about 5 minutes.
C: "Sorry, just dealing with some stuff at home. It will be a busy weekend ahead"
M: "It's ok. Please take your time. Everything ok?"
C: "Yeah, yeah, just my husband. He always calls when I'm working late, and then when I'm home, just seems indifferent to me being there. Are all guys like that after they get married?"
M: "Oh haha, well, not sure what's he's thinking with someone as pretty as you at home! " This was a cheesy line leh.. Irving would no doubt be worried that every horny guy on a Friday night is eyeing up his hot wife. And planning to fuck her brains out if given half a chance.

I called the server for the bill
M: So, I've found a place near here with a really nice view over the CBD. Shall we go see it?"

Cynthia smiled. "I don't mind a nice view of the city, sure"

After the bill was settled, we stood up. Cynthia's skin tone was glowing from the wine, and she was a little unstable on her heels (able to walk, just tipsy) giving me an opportunity to hold her hand. Her wedding ring touched my fingers and I again thought about Irving and why he would let such a hottie fall into the arms of a short chi ko pek like me.

We walked across, short distance from the restaurant to the hotel. We didn't speak, partly masks making convo difficult, but also, she was just being led by me. I was about 3 inches shorter than her, but she didn't seem to mind leh.

We went into the lift, and then out, to the room. We entered the room together, silently. She took her heels and mask off, and walked towards the window. I walked behind her.

C: It's a nice view", as she looked outside the window.
M: Not as nice as the view I have of you (cheesy ma, but the lines are still fresh in memory )

As she turned, smiling, I leaned forward and kissed her. Our tongues swirled immediately as I leaned her back against the window of the hotel. I decided now to move fast and pulled down the straps of her dress. Her lovely tits jiggled out into view, no bra, just nipples stickers (dunno correct word ma). He breasts are about a big B-cup, maybe a C cup (32C about), still full, perky and about fit into a handful. I groped one of her breasts hard, our mouths still locked and tongues swirling as she gasped.

She seemed a little hesitant, one hand going up to cover her bare breast (the other was being groped firmly in my hand). No matter, my other free hand reached under her skirt and moved her panties to one side. I was groping a little at her pussy, trying to finger her hole. I felt a nice amount of hair, underneath what felt like nice, lacey panties. As I fingered around her pussy, I heard her phone buzzing again in her handbag. Although her tongue continued to swirl around mine, while my fingers started feeling her clearly soaking cunt under her dress.

contd..

[jlinvan604]

wow good job! cant wait till hear more of the update!

[Show Stopper]

+14 upz camping here for more ^^

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by thor1981

tk u bros
. As I fingered around her pussy, I heard her phone buzzing again in her handbag. Although her tongue continued to swirl around mine, while my fingers started feeling her clearly soaking cunt under her dress.

contd..

Cheering for you!
It must be really exciting with an ex-colleague wife.
Envious But happy for you!

[Ogatree]

Superb updates, please continue bro!

[naughty4ever]

nice one la bro, shall wait for your update..

[lalaliang]

Wow sexciting story pls cont asap!!! Did u cum into her pussy?

[tuyp]

Good job..she didnt say no to look at view so its confirm green light of green lights

Though i wonder, if its normal to order a bottle of wine and not expect things to happen?

[vendomy8282]

I think best is not to mention that you know the hubby at all.

[JasonPhang]

More pls need to know more