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Bro... No worries... Will give an update by tmr.... Me just back from biz trip.... Take care and enjoy yr trip....

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Lucky work 3 days got 3 day to enjoy. Hehehe. Fully loaded to war

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Nice heart touching story.

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As usual her clubbing attire make me feel uneasy.... ( Well.. that is her job.. Nothing can be done about it...)

Eve: Hi...
Me: Hi... ( Somehow... i can feel there is a great distance between us..... we r no longer as close compared to the earlier days....)

Eve: I am starving.... just woke up.... shall we have BK?...
Me: Ok.... sure...

Soon we managed to find a corner seat and was soon settling down to our dinner....

Eve: So what is up...
Me: Finish yr dinner first and we shall tok abt that....
Eve: k then....

Frankly speaking... i do not have much appetite for dinner as i am busy organizing my thoughts... for the discussion with her..... Things have changed... a break up is inevitable if she do nt have the desire to maintain this relationship....

Soon she was done with her dinner........

We exchanged glances at each other and for that few moments we remain silent........

Me: Dear.... i can sense that things r no longer the same....
Eve: Wat do u meant?...
Me: As in your heart is no longer with me....

There is a long pause after this statement....

Eve: I am sorry..... Guess i am nt mentally prepared for commitment in the relationship yet.....

At this statement from her.... i can feel the heartache... (Though i am mentally prepared for the break up... somehow i can still feel the pain......)

Eve: It is nt yr fault... u have a gd bf...
Me: Well.... there is no right to wrong when feelings r concerned ba...... ( I finally broke my silence)
Eve: u r a gd bf... but at times i need a lover instead....

I was shocked at this statement from her as i have difficulties trying to understand her point....)

Eve: U see a lover is someone who required lesser commitment as compared to a bf ba...
Me: k... ( i am beginning to get a glimpse of her rationale but yet at the same point of time... i find it hard to accept.... as i am a old fashioned man ba..... to me a r/s is one which is meant to be simple... but also a form of commitment too...)
Eve: I knew yr thinking.... that is y i feel guilty and yet moved at times when i c u willing to do so much things for me.....
Me: I am just fulfilling my duty as a bf... that is all.......
Eve: Sorry for hurting u... u deserved a much better gf.......

Again there is a long pause after this statement from her....

Me: Guess it is partly my fault for nt being to fulfill you emotionally....( At this point of time... i am doing my best to push back my tears as i can sense she is emotional too upon hearing this statement from me.....)

For the last time... we were holding our hands.... tightly...

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Eve: Thanks for being always so understanding.. guess i will not forget u that easily....
Me: U r going to be late for work le.... let me send u to the taxi stand.....

Slowly we walked to the taxi stand.... ( As usual... i put my hands deep in my pocket......)

Eve: R we still friends...
Me: yup of course.....

It does nt take long before her taxi comes.........

As i open the cab door for her... she suddenly turned around and give me a hug.... a parting hug ba....

Eve: Pls take care of yrself....
Me: U too.....

With that my relationship with her have ended.... The shortest relationship of my entire history... which lasted only a year or so......

A few months after the break up.... we met again for dinner..... she request for a patch up after she have went through some rough patches in a r/s but i declined in the idea as i do not want to be hurt again.....

Sorry bros as i took a long time to update this story... one of the stories which remind me of the sad past.... unlike the break up with Yvonne... this break up have inflicted a different kind of wounds in my heart... more to betrayal ba........

Nevertheless i would still like to thank the support of the brothers and sisters for your kind support in this thread.... Appreciate it..... Thanks and God bless yr familes....

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分手快乐
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Thanks sis for the sharing of this song...

Indeed at times.. it is easier to let go than to hold on to the relationship tightly....

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Nice song, my wife's favorite singer.
How nice it would be if every 分手 is 快乐.

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This for bro zerofighter...
Who will she be...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ETENrv8cnU

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Nice song bro... well done... thanks for sharing....

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Wa bro so fast finished. I eating lunch n just noticed it's THE END. Tq bro for this story. The front part is abit the same as mine ex. My is a KTV boss with a daughter n my Mum is those old thinking type n she cannot accept this type of lady in those day(about 18 years ago).

Good day n Good Health to U n family.

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Yup... those days r the more tradional thinking....

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Thanks TS for the story

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Interesting story ;)

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Came across yr story..
If it's real, I hope you are wiser. Once a whore, always a whore.
Don't ever try to change or love one, it's not worth yr time.

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Nice sharing TS, thanks! :)