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There are others like hep b that can spread through bodily contact too .

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bro,

keep dwelling into what has happened won't reverse the process.
What's most impt now is to check yurself and get back into health.
Going DSC for full check up is one option, but a minor STD will means
yur identity could b exposed and who know might lead to another issue
if family members know.
Another option is to make an appt n see Dr. Tan at OUB.
Private sexual health screening.
Forget about void deck GPs.
If u have the courage to do it raw, brace yourself once more and do a thorough check with Dr Tan.
Wish you good luck!

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Originally Posted by misallocated (Post 5333324)

Dear Bro's

thanks for the kind words and advice (yes boss sammyboy, I noticed that you place particular emphasis on this word, hence the need to underline :)

In fact, one bro gave a brillant, out-of-my-box idea about buying the test kit and getting the FL massuse to test for HIV. I really think thats a great idea, I would love to proceed with it but the thing is, how do I put it across to her ?

I like to think that I have high EQ and it seems to me that if I ask her to test, it would seem that I don't trust her and she might even deem it insulting since she has reiterated to her customers and on the forums that she DOES NOT do FJs.

Its not like there's any emtional entanglement involved, but I wouldn't want to piss her off and end up having to wait for another nail-biting 3 weeks.

So i'm sure that there has to be a nice and tacit way to put my message across without pissing her off since technically, she can help alleviate some of my worries for awhile but I need some creative ways to ask her.

Help needed here brothers.

An update on my emotional and physical well-being. Emotions wise, my nerves are a wreck. I have to continue being my normal gregarious self with my parents, gfs, colleauges , friends and customers and it is draining me. Try faking a smile and cracking jokes when your mind is constantly going," what the f**k have I done to myself ??!!!"

Part of my job involves entertaining my clients, bring them out for drinks at KTVs etc and the girls there do not interest me one bit at all....I would rather stay home and mope about what i stupidly did and how is it gonna affect my loved ones ? I mean, what the hell are they gonna say about me at the fucking funeral ???

Physical-wise, yes I know that symptoms do not kick in early, but still , the headaches have progressed to fevers and a flu , could be due to the weather, but , is it too much of a concidence ? I read that there's a possibility of a high fever in 3 weeks so I'm counting down but trying my best to lead a healthy lifestyle to try and prevent it from coming so as to falsely take it as a sign that things are gonna be allright.

Went to visit my new place with my GF today, great place, great facilities. She was decribing how she wants to do up the place, where's our dog gonna sleep , showing me her shortlisted IDs, cause it was over first place and she's really enthusiastic. My heart had the "sour" feeling. If things do go wrong, how to tell her ? How do i tell someone that I'm gonna ruin her life plans ?

Once again, im fucked. Nice.

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Originally Posted by misallocated (Post 5333324)

Went to visit my new place with my GF today, great place, great facilities.

If it's a condo you're referring to, those wonderful "facilities" will bring you more grief than any STD ever will. You'll be burdened for the rest of your life with having to pay for stuff you'll never use.

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Bro,

I feel for you. The same thing happened to me too. She was a KTV girl whom I got to know at Chang Ping. We got into a relationship. I was stupid enough to allow myself to fall in love with her. On one of the trips there, I did raw with her. But I ejaculated outside her. First thought is she should be quite clean as she is only 18 years old and she claimed that she seldom sleep around with customers. But after returning to Spore, I started to feel worried as there is no way I can be sure that she doesn't sleep around. The bottomline is when we come out to play, wearing the necessary protection is essential. Don't put our lives and future at risk. I hope that you will be alright. I went through the same torturing process. Waited for 3 months to confirm that I am alright.

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hi bros

got also a situation when my condom broke when coming into a sex worker. those house kind.

may i know why DSC only opens from 6.30 - 8.30pm? by the way, do they require you to furnish your particulars before the check up ?

cheers!

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Ya. Go for a check up.
Dr Tan is definitely more professional in my opinion than Shim.
Actually also don't know what's the doctor's name at Shim clinic.
One has few branches located at the heart of Sg in CBD area, one under a HDB block at a ulu location.
Somemore in Shim website, states that must shave pubic hair for physical check. Not too sure if this is a common practise or a preference so see shaved
areas.

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Originally Posted by turtlepower (Post 5335354)

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It is therefore important to go for a detail check up to make sure everything is fine.
Anything else is secondary at this point.

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Bro, quit now before you get stuck failing which it will be very very hard for you to climb out of this trap. I have been in your situation for a much longer period and regret my stupidity. Fortunately, I am cleared of illnesses and though I still miss her dearly, I have refrained from contacting her. The short-lived "special feel and enjoyment" is not worth at all and can cause you lifelong misery.

Just stop seeing her ! Hard-hearted it may seem, you should know the consequences if something goes wrong. Don't worry, I am sure that she can take it and will not take it seriously with their customers. Like my FL, she does not even call/sms to say goodbye (maybe she is angry with me?) when she left.

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dear bro
all the best and hope the result will come out negative.

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Hi TS,
don't worry too much as what is done is already done..
let me console you...
1. the girl u did raw with, she must have HIV before she can pass to you.
Even she got HIV, both of you must have open wounds or small cut on the skins to pass the virus.. in any case, I think the chances are low..
But you still can get stds...

2. just go watch some hardcore porn like gangbang, creampie, orgy clips, I sure those people got a higher chance than you to get HIV.

3. lastly for those bros out there who are scared of getting stds and HIV but cannot control your desire... I suggest you guys go to legal brothel at geylang because it is the safest place u fuck at peace... without worrying so much after a session.

Hope this will help you feel better!

3.

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Originally Posted by Msdy777 (Post 5338309)

well said bro... upz u

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Originally Posted by Msdy777 (Post 5338309)

Even she got HIV, both of you must have open wounds or small cut on the skins to pass the virus..

Please quote your sources of this wisdom.

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor (Post 5338540)

Please quote your sources of this wisdom.

no? Pls enlighten ><

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor (Post 5338540)

Please quote your sources of this wisdom.

http://www.mnaidsproject.org/learn/transmission.htm
i might misunderstand the meaning....

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Originally Posted by Msdy777 (Post 5338603)

http://www.mnaidsproject.org/learn/transmission.htm
i might misunderstand the meaning....

While the power of the internet is an impetus to inform, it is at the same time a double-edged sword, which also mislead. There's really a lot of conflicting informations revolving around the transmission of HIV.