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hmm...i'm still having doubts about your 1st question and option? U seriously mean engaging someone to perform with u in front of your bf and "guide" him at the same time?? That should be "hot" for him gal...;)
and i should expect many volunteers here...i mean MANY!!!

I sometimes do end fast with my partner, but most of the time we enjoy the process...from the build up to foreplay, and finally the missionary actions...we dun judge by "time" but by the passion we both have for each other. Maybe what's lacking here is the "communication" and "passion" of engaging u or ur bf is lacking.

The build up, foreplays, some dirty talks, oral sex should increase the level of enjoyment, not just how "long" one's could manage...

just my humble thoughts...

as for Q2, i;m afraid i can;t help much...cheers

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Pratical on ... .. ???

How do we help ?? :D

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Maybe u and your guy want to watch porno vids together and learn some sex stunts or consult a doctor on his problems

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i think ur too bothered about the timing..... try longer foreplay and understanding what makes him tick is important.... when guys get too arouse they will lose control.... so even as a gal u can control when he comes.... like when u know he is cumming.... stop cool down... by pulling it out and just cuddle and kiss.... then when is less arouse start again.... if he cums half way.... nevermind try again.... pratice makes purfect ;)

to really enjoy its not only the time when he goes into u.... its the whole process from the seduction.... to the foreplay... then to the intercourse

try guiding him to really understanding the whole process.... like us Bros here none of us here will know so much unless we tried and learn from pass experience :D

take it as a learning step for the both of u.... explore each other.... learn and grow together

Just my 2 cents okie

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Dirty Hairy, i understand.. it can be a curse sometimes when you're a good fucker :D maybe you can try those virbator rings for condoms... fucking awesome... and perfect for grinding plus 2x the effect at half the time lol

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I can teach you to teach him; but first contact me to contact you ;)
Pm or email me.

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Miss Woo...
Since you didn't give your age I presume that you are both in your early to mid 20s? Basically there is nothing wrong with both of you. Sad to say if we men are honest we are far from the being the studs that we hope to be or you ladies hope to have.

Honestly most of us when young, would ejeculate before the lady unless she is highly sensitive and can cum easily. So for the smart guy if he wants to please the lady then he must be prepared to work hard. The trick is lots of foreplay... use lips tongue fingers... sex toys if she don't mind. Most ladies love oral sex and the man's tongue can outlast his dick anytime! (Ladies... men love to be blown too and bj also helps him to last longer when it cums to fj).

That said, Miss Woo, you have to ask yourself... is your self sextisfaction the most important factor in your relationship? If yes... then I am sorry to say you are both a mismatch. Better to face the truth now than later. But if his other qualities make up for his lack of virility, than a good heart to heart talk with him should do the trick... provided his ego can take it. Suggest to him more foreplay, oral sex, use dildo or vibrator to let you cum a few times before he insert.

The good thing is with age, he should be able to last longer.

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Oh 'Lady',

You seems to be here for attention more than concern for your 'boyfriend'. May i know when was the last time you had your backside poked? may i suggest that your 'bf' could be fast bcoz after sometime with 'you', your bf might be just obliging the process... cover your face and quickly shoot ur base! if u honestly know what i mean! :p .... so pls dun misled the bros here and develop fantasy on you la... :D

Or Mi To For!! ;)

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Hmmm...:rolleyes:

Great mind thinks alike..

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My dear girl, as the old saying goes, practice makes perfect (or at least close to perfect we.. or at least better..) your bf dont have alot of expreience from the way you put it so dont jump the gun, and the getting someone to do a practical on you... if your bf isnt open minded enough, it can go very wrong...(or too open minded for that matter but thats another story)

have a nice chat with him and hopfully both of you can come to a mutual agreement/solution.

according to an article i ahve seen some where, on average, a guy cums after 4 to 5 mins of constent thrusting. so it might be one, he's normal, just not good enough to satisfy you, or two, he is suffering from premature ejaculation.

Cheers and good luck

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waa.... so many volunteers for the practical session. but what is the criteria to apply? haha :D

but seriously.... maybe sexual therapy or counselling would be a better idea. for example, there's a Sex Counselling & Therapy Clinic at Thomson Medical Centre. do a search and you can find plenty of such services around ;)

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OMg BRO!!! you are about the only one here who is giving proper advise lol~

take his advise and seek proper medical help.

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Maybe you would first like to speak to him? If you are not getting your pleasure from intercourse, the least he could to is to try to pick up cunnilingus and improve on his foreplay, such that you would be in a heightened state of excitement before he penetrates.

You should put it seriously to him, have a heart to heart talk. If he is concerned about your feelings he would make an attempt to learn more techniques to improve himself rather than to have u run here asking for help.

I think having a guy bonking his gf and teaching him wat to do isn't going to do much for his ego....;)

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presumptous mate.. I definitely wouldn't come here for attention; i'm better off hanging out at bala or st james for drinks. I get real attention if i so need that.

Would appreciate better input. thanks.

And just to clear the air, it is not my purpose to invoke fantasies. Thanks.