How often does your wife give you sex? - Page 8

soggypanties · #**106** 09-05-2014, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by parrotkid

Damn fortunate you. If only i have a quarter of what u have i will be more than happy.

Perhaps insecurity plays a part? The idea of "if i fuck you/let you fuck enough" then theres no need to fuck around outside? Then the next question will be "is there a desire for me in the 1st place?"

Every individual is different. I relieve stress by sexual release. She'll lose the mood to be intimate and would rather not be touched. Right now I'm working on arresting the stress bug for her even before it affects her. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt.... All for the sake of having a release. I must add that I didn't need to work for it in the past. So to me this is a form of downhill which sometimes can be a demoralising thought.

sammyboyfor · #**107** 09-05-2014, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by genji81

I do get what you mean , i know sex isn't everything in a marriage too ..
But does that mean having sex once a month is fine and i should just go ahead and marry her ?

I can't make a decision on your behalf. You have to weigh the pros and cons and decide for yourself.

However, I can tell you straight that females in general are genetically programmed to be as horny as hell before they procreate.

However, once they've had a couple of kids, their brain triggers a release of "maternal" hormones so that nurturing of children now takes precedence over procreation which is what this thread is all about.

However, wives who are kind and caring and who care for their husbands understand that men still have sexual needs so they'll oblige by providing sex even though they don't crave for it anymore. On the other hand, the selfish ones think only of themselves and leave their men high and dry.

Once women reach menopause, hormone levels plunge and sex is the last thing on their minds. In fact, they can't even wet themselves anymore.

This is all part and parcel of the biological clock. There is no escaping the passage of time.

If your girl is not interested in sex now, I doubt very much if it will get any better as time goes by. It will probably get a lot worse so if you truly love her and want to marry her, you should get yourself another outlet for your sexual needs at the same time. I suggest a legal Geylang broad as they are the safest option.

sgiceboy · #**108** 09-05-2014, 02:12 PM

Been in this situation for the past 7years.

After 1st child, had sex less than 5 times. The last time sex was like 4years, & it was like those pull down pants, pull up top quickies. Like doing to a dead body.

Already given up hope on sex in the marriage, also given up on asking for it. Even if have sex, its like those cannot kiss here cannot kiss there, quick quick finish it.... so sians.

PCC w porn seems easier and better option. Life still goes on.....

fictionman · #**109** 09-05-2014, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by sgiceboy

Been in this situation for the past 7years.

After 1st child, had sex less than 5 times. The last time sex was like 4years, & it was like those pull down pants, pull up top quickies. Like doing to a dead body.

Already given up hope on sex in the marriage, also given up on asking for it. Even if have sex, its like those cannot kiss here cannot kiss there, quick quick finish it.... so sians.

PCC w porn seems easier and better option. Life still goes on.....

Same la bro...Once kid cums along,everything changes...

samyboys · #**110** 09-05-2014, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by soggypanties

Perhaps insecurity plays a part? The idea of "if i fuck you/let you fuck enough" then theres no need to fuck around outside? Then the next question will be "is there a desire for me in the 1st place?"

Every individual is different. I relieve stress by sexual release. She'll lose the mood to be intimate and would rather not be touched. Right now I'm working on arresting the stress bug for her even before it affects her. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt.... All for the sake of having a release. I must add that I didn't need to work for it in the past. So to me this is a form of downhill which sometimes can be a demoralising thought.

agree, sometimes we need to take away her restrictions so that both the couple can enjoy sex. otherwise each time when u failed, u feel like getting it done somewhere with someone else..

there's a pent up build up of desire to be released.

but generally i think a nice evening towards the weekend, gift, dinner etc, sets the mood for it, esp so if she's a working person

samyboys · #**111** 09-05-2014, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by sgiceboy

Been in this situation for the past 7years.

After 1st child, had sex less than 5 times. The last time sex was like 4years, & it was like those pull down pants, pull up top quickies. Like doing to a dead body.

Already given up hope on sex in the marriage, also given up on asking for it. Even if have sex, its like those cannot kiss here cannot kiss there, quick quick finish it.... so sians.

PCC w porn seems easier and better option. Life still goes on.....

its quickie sex..
but why the rush? its like just to entertain u.. she's not engaged..
why cannot kiss?

sgiceboy · #**112** 09-05-2014, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by samyboys

its quickie sex..
but why the rush? its like just to entertain u.. she's not engaged..
why cannot kiss?

Cos she always have low sex drive.

why kiss cannot har, i tell u lor,

Kiss lips, wait scare have pimple
Kiss breast, say ticklish.
Kiss vagina, say its dirty.

u say how leh........ foreplay ZERO....

ahquan12 · #**113** 09-05-2014, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by parrotkid

How about blowjobs? Do your wives blow for you guys?

probably less than 3 times since married

lonely_12kev · #**114** 09-05-2014, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by sgiceboy

Cos she always have low sex drive.

why kiss cannot har, i tell u lor,

Kiss lips, wait scare have pimple
Kiss breast, say ticklish.
Kiss vagina, say its dirty.

u say how leh........ foreplay ZERO....

band of brother.... u not alone....lol

sgiceboy · #**115** 09-05-2014, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by ahquan12

probably less than 3 times since married

BJ? once before marriage, didn't like, say it's dirty & dun like the taste of semen, so never force her. That was the only BJ i got from her....

Ha79 · #**116** 09-05-2014, 03:38 PM

Before marriage, received bj from her....

After marriage, is like none at all..... Haiz...

No foreplay at all after marriage....

Can feel how Bros here felt......

sammyboyfor · #**117** 09-05-2014, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Ha79

Before marriage, received bj from her....

After marriage, is like none at all..... Haiz...

No foreplay at all after marriage....

Can feel how Bros here felt......

I can categorically state that if anyone marries a girl for sex, you're going to end up going through life being frustrated and disappointed. There are very few exceptions.

Why else do you you see me constantly advocating that WHORES are for fucking not marrying. It's because marriage is not about sex. It's about a friendship and partnership.

Friendship is required when you want to enjoy life together. For this you need similar interests, similar ideologies, similar energy levels, similar value systems, similar intellect etc.

Partnership is when you're facing life's trials and tribulations eg money issues, starting a business together and so on. You need to face these issues as partners with each party contributing to the solutions.

If you think that just banging the same woman all your life is going to make your marriage complete, you're sorely mistaken.

ah rat · #**118** 09-05-2014, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If you think that just banging the same woman all your life is going to make your marriage complete, you're sorely mistaken.

But no sex, no bonding

maxsee · #**119** 09-05-2014, 04:00 PM

If you want good sex that last a long time with your spouse....then dun ever give your partner the marriage cert...have kids without marriage...you will most likely have great sex for a long time to come ... since you will always be in control ...

soggypanties · #**120** 09-05-2014, 04:12 PM

Hmm... Then how do we explain cheating wives since what everyone here is saying the wife loses interest after childbirth? Does the finger then point back at us men as boring husbands/partners that wives are also compelled to seek thrills outside?

Although its no secret that these days the sanctity of marriage is not like it used to be and the balance of power between genders have somewhat balanced, many of us still fall into complacency, thinking "what we see is what we get, she simply has low sex drive." I don't wanna wake up to a rude shocker simply because i took certain things for granted