Why married man still visit FL?

[Ghaymic]

Originally Posted by conquest9

Very fortunate. My wife is more conservative type. In the early years she used to give me BJ. But one day I couldn't control (actually I stupid la) and came in her mouth... chia lat... bye bye BJ from then till now...

Go south on her...must reciprocate.

I always eat her till she happy then ask her to suck me....I even swallow her juice as she gets high...

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by conquest9

Very fortunate. My wife is more conservative type. In the early years she used to give me BJ. But one day I couldn't control (actually I stupid la) and came in her mouth... chia lat... bye bye BJ from then till now...

buy her a 5k bag, it might work.

worked for a ex FB I had. you want her to work hard, you must reward

money is power...

[ilovepantyhose]

Originally Posted by conquest9

Very fortunate. My wife is more conservative type. In the early years she used to give me BJ. But one day I couldn't control (actually I stupid la) and came in her mouth... chia lat... bye bye BJ from then till now...

wah seh... u literally cause your wife to 大吃一惊

[Koei]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

buy her a 5k bag, it might work.

worked for a ex FB I had. you want her to work hard, you must reward

money is power...

5k for a bag already consider cheap.

A certain Rosy woman from Msia need to buy many 50k bags but cannot work hard liao. Poor Mr Razak

[owen10]

As people always say, 'NAN REN SHI FAN JIAN DE'.
Ever wonder why, some guys have beautiful, stunning gfs or wives but yet they still not contented, and often go outside fish for wild grass?
Ironically, sometimes these wild grass are not even pretty!
Maybe the wild grass can give something the gfs/wives cant?

[IamCIM]

Most of your replies here are somehow similar to what he told me.

We do not have kids. Newly married less than a year.
Before married I don't find he is so secretive, especially when I am using his phone with his presence.
After married, he is more secretive. And my guts telling me there's something going on.

Ok, let's put it paid service is fine. What about using dating/fling app to find fun sex? I not sure if there are hookers in there.

I have thought of seeking counselor. But how to open up that conversation to him?

To him fucking around with no emotions or feelings is nothing wrong. But he forgot about too much of that may infected with STDs, HIV. Even with caps on there may be still a chance of getting it. He received raw BJ.

I believed those girls they have to be skillful, otherwise how are they going to survive in that line? So cannot expect me to be like them right? I do give him full package and I am no dead fish. But my full service may be define as half service inside sex workers menu.

He told me he don't like BJ but I don't buy that. Sometimes I even watch porn to learn. To my surprise, he even praised that it is nice. But that was way before married.

His actions had make me stop having the idea of having kids with him.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

Most of your replies here are somehow similar to what he told me.

We do not have kids. Newly married less than a year.
Before married I don't find he is so secretive, especially when I am using his phone with his presence.
After married, he is more secretive. And my guts telling me there's something going on.

Ok, let's put it paid service is fine. What about using dating/fling app to find fun sex? I not sure if there are hookers in there.

I have thought of seeking counselor. But how to open up that conversation to him?

To him fucking around with no emotions or feelings is nothing wrong. But he forgot about too much of that may infected with STDs, HIV. Even with caps on there may be still a chance of getting it. He received raw BJ.

I believed those girls they have to be skillful, otherwise how are they going to survive in that line? So cannot expect me to be like them right? I do give him full package and I am no dead fish. But my full service may be define as half service inside sex workers menu.

He told me he don't like BJ but I don't buy that. Sometimes I even watch porn to learn. To my surprise, he even praised that it is nice. But that was way before married.

His actions had make me stop having the idea of having kids with him.

you sound like a wife who wants to please and make the marriage work. Kudos to you

I suggest you tell him how you feel when you about his activities and tell him that you want to work on the marriage. Share the secret desires of each other and try to fulfill them.

your case is not the same as wives who do not work on the marriage take and not give but expect a monk like saint like husband.

your marriage can work out, Jia you.

[youngsheldon]

Originally Posted by owen10

As people always say, 'NAN REN SHI FAN JIAN DE'.
Ever wonder why, some guys have beautiful, stunning gfs or wives but yet they still not contented, and often go outside fish for wild grass?
Ironically, sometimes these wild grass are not even pretty!
Maybe the wild grass can give something the gfs/wives cant?

So in this case is it the wife's fault ???

[Parfoom]

Originally Posted by youngsheldon

So in this case is it the wife's fault ???

Maybe , possible , probable .

[Voorhees]

I think if really your wife figure still ok and able to fulfill your requests and desires..... you would not find FL.

Some wife after giving birth dont care about figure liao.... houswife usually. My colleague got 3 kids and back to 45kg in no time. she is super hot and the guys at work always say.... wah lan eh... wife like that Tak meh pia....

Ulitmately, looks to husband will sort of dilute out so its still the sexual fulfiment part.

if your wife:

1. Blows you are like porn star
2. rims you with no reservations
3. allows anal every now and then
4. allows CIM
5. allow every position you can fuck her with
6. allows you to video your love making
7. allows you to use sex toys
8. talks about sex and fanstasies freely without judgement. example: asking her to urinate on you or asking her to finger your ass, she is receptive and ok instead of thinking you are a pervert


if its all checked or 80%, I personally will not look for FL ...

[l0v3r]

Originally Posted by Voorhees

I think if really your wife figure still ok and able to fulfill your requests and desires..... you would not find FL.

Some wife after giving birth dont care about figure liao.... houswife usually. My colleague got 3 kids and back to 45kg in no time. she is super hot and the guys at work always say.... wah lan eh... wife like that Tak meh pia....

Ulitmately, looks to husband will sort of dilute out so its still the sexual fulfiment part.

if your wife:

1. Blows you are like porn star
2. rims you with no reservations
3. allows anal every now and then
4. allows CIM
5. allow every position you can fuck her with
6. allows you to video your love making
7. allows you to use sex toys
8. talks about sex and fanstasies freely without judgement. example: asking her to urinate on you or asking her to finger your ass, she is receptive and ok instead of thinking you are a pervert


if its all checked or 80%, I personally will not look for FL ...

Yes agree. Currently, I'm getting none from the list..

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by l0v3r

Yes agree. Currently, I'm getting none from the list..

we are in the same club bro.

embrace the suck....

[MaoSanWang]

Mind is the most powerful sex organ.

IMHO, If have bad experience with spouse (husband or wife), even with the hottest babe, sometime difficult to get it on.
Eg. Wife always nag husband till he gets pissed, Husband always don't help out with house work etc.

[thedevil666]

Originally Posted by Voorhees

I think if really your wife figure still ok and able to fulfill your requests and desires..... you would not find FL.

Some wife after giving birth dont care about figure liao.... houswife usually. My colleague got 3 kids and back to 45kg in no time. she is super hot and the guys at work always say.... wah lan eh... wife like that Tak meh pia....

Ulitmately, looks to husband will sort of dilute out so its still the sexual fulfiment part.

if your wife:

1. Blows you are like porn star
2. rims you with no reservations
3. allows anal every now and then
4. allows CIM
5. allow every position you can fuck her with
6. allows you to video your love making
7. allows you to use sex toys
8. talks about sex and fanstasies freely without judgement. example: asking her to urinate on you or asking her to finger your ass, she is receptive and ok instead of thinking you are a pervert


if its all checked or 80%, I personally will not look for FL ...

A cheonging buddy told me he cheong FL for no. 2-4. He won’t let his love one to do “degrading” sex on him. So he reserve the fetish to the pros and enjoys the normal love making with his wife.

[Deadpool28]

Originally Posted by IamCIM

His actions had make me stop having the idea of having kids with him.

Hi sister. From what I read, I can see that you're trying very hard to maintain the relationship. Tbh, I too visit FL and am married. I've talked about this topic with my close buddies before, an example will be your favorite food.
Let's say your favorite food is chicken rice, you eat that for every meal for 1 month. Sometimes you will feel like trying other kind of food then ultimately come back to chicken rice again.

Imo, I think as men, we will go out "eat" no matter how good the wife is. Yes very 犯贱 but that's how men are wired. Most important thing is if engage FL, must know to play safe and always remember to go home. Play responsibly.
Of course, also depending on the frequency your husband visit FL.
Since you mentioned that you and your husband talked about it before, both of you should actively communicate. Don't forget the reason(s) that made you decided to get married. Because as humans, we always tend to forget the good things. After marriage, we all focus too much on the bad things and always expect our partner to be what we want them to be. Along the way, forgetting all the good and the reason(s) that both of you decided to get married.

I don't know what's your take on this but maybe you can try asking your husband to go for a STD check or something. Some women close one eye to their husband engaging FL as long as they don't put emotions in it and they remember that they have a home, some women cannot accept it. End of the day, go back to square one, ask yourself why did you get married?